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Contributor: Lady Smile Lady Smile
So recently my partner has been watching a lot of Sub/Dom porn and has requested I become more dominant in the bedroom. I'm happy to do this, just not too sure how to go about being 'more dominant'.... Just wondered if anyone on here had any tips or advice.
Should I start with lingerie like that? Or making demands?
For starters Im checking to see his browsing history what kind of things he might be into.

Any good starter tips? Thanks!
01/13/2013
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Contributor: libbyv libbyv
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Originally posted by Lady Smile
So recently my partner has been watching a lot of Sub/Dom porn and has requested I become more dominant in the bedroom. I'm happy to do this, just not too sure how to go about being 'more dominant'.... Just wondered if anyone on here had ... more
ask him what he wants
01/17/2013
Contributor: streepeddler streepeddler
i wish my wife was more dominant at times. she shows signs from time to time but doesnt go all the way. i recomend watching some of the sub dom porn alone an just getting an idea of how to approach. i agree ask him what he wants an likes. but number one you have to have confidence. it would just seem funny to me. someone not sure about dominating me lol

good luck
01/17/2013
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Probably the easiest way is to relax and just be explicit with what you want/like, such as "do x to my y." Act as though he should follow your words and see how things go. It can be tricky, but it gets easier with practice
01/17/2013