Not everybody can do it. What type of toy and/or stimulation are you trying?

It’s not the easiest thing, but doable. A lot has to do with the frame of mind; How much are you into anal play and How much does the thought of it turn you on? Personally I’m 100% on both; and that definitely helps!

I might be in the minority, but I actually get better results from externally stimulation my prostate than internally. I use the Hitachi-style rechargeable wand, and while it's not the fastest, it works for me.

I hope this helps!

You can't force it like a penis orgasm. It's very much a submissive frame of mind. The subtle pleasure will ebb and flow. Don't get frustrated when it ebbs away, just keeping going, and slowly the feelings build and the prostate fills with fluid. Once you go over the edge and have your first squirting Pspot orgasm in a session, it is easy to have many more in rapid succession. Took me a long time to figure it out, but very worth it. It's a very fulfilling experience.
One other tip, practice kegels a lot. Makes a world of difference.

I just got my own place a couple months ago. I've had anal sex w a couple different people and only one person made it feel Ahhhmazing... So a week after getting my own place for the first time I wanted to experience that same awesome feeling I had when I first slept with another guy. I have bought probably 3 or 4 spot massager a couple different plugs. A life like dildo and a life like vibrator. Even some beads. I can't seem to get that feeling I had with a actual penis in my butt. I haven't slept w anyone really since because I'm embarrassed that I'm into anal play. I mean I like women but I also like guys. I'm afraid my parents will be disgusted or people will laugh about me behind my back. How should I go about this? Keep trying different p spot toys and other toys or should I take a leap go discreet w a guy I don't know or just like contact someone on my town thats gay and is into me. If I do that it'll be out for sure tho.