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Contributor: SAE09 SAE09
Hello everyone.
What are some tips and tricks of the trade? I am looking on ways to make things easier for me & my husband.
What are the best plugs, lubes, ect.
Thank you all in advanced!
01/09/2013
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Contributor: Loriandhubby Loriandhubby
small plugs like the little end are great to start with. i love the happy valley twister to get me warmed up and ready for anal play latter.

the best lube i have found is the liquid silk. it is not sticky, it lasts a while and does not get gooey all over the place.

good luck on your journey
01/09/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
I still don't get the pleasure in it. plus I just don't the SHARTS.
01/09/2013
Contributor: melliegirl melliegirl
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Originally posted by SAE09
Hello everyone.
What are some tips and tricks of the trade? I am looking on ways to make things easier for me & my husband.
What are the best plugs, lubes, ect.
Thank you all in advanced!
it takes alot of time. Use a water based lube, relax, and use very small plugs/finger at first and work your way up to close to his size. Then when you think you are ready enough then have him go like an inch or less at a time. When you get used to each segment in your ass then he can go an inch or less in more.... remember LOTS OF LUBE!!! And the first few times will be hard but keep at it and you may enjoy it. I hated it at first and then we did that and now i'm starting to enjoy it. Good Luck!
02/12/2013
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Go slow, start by yourself (just you, your finger and lube).

Start outside, rub along your perineum and around your anus and pay attention to the feelings. Once you learn to enjoy these, you can slowly insert a finger (make sure your nails are trimmed and filed) and discover those feelings. After that you might want to try a toy.

When you're bringing a partner into it you need to develop trust, so start back at the beginning.
02/17/2013
Contributor: CD007 CD007
From the other sex side, this is all great advice. Many things I wish my last gf would've done before we tried it because it's not something you decide to do one night. Get comfortable with it yourself then add him. And just go slow. If you're not relaxed it will be way worse so don't do it until you're ready. Also adding a vibe might make you more comfy or take your mind off it.
02/17/2013