Most I have seen shopping around the internet are very long and most thick. Personally that would hurt myself. I have seen some where one side is "smaller" than the other but it seems that would only be able to be used in certain positions. Am I getting this all wrong? Or am I just not looking for the right item?
ps
my girlfriend and i are not interested in strap-ons either
ps
my girlfriend and i are not interested in strap-ons either