Deep throat or Anal: Which was a harder act to learn?

Contributor: Sir Sir
Deep throating I had to actually learn. I didn't "learn" anal, honestly. The few times I've been on the receiving end, I was one of those "just take it like a man" types, and I didn't really think much about it. I suppose that you could say that I learned sex, though, right? I'm only a Top now, but it did take me a while to learn how to actually use my penis. So that's one way that I learned anal.

Deep throating, on the other hand, required a ton of practice. I still sometimes have difficulty with it, but I manage. It's also a relaxation thing though, making sure to push away that thought of gagging when the penis moves into the throat. Mm, but I love the feeling, so it's worth it.
09/03/2011
Contributor: PaleBeauty6 PaleBeauty6
I have thrown up while trying to DT. my bf was very supportive, and I am working on it.
09/11/2011
Contributor: LilLostLenore LilLostLenore
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Originally posted by Yoda
I'm not a woman, but deep-throating has got to be incredibly hard to do. Most people have an involuntary gag reflex, and I'm not sure how on earth you ladies override it.
agreed i can do it but every now and then i gag.
09/17/2011
Contributor: fabidefabi fabidefabi
Anal since i dont have a gag reflex lol
09/17/2011
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
Anal has ended up being fairly easy for me (and awesome! yay!). I wish I was better with DT, but it is really tough with the whole gag issue. But if I had to pick one over the other, I'd prefer to have an easier time with anal, really.
09/18/2011
Contributor: khobgood khobgood
Quote:
Originally posted by 0letitgrow
What took you guys longer to get used to and able to comfortably enjoy ANAL or DEEPTHROATING?
I'm still working on my gag reflex for deepthroating. As far as anal goes, I learned it was easier if I experimented on my own with toys first. Helped me get used to the feeling. Then with my partner, it seemed to work the best if I had already had an orgasm (I'd be more relaxed), and/or if I was stimulating my clit at the same time. The stimulation helped keep me relaxed and take my mind off of the anal.
09/22/2011
Contributor: Silverdrop Silverdrop
I have never attempted to deep throat, and don't want to. I've never been asked for it, either. Is this something most men expect of their partners?!

Anal wasn't easy, but I never had any real opposition to it. It was always just something to play around with.
09/22/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
I'm trying to find a way to make DTing easier for people. I learned to DT over a few years. I had to learn to "open" my throat because some of the meds I have taken are Horse Pills and you have to open your throat for them, or you'll gag and choke. (It's a horrible feeling. I once, while gagging on a stuck pill, offered a woman $5.00 for the last of her Coke in a cup at a festival, because I ran out of water! She gave me the Coke for nothing, the hardest part was not thinking about the germs, for me. )

There is a technique for opening the throat so you simply don't gag. I can do it, but explaining it is difficult. It's a sensation based technique.

I'll have to think of a way to describe how to do it, other than practicing by swallowing huge Calcium Tablets.
10/12/2011
Contributor: Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
I think deep throating is harder to do.
10/12/2011
Contributor: -BillD -BillD
Deepthroating took me a lot of time and practice to figure out.
10/12/2011
Contributor: jenn g jenn g
Quote:
Originally posted by zeebot
Helpful tip: smiling suppresses your gag reflex!
Really? Thank you!!
10/21/2011
Contributor: jenn g jenn g
I want to deep throat so badly, but just can't do it. I keep trying though...
10/21/2011
Contributor: starklover starklover
Quote:
Originally posted by zeebot
Helpful tip: smiling suppresses your gag reflex!
Thank you
10/24/2011
Contributor: NavyDoll87 NavyDoll87
Deep throating is easy for me depending on how I'm positioned. It still is a bit more difficult to get comfortable with than anal sex, but I'm trying.
10/30/2011
Contributor: Eliza Eliza
I think that I would have more trouble deep throating. I haven't tried anal, but my gag reflex is pretty intense and I have trouble just giving head sometimes. I'm slowly trying to learn to take my partner deeper into my mouth, but it's going to take a long time.
11/03/2011
Contributor: SugarLips SugarLips
still working on anal but its a fun process!
11/09/2011
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
Anal, it still scares me quite a bit, and we've never gotten to full penetration. My boyfriend has never even attempted to get his penis in there, hasn't even asked, I think that part scares him too.
11/15/2011
Contributor: Moein Moein
Never for both tech. Anal is not prefered socialy and as a dirt place to get in, where deep throat is unpleasant for my wife.
11/16/2011
Contributor: A Woman And Her Wand A Woman And Her Wand
Deep throating! My mouth is tiny and holding it open locks my jaw and it hurts. I want to do it, but haven't been able to yet.
11/17/2011
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
Not actively working on it really, but deep throat is harder in my opinion.
11/17/2011
Contributor: eroticmutt eroticmutt
Quote:
Originally posted by 0letitgrow
What took you guys longer to get used to and able to comfortably enjoy ANAL or DEEPTHROATING?
I dont do either
11/24/2011
Contributor: allinonekid allinonekid
Deep throating for sure
11/24/2011
Contributor: 12345678 12345678
Definitely deep throating
11/24/2011
Contributor: CreamySweet CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by 0letitgrow
What took you guys longer to get used to and able to comfortably enjoy ANAL or DEEPTHROATING?
I'm blessed and gifted in the deep throat area - very very weak gag reflex. I have been able to go balls deep since I started blowing guys in high school. Still haven't got the anal thing worked out though lol.
11/24/2011
Contributor: Kendrir Kendrir
DT. Gag reflexes are a pain.
12/01/2011
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by 0letitgrow
What took you guys longer to get used to and able to comfortably enjoy ANAL or DEEPTHROATING?
I am still working on both really. Anal takes a while to get used to, but for me it can get very pleasurable. I have no clue how deep throat can ever be comfortable for pleasurable.
12/01/2011
Contributor: switzerland switzerland
deepthroat has been a lot more difficult due to my gag reflex. i've been able to relax and get a little farther each time we try anal.
12/04/2011
Contributor: GRRRRR GRRRRR
anal i think
12/05/2011
Contributor: biancajames biancajames
Anal has more germiness and pain factor. Deep throat is just a question of being relaxed and going slow.
12/05/2011
Contributor: Cherry21 Cherry21
Quote:
Originally posted by 0letitgrow
What took you guys longer to get used to and able to comfortably enjoy ANAL or DEEPTHROATING?
i'm surprised that everyone said deep throat!! deep throat was easy for me, anal i still dont have done lol.
12/06/2011