need help orgasming with bf and hitachi

need help orgasming with bf and hitachi

sophia2541 sophia2541
I have trouble orgasming with anything that has less strong vibrations than the hitachi magic wand. However, i have a lot of trouble figuring out how to use this toy during sex with my boyfriend. Any positions or techniques would be greatly appreciated. I want to be able to orgasm while we are having intercourse - rather than before or after. Thanks.
01/28/2010
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Sassybunny85 Sassybunny85
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Originally posted by sophia2541
I have trouble orgasming with anything that has less strong vibrations than the hitachi magic wand. However, i have a lot of trouble figuring out how to use this toy during sex with my boyfriend. Any positions or techniques would be greatly ...
Doggy style seems to be the number one position that keeps popping up with the Hitachi wand when I did a google search.
01/28/2010
Dangerous Lilly Dangerous Lilly
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Originally posted by sophia2541
I have trouble orgasming with anything that has less strong vibrations than the hitachi magic wand. However, i have a lot of trouble figuring out how to use this toy during sex with my boyfriend. Any positions or techniques would be greatly ...
Well, if I'm allowed to, I'd like to suggest the Liberator Axis Hitachi (even tho EF doesn't carry it). It's a sex position pillow like all Liberator shapes but it is meant to specifically hold the Hitachi or similar. I have one and it's WONDERFUL for both solo and sex use.
01/28/2010
sophia2541 sophia2541
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Originally posted by Sassybunny85
Doggy style seems to be the number one position that keeps popping up with the Hitachi wand when I did a google search.
have you had any success with that position? i'm never sure how to hold the wand and stay balanced on my hands and knees...
01/28/2010
Sir Sir
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Originally posted by sophia2541
have you had any success with that position? i'm never sure how to hold the wand and stay balanced on my hands and knees...
You can always make a rope or scarf harness to hold it in place to make it more stationary and less uncomfortable when you're in that position.
01/28/2010
Luscious Lily Luscious Lily
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Originally posted by sophia2541
have you had any success with that position? i'm never sure how to hold the wand and stay balanced on my hands and knees...
When I want to hold a toy while on my hands and knees, I use one hand to hold the toy, and one to balance on. As long as I put the balancing hand dead center, not off to the side, I can balance it pretty well. It can also help if he reaches around and helps hold you up by your upper arm(s), shoulders, breasts... anywhere he can get a good grip can help. It will change the angle of penetration, but that can be a good thing!
01/28/2010
sophia2541 sophia2541
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Originally posted by Sir
You can always make a rope or scarf harness to hold it in place to make it more stationary and less uncomfortable when you're in that position.
im intrigued by this suggestion. can you explain in more detail? would i tie the rope/scarf around my stomach holding the wand in place?
01/28/2010
Sir Sir
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Originally posted by sophia2541
im intrigued by this suggestion. can you explain in more detail? would i tie the rope/scarf around my stomach holding the wand in place?
There's a certain technique to it that I could explain to you. It isn't only around your waist, it's also around your thighs I believe. It's almost like a harness, but it allows you to keep the Hitachi in place, hands-free, and be penetrated. I've actually seen it in two places, both on the BDSM guide Edenfantasys sponsored me with by Midori and in the Two Knotty Boys' book.

I'll get my book out for you to see what it says and send you a message if you'd like.
01/28/2010
sophia2541 sophia2541
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Originally posted by Sir
There's a certain technique to it that I could explain to you. It isn't only around your waist, it's also around your thighs I believe. It's almost like a harness, but it allows you to keep the Hitachi in place, hands-free, and be ...
that would be great. thank you.
01/28/2010
xsapphirexangelx xsapphirexangelx
i've found that i can cum pretty easly w/ manual simulation after reaching almosst the point of climax with vibration(because it hightens the sensitivity). so possibly, if he used the Hitachi of you for a while and gets you really close you could climax during sex.
01/28/2010
Sammi Sammi
We use it either in doggie or a missionary variation, where he's not on top, but kneeling while I'm laying back. That doesn't work too badly.

There's a video "Midori's Guide to Expert Bondage" which has a section where she does a "harness" with silk ties and the hitachi. It's a good demonstration of how to tie it.
01/28/2010
Owl Identified Owl Identified
For doggy style when I'm holding something (vibrator, dildo, etc) I usually pile up a couple pillows in front of me (at about shoulder height) and rest my upper chest/shoulders on them. I don't know if I'm painting you a very clear picture, but it provides a lot of extra support for me so that I can use a hand and not lose balance or feel uncomfortable. I would try experimenting a little bit with pillows or blankets.

I also wanted to mention that sometimes by using one vibrator consistently to get off your body gets accustomed to that strength. After a while anything less won't cut it. That's why it's a good idea to either vary your vibrators, alternating between two or three, or if you don't want to spend the $ on an array of vibrators then you can just get a single vibrator that has a wide range of speeds. The Hitachi is notoriously intense and also notorious for causing desensitization. You may want to consider getting another vibe to alternate with, one with several speeds and patterns, and try experimenting with it.
01/30/2010
Sensual husband Sensual husband
My wife likes to use the hitachi when she is on top and leaning back her hands on my legs for suppport. Iam the one who has control of the hitachi so she can control her thrusting. This has worked 100% of the time....
06/22/2010
CPTInsanity CPTInsanity
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Originally posted by sophia2541
I have trouble orgasming with anything that has less strong vibrations than the hitachi magic wand. However, i have a lot of trouble figuring out how to use this toy during sex with my boyfriend. Any positions or techniques would be greatly ...
You should think about getting a motorcycle, nothing beats a vibrator with a kick-stand. But seriosly, the way that my wife and I use it is either doggy style or during missionary with her knees held up a little. As long as the guy isn't leaning towards you it should work.
01/25/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
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Originally posted by Sassybunny85
Doggy style seems to be the number one position that keeps popping up with the Hitachi wand when I did a google search.
Love that!
01/26/2011
ajm4u ajm4u
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Originally posted by sophia2541
I have trouble orgasming with anything that has less strong vibrations than the hitachi magic wand. However, i have a lot of trouble figuring out how to use this toy during sex with my boyfriend. Any positions or techniques would be greatly ...
Check out the techniques on my blog. Should help.
Good luck!

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