Moving the toy around

Contributor: Tlb Tlb
How much do you move the vibrator around if it has a clit arm? I’m not getting a lot of satisfaction and I’m wondering if I’m doing something wrong?
05/23/2018
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Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Tlb
How much do you move the vibrator around if it has a clit arm? I’m not getting a lot of satisfaction and I’m wondering if I’m doing something wrong?
Male perspective here.

When I introduced vibes to my wife, I was expected to be 'the operator'. Like most guys, I'm into motion - but her most frequent complaint was that I moved too much - especially when she was close to orgasm - like I was supposed to know?

Fast forward 10 years - since we usually use vibes and dildos in combination, I drive the dildos and she takes care of the clit vibe - a wand. Observationally she typically holds it pretty steady on the left side of her clit - but does move it around. But when and why she moves it, I couldn't tell you.

As far as moving the dildo is concerned, I know her pretty well, but she will guide me by asking for deeper or faster when I'm not right on cue.

As always, communication is the key.
05/24/2018
Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
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Originally posted by Tlb
How much do you move the vibrator around if it has a clit arm? I’m not getting a lot of satisfaction and I’m wondering if I’m doing something wrong?
The dual action vibes are so different. Sometimes it's really complicated to get that right one which perfectly hits the sweet spots.

But, I think we've got an option here on Eden, that's Aurora Massager. It has a veeeryy flexible clit arm and should fit any anatomy. Highly recommended
05/29/2018