I've had a g-spot orgasm, but not a clitoral one. Have you had only g-spot, only clitoral, both? What did you do to "fix" it? I find the clitoral stimulation too strong no matter what I do and it's discouraging!
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06/14/2012
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06/14/2012
My wife was 100% clitoral for our first 10+ years - but now she's all about blended orgasms. It's been a fun ride - wish we had gotten here sooner.
06/14/2012
Have you tried stimulating your clitoris indirectly, such as through clothing/underwear?
06/14/2012
WOW! I thought I was the only one, Ive been working on trying indirect stimulation and I find that much nicer
06/14/2012
Indirect stimulation can work wonders. You can also go at the base of the clit - not the part that pokes out, but the part nearer to your pubic bone. I've had some pretty nice orgasms from that.
06/14/2012
I know for sure clitoral. I'm not so sure about g-spot though. I can have one with just sex with my fiance and no clitoral stimulation but from what I have read I don't think it's g-spot. We tried stimulating the g-spot with atoy once and it was painful to me, like crampy and I didn't like it. I have a g-spot toy I like (G-Ki) but I still don't think I'm having a g-spot orgasm because I don't get that need to pee feeling.
06/15/2012
I thought I was the only one who only had g-spot orgasms!
Good to know I'm not alone!
Good to know I'm not alone!
06/15/2012
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I'm actually blessed enough to have both... all the time! I don't know, they just happened for me. I figured the clitoral thing out REALLY early on. Lol. I would say try tiny finger strokes. I mean barely touching. Get some really slippery lube, lie down and use your lubed fingers to really, really lightly rub. The lubricant will help soooo much. I'd recommend using Liquid Silk, or even better, try Intimate Organics' Intense Clitoral Gel as a "clitoral lube." It's not intense at all, but adds some nice sensation. I LOVE that stuff. It never fails me. You could even just try using the palm of your hand to "grind" against. Since things are so very sensitive down there for you, this may be a good option. It works for me! Shhh!
Originally posted by
remember.me
I've had a g-spot orgasm, but not a clitoral one. Have you had only g-spot, only clitoral, both? What did you do to "fix" it? I find the clitoral stimulation too strong no matter what I do and it's discouraging!
06/15/2012
I believe I've had only clitoral. I've had some orgasms during intercourse, but I think it was because of the friction on my clit as well. Very curious about exploring the g-spot more.
06/15/2012
I'm only able to have cliotoral and that's only with strong vibrations, clitoral gel, and time. I've never had a vaginal, g-spot or blended, but that's my goal. I keep buying toys to try out for vaginal orgasms.
06/15/2012
depends on my mood what i like more
06/29/2012
can have both with certain positions and clitoral stimulation
06/29/2012
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Yes, I have. Unfortunately any stimulation just seems too strong no matter what!
Originally posted by
Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
Have you tried stimulating your clitoris indirectly, such as through clothing/underwear?
07/02/2012
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Nope, you're not alone! I enjoy it, I'm glad to just have an orgasm finally but I do wish I could have both lol!
Originally posted by
CoffeeCup
I thought I was the only one who only had g-spot orgasms!
Good to know I'm not alone!
Good to know I'm not alone!
07/02/2012
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Lol thanks I'll try that!
Originally posted by
K101
I'm actually blessed enough to have both... all the time! I don't know, they just happened for me. I figured the clitoral thing out REALLY early on. Lol. I would say try tiny finger strokes. I mean barely touching. Get some really slippery
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I'm actually blessed enough to have both... all the time! I don't know, they just happened for me. I figured the clitoral thing out REALLY early on. Lol. I would say try tiny finger strokes. I mean barely touching. Get some really slippery lube, lie down and use your lubed fingers to really, really lightly rub. The lubricant will help soooo much. I'd recommend using Liquid Silk, or even better, try Intimate Organics' Intense Clitoral Gel as a "clitoral lube." It's not intense at all, but adds some nice sensation. I LOVE that stuff. It never fails me. You could even just try using the palm of your hand to "grind" against. Since things are so very sensitive down there for you, this may be a good option. It works for me! Shhh!
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07/02/2012
both
07/02/2012
I've had both; and blended...but it's not a 'regular' thing. I don't think I've had a G-Spot orgasm for a long time. Mostly clitoral orgasms now. But, I'm not complaining
07/05/2012
I can have both
07/05/2012
i would look for a lower powered vibe to start of with
07/21/2012
I had plenty of clitoral orgasms long before any g-spot ones, however I'm one of those people who finds strong clit vibes painful, so perhaps my favorite vibe would work for you. I really love the Jimmyjane Little Chroma, because the pitch is never painful. It's the only vibe I can stand to have touch me right after orgasm, and I can have multiples with it.
07/21/2012
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Both are totally awesome
Originally posted by
remember.me
I've had a g-spot orgasm, but not a clitoral one. Have you had only g-spot, only clitoral, both? What did you do to "fix" it? I find the clitoral stimulation too strong no matter what I do and it's discouraging!
07/26/2012
I started with clitoral, then g-spot. I now have both but the g-spot one doesn't happen all the time.
07/26/2012
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clitoral only
Originally posted by
remember.me
I've had a g-spot orgasm, but not a clitoral one. Have you had only g-spot, only clitoral, both? What did you do to "fix" it? I find the clitoral stimulation too strong no matter what I do and it's discouraging!
07/26/2012
clit only but sometimes clit and g spot
08/22/2012
Man, I am jealous of you. Vaginal/g-spot orgasms are deeper and more powerful. It's easier for me to have a clitoral orgasm. I wish I could tell you how, but it's different for every woman. For me, I started out rubbing myself, and that's how I come easiest to this very day. You might want to just try using your finger and see how it goes. I like to use firm, indirect pressure (like on the side of my clit.) Direct pressure hurts.
08/22/2012
Clit orgasms are much easier to come by for me. When I started out, I'd typically rub myself while I still had panties on, and that helped lessen the intensity of stimulation. I would try that. Also, rubbing on the side of the clit, which is good indirect pressure if you're not used to or don't like the full stimulation. As you get used to more direct pressure, low-intensity vibes might suit you.
08/22/2012
Clit orgasms for me.
08/22/2012
I didn't start having clit orgasms until 2 years after my first orgasm. I didn't like when people would go down on me. It was like it was too sensitive. Ironically, I had my first one when using a rather strong vibrator.
08/28/2012
It was actually the result of this over-enthusiastic guy I was with using a Hitachi on me It took FOREVER and I kept telling him it wouldn't work and I was too sensitive. I'm glad he didn't stop though. It was super unexpected (obv). Then I was able to do it to myself using indirect stimulation with a Hitachi wand or direct with weaker vibes (it actually happens for me faster with the Hitachi, so I usually stick with that). I still am unable to orgasm from oral, I've come close...but my boyfriend now is super enthusiastic about making it happen...so maybe...
I hope this helps.
I hope this helps.
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