Just wondering about other peoples experiences with mutual masturbation.

Just wondering about other peoples experiences with mutual masturbation.

20yearstogether 20yearstogether
My wife & I have different schedules. I work 2nd shift on a rotating schedule. We take turns playing alone & leaving notes/texts about what we did. There is NO porn involved, that would be disrespectful. Anyone else have a similar situation? Kids have moved out which makes things easier. We also use toys and are mid 50's. I LOVE my wife & would NEVER cheat.
08/07/2017
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GingerAnn GingerAnn
Informative topic breakdown of Cock rings:

How to bring up bondage?
I've wanted to try it but I don't know how to bring it up to my partner

Just wondering
Totally just wondering but what is the craziest thing you have ever done?

Do you go out in public while wearing a butt plug in?
For some, all things sexual are for the bedroom only. For others, it crosses over into everyday life. Wearing a butt plug out in public is one such.

Do you believe it's waterproof?
how many people find this hard to believe?

Mood during solo play
What do you do to get into the mood? Read, watch something, simply imagine? Do you light candles, do anything with the lights? Do you play any type of
08/07/2017
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
As a couple coming close to 28 years together, I can sympathize with your dilemma. For the 1st 25 years together I traveled about 50% of the time. I tried to interest my wife in masturbating and telling me about it - but she pretended like she never did.

It's not an issue for us anymore because I'm semi-retired and do my consulting from home. We have however added masturbating in front of one another as part of our D/s roll-play - and it's been rather fun exploring the exhibitionist side of it.

It's great that you guys have adapted to the schedule differences. Best of luck going forward.
08/07/2017
Lena Eden Lena Eden
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Originally posted by 20yearstogether
My wife & I have different schedules. I work 2nd shift on a rotating schedule. We take turns playing alone & leaving notes/texts about what we did. There is NO porn involved, that would be disrespectful. Anyone else have a similar ...
Although we live together with my BF, our sex drives don't always match. Fortunately, once we tried sex toys, it became much easier to stay on the same wave. I see nothing wrong with a bit of self-loving when we don't have time or one of us is not in the mood for sex.

"We take turns playing alone & leaving notes/texts about what we did."- it sounds so exciting!! I think it's a great way to stay connected!
08/08/2017
20yearstogether 20yearstogether
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Originally posted by Lena Eden
Although we live together with my BF, our sex drives don't always match. Fortunately, once we tried sex toys, it became much easier to stay on the same wave. I see nothing wrong with a bit of self-loving when we don't have time or one of us ...
We also leave each other "coupons" telling the other one what to do. I love getting home & reading about the results!
08/09/2017
ReverieReviews ReverieReviews
In my situation, it isn't a matter of sex drives not matching up or work schedules getting in the way, it's just that it's a long-distance relationship.

It can be very hard to deal with emotionally at times which can kill any desire to get sexual through the limited means we have available, but masturbating with each other, or for each other, over webcam is a fun way we stay connected when we're in the mood. We both enjoy watching each other so it works. And, occasionally, one of us will send the other a sexy video message to try to get the other through the day.
08/15/2017
Lena Eden Lena Eden
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Originally posted by ReverieReviews
In my situation, it isn't a matter of sex drives not matching up or work schedules getting in the way, it's just that it's a long-distance relationship.

It can be very hard to deal with emotionally at times which can kill any ...
How long are you in the LDR??

Anyway, just imagine how hot will be your first date in reality
P.S. BTW, remote control vibes can do wonders
08/15/2017
ReverieReviews ReverieReviews
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Originally posted by Lena Eden
How long are you in the LDR??

Anyway, just imagine how hot will be your first date in reality
P.S. BTW, remote control vibes can do wonders
Three, almost four years now!

He's my first - and hopefully my last - significant other. I imagine our first date will be incredibly awkward due to that fact! Mainly because I am incredibly awkward. But he's been patient with me, and so caring, and I'm so glad to have him in my life even if things are just long distance for now <3
08/15/2017
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