G-spot orgasm

G-spot orgasm

domsub1993 domsub1993
Can anyone give me any tips on having a g-spot orgasm? I don't orgasm easily.
09/01/2011
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Ace <3 Ace <3
Neither do I. Honestly, it takes practice and the ability to be comfortable with yourself. There are several lubricants you can find on eden or even in the grocery store that will help increase the chances of an orgasm (personally I like warming lubricants from KY that also have a taste so my girlfriend is more prone to go down on me. Otherwise lubricants without a flavor don't taste well). In addition, I've always found that a lot of foreplay works wonders. It doesn't have to be oral or stimulation to your body. I like when my girlfriend texts me dirty things or pictures while I'm at work or school and makes me think well ahead of time. It's the fantasy in my head of what she'll do when we are together that gets me really aroused. That hasn't failed me yet. I can say that an orgasm is also about hitting the right spot, but you really need to be in a good mood for that spot to even care about what's stimulating it.

One last comment. If you aren't having success with one particular orgasm, don't get frustrated because that makes it even harder to get one. Stop what you're doing, focus on your partner or have your partner change what s/he is doing (penetrative vs oral or hands vs penis, etc) to keep your body on edge. Even on some particularly bad days we change rooms. Going from the bedroom to a hot shower has always been helpful for me too.
09/01/2011
wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
A lot of foreplay, teasing, touching without the sex helps out a lot. And being comfortable with yourself and what is happening to your body is a big big thing as well. Sometimes, I have found that when I can't seem to achieve orgasm, I have to breathe and just... let things go. Relax and focus on the feeling of my body, the rush of the sensations, how it feels, and how good it would feel to just release and have that orgasm.

I agree, also on the lubricants. If your body doesn't naturally produce a lot, it can have an effect on orgasm. My girlfriend actually admitted to me the other night that even though she knows exactly where my g-spot is, the only way I really, really get off when she's stimulating it, is when I'm very, very wet.
09/03/2011
domsub1993 domsub1993
Thank you for the suggestions!
09/12/2011
khobgood khobgood
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Originally posted by domsub1993
Can anyone give me any tips on having a g-spot orgasm? I don't orgasm easily.
I discovered it took a lot of experimenting, and you have to realize it's a different feeling from an orgasm with your clit. It's more a rolling, warm fuzzy feeling rather than an intense break through. I tried several toys and ended up having more success with my own fingers. You definitely have to be in the mood, and lubricants can help a lot.

Try sitting or crouching in the shower so that you're in a relaxed position to play.
09/22/2011
domsub1993 domsub1993
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Originally posted by khobgood
I discovered it took a lot of experimenting, and you have to realize it's a different feeling from an orgasm with your clit. It's more a rolling, warm fuzzy feeling rather than an intense break through. I tried several toys and ended up ...
Oh, I never knew it was a different sensation. Thank you so much for the information!
09/23/2011
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