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Contributor: Mr2 Mr2
hey everyone,

I'm new here, so if I'm repeating another OP, kick me to the related thread, please.

I own an 11-incher with a suction cup, how do I go balls deep?

When I squat down, it goes in about 6.5 inches and seems to stop, like hitting a wall.
I put all of my weight on it - no dice. Tried different lubes - same result. Rode for 20 minutes - doesn't help either.
It's straight and the right girth, but still...
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Contributor: Ms. Scarlet Eve Ms. Scarlet Eve
Hey love I can't answer your question. But I wanna ask a question. Just started anal and I LOVE it Jesus what have I been missing. However, I can't find lube that works. I put it on and I get a few good strokes then it hurts again. Any advice? Sorry to answer your question with a question.
08/23/2021
Contributor: Mr2 Mr2
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Originally posted by Ms. Scarlet Eve
Hey love I can't answer your question. But I wanna ask a question. Just started anal and I LOVE it Jesus what have I been missing. However, I can't find lube that works. I put it on and I get a few good strokes then it hurts again. Any ... more
I'm no expert

With my ex we got her butt plugs and dildos.
She cleaned out, kept the plug in, and we had regular sex.
Then I'd eat her out and remove the plug.
THen used fingers and no dick.
Finish

After some time, she could take dildos after fingers.
When we got to my size, I'm average 6"x 1.5" we tried anal, but she said it hurt.
So we bought one more dildo that was half an inch wider and longer. Narrow head flares out to wider base.
Again it took some time for her to get off on it.

Sometimes we stopped dildo play on her and just went for PIV, sometimes stopped altogether, when she said, 'It doesn't work out today, let's stop.'
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So, when she managed to take a dildo that was wider than my cock, we started having adequate anal. I could thrust in her, and there was no pain. But it was a long journey, maybe half a year, maybe one year.
Hope that helps

PS she didn't take that bigger dildo to the base, btw
08/25/2021
Contributor: ToyLover99 ToyLover99
I’d suggest putting it on a wall and pushing back into it. Also, keep it slightly higher than your ass. If you feel it stop arch your back and ass until you feel like it will go in further.
08/26/2021
Contributor: Mr2 Mr2
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Originally posted by ToyLover99
I’d suggest putting it on a wall and pushing back into it. Also, keep it slightly higher than your ass. If you feel it stop arch your back and ass until you feel like it will go in further.
same result.
08/26/2021
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
If it's fairly firm with no give/flexibility It may never go in all the way.
A flexible cushy dildo would be easier. Like the BD Chance. Or a jelly material dildo. Some the double dils are jelly. Some use condoms on non silicone toys.

Thick is one thing, very long is another.
08/26/2021
Contributor: Robin Goodfellow Robin Goodfellow
Quote:
Originally posted by Mr2
hey everyone,

I'm new here, so if I'm repeating another OP, kick me to the related thread, please.

I own an 11-incher with a suction cup, how do I go balls deep?

When I squat down, it goes in about 6.5 inches and seems ... more
When doing deep anal insertions you are leaving the rectum and passing into the sigmoid colon which has a sphincter muscle just like the other one you penetrated on the way to get there. Patience, practice, lube and google are your friend. Do not force anything or you can seriously injure yourself. There are good guides online from advanced practitioners.

Long dildos with small diameter that are soft & flexible is your best bet to get started. You also have to do much more thorough cleaning with a proper enema if you are going upstairs.
Many, like myself find it’s just not worth it to make it a regular part of play (training). It is very involved. The sensation was more odd/interesting than pleasurable. I found training for girth to be much more rewarding, orgasmic, and ultimately more convenient. My two cents would be train for anal fisting, (lol the conservative approach), it was much more satisfying than depth for me.
08/27/2021
Contributor: Mr2 Mr2
Quote:
Originally posted by Robin Goodfellow
When doing deep anal insertions you are leaving the rectum and passing into the sigmoid colon which has a sphincter muscle just like the other one you penetrated on the way to get there. Patience, practice, lube and google are your friend. Do not ... more
" There are good guides online from advanced practitioners."
for example?

"train for anal fisting, (lol the conservative approach), it was much more satisfying than depth for me."
What's the difference?
Yes, fisting starts with something of a hand-fist size, but don't you eventually want to get the whole arm inside in the long run?
How is it different from the depth play?
08/28/2021
Contributor: Mr2 Mr2
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
If it's fairly firm with no give/flexibility It may never go in all the way.
A flexible cushy dildo would be easier. Like the BD Chance. Or a jelly material dildo. Some the double dils are jelly. Some use condoms on non silicone ... more
"Thick is one thing, very long is another."

What do you mean?

"A flexible cushy dildo would be easier"
erm, and who are the firm, long and wide dildos for?
There's only so much space before it hits the cervix, the sigmoid puts a barrier on the other end.
Are they only made to mooch money from the customers and sit in the locker?
08/28/2021
Contributor: Unbareablyaware Unbareablyaware
Quote:
Originally posted by Mr2
hey everyone,

I'm new here, so if I'm repeating another OP, kick me to the related thread, please.

I own an 11-incher with a suction cup, how do I go balls deep?

When I squat down, it goes in about 6.5 inches and seems ... more
Have you tried pushing in different directions? Try laying on your back and breath, just relax as much as possible and try different angles of entry, Found mine was back and to the right at about 20deg.
08/29/2021
Contributor: Mr2 Mr2
Quote:
Originally posted by Unbareablyaware
Have you tried pushing in different directions? Try laying on your back and breath, just relax as much as possible and try different angles of entry, Found mine was back and to the right at about 20deg.
unfortunately, it's solo play for me. No one to push it, while I'm lying.

Is your toy squishy or firm?
08/30/2021
Contributor: Ms.pinkannal love Ms.pinkannal love
Quote:
Originally posted by Mr2
hey everyone,

I'm new here, so if I'm repeating another OP, kick me to the related thread, please.

I own an 11-incher with a suction cup, how do I go balls deep?

When I squat down, it goes in about 6.5 inches and seems ... more
I am new to all of this, so I was wondering, won't that be painful?
My boyfriend and I ,me for the first time try a small one, boy blown me away. But I am thinking of trying this. But I just want to try it. The size scares me
09/01/2021
Contributor: Leil@ Leil@
(EdenFantasys)
Quote:
Originally posted by Ms.pinkannal love
I am new to all of this, so I was wondering, won't that be painful?
My boyfriend and I ,me for the first time try a small one, boy blown me away. But I am thinking of trying this. But I just want to try it. The size scares me
Better do it gradually; I mean, increase the size from small to bigger to avoid pain. Consider starting with anal kits that can ease the process of stretching.
09/02/2021
Contributor: Mr2 Mr2
Quote:
Originally posted by Ms.pinkannal love
I am new to all of this, so I was wondering, won't that be painful?
My boyfriend and I ,me for the first time try a small one, boy blown me away. But I am thinking of trying this. But I just want to try it. The size scares me
if you are new, try link or link

You've got a BF, so a double dildo would be great for both of you, plus it's very soft. You can insert it as far as Bad Dragon tentacles.

My 11-incher is not for beginners, unless you first work out with 1.5" and then 1.75"
09/02/2021
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Mr2
"Thick is one thing, very long is another."

What do you mean?

"A flexible cushy dildo would be easier"
erm, and who are the firm, long and wide dildos for?
There's only so much space before it hits the ... more
As you mentioned in latter post, BD Tentacle can go in deeper. As it is flexible and can curve. Companies will make something if someone will buy it. Perhaps some people's anatomy's are different. Or they are bigger people. Very big people, big everywhere and all over. Including inside. Certainly a person over 6'6+ may be able to take something larger than a 4'-5'.5" person.

I saw this lady just the other day. Big, big.( not fat, big boned, big tits, big bootie, big legs. No way she would settle for a little...... anywhere.
09/02/2021
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Ms. Scarlet Eve
Hey love I can't answer your question. But I wanna ask a question. Just started anal and I LOVE it Jesus what have I been missing. However, I can't find lube that works. I put it on and I get a few good strokes then it hurts again. Any ... more
Anal shouldn't hurt. Take your time going bigger and'or deeper. I would suggest Slipper Stuff Gel. Very thick, googy and sticks to toys/dildos. I would advise against any "numbing stuff."
09/02/2021
Contributor: Cazmobi Cazmobi
Quote:
Originally posted by Ms. Scarlet Eve
Hey love I can't answer your question. But I wanna ask a question. Just started anal and I LOVE it Jesus what have I been missing. However, I can't find lube that works. I put it on and I get a few good strokes then it hurts again. Any ... more
My wife and I enjoy anal very much so and I enjoy solo ass play (trying to get up the nerve to ask her to join me and try pegging). When it comes to lube we use a water based anal lube. Water based is safe for most toys and isn't sticky. I have found its not so much the lube but the quantity. With anal there is no natural lubricant so more is better when playing. Also start with smaller toys or plugs until you can fully relax and enjoy.
10/18/2021
Contributor: wetterisbetter wetterisbetter
I realize that I’m late to the party and maybe you’ve got this sorted already, but I just came across this thread. I agree with a couple of the posts, length isn’t always as satisfying as girth. There is no second P-spot to find, the first one is enough of a gift from God. That being said, I personally love watching and feeling as many inches as possible disappear inside of me. I don’t know what it is about it that really gets me going, but I love it. So I understand where you’re coming from in your desire to go deep.

I can relate to “hitting the wall.” There is definitely a point where something different has to happen internally. You need a few things to continue on your journey, sufficient lube goes without saying, but a flexible toy and relaxation are also key. At first, when getting stuck I thought I had maxed out and that’s all I could do, but then one day I met the Double Ender and that all changed. It’s the perfect combo of length (at 17”) and flexibility and has a wonderfully small head on one end to get you started. If it had a flared base it would be even better, but then they would have to change the name.

For me, just slightly more external pressure when I got stuck (no pain involved) suddenly got things moving again and I was free to go as deep as I was comfortable with, and I was quite comfortable. It is a strange feeling to have something very deep inside of you, but also very exciting. Once you figure out what it takes to get past your sticking point you’re golden.

As you get more comfortable with going deep, try the O-Flexer. I’ve tried to link to it twice, but keep losing my entire post when I leave this page, so I’ll let you find it yourself. It’s not as long as the Double Ender, but a bit wider, a bit firmer, and the added vibrations will have you lost in pleasure. Good luck on your journey!
03/07/2022
Contributor: Leil@ Leil@
(EdenFantasys)
Quote:
Originally posted by wetterisbetter
I realize that I’m late to the party and maybe you’ve got this sorted already, but I just came across this thread. I agree with a couple of the posts, length isn’t always as satisfying as girth. There is no second P-spot to find, the first one is ... more
Here is the O-Flexer link
03/07/2022