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Contributor: DreezzyyBabyy DreezzyyBabyy
I've always told my girlfriend not to go anywhere near my butt hole. Lol. But last week she tried just rubbing my anus? Not go inside but yeah. I didn't like it at all. But I'm wondering if I was just too nervous. Advice..?
04/23/2013
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Contributor: RonLee RonLee
I for one love it! Everyone is unique, so it is possible that, for whatever reason you just may never like anal play.
However, if you want to continue to try, that's a good sign that you may come to really enjoy that kind of play.
04/23/2013
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
It could be that you were nervous. Maybe next time, plan to try it out. Make sure she knows that only external anal play is acceptable and see how you feel about it when you're relaxed and prepared for it. My husband really enjoys it, but I know not everyone does.
04/23/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife fought me on this for 23 years - now she asks for me to play with her anus if I forget to do it during foreplay. That realization on her part lead to actual anal sex - of which she has become quite adept.

To paraphrase her 'I bet you never thought I would ask for it!'

Well actually I did - but 'I told you so' is bad form!
04/23/2013
Contributor: Fluke Fluke
Sounds like you already convinced yourself you won't like it before you even tried it. Gotta open your mind to something new and relax.
04/23/2013
Contributor: DreezzyyBabyy DreezzyyBabyy
I guess I will try to keep an open mind. I've just never been interested in it because I tried anal once & I hated it. But the person also did not use lube and just jammed it in there. So maybe that's why I'm so nervous!? I dunno. Haha.
04/24/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
I've had someone lick it quite a bit during one session. didn't enjoy it at all.
04/24/2013
Contributor: Janene Janene
Quote:
Originally posted by DreezzyyBabyy
I've always told my girlfriend not to go anywhere near my butt hole. Lol. But last week she tried just rubbing my anus? Not go inside but yeah. I didn't like it at all. But I'm wondering if I was just too nervous. Advice..?
My boyfriend didn't really know what to think the first time I did that to him. But he wanted to try again.
04/24/2013
Contributor: DreezzyyBabyy DreezzyyBabyy
She tried it again and I was still too nervous.. :s
05/01/2013
Contributor: kdlt kdlt
Quote:
Originally posted by DreezzyyBabyy
She tried it again and I was still too nervous.. :s
It may just legitimately not be your thing. Nothing to be ashamed of!
05/01/2013
Contributor: Catan Catan
Quote:
Originally posted by DreezzyyBabyy
I guess I will try to keep an open mind. I've just never been interested in it because I tried anal once & I hated it. But the person also did not use lube and just jammed it in there. So maybe that's why I'm so nervous!? I dunno. Haha.
Lube is important!
Did she use something as lube when she was rubbing the outside? If not, try it once with lube before you discount it.
05/01/2013
Contributor: Rokmai Rokmai
I like the idea, but I've jumped about a foot in the air every time she's tried it. We need to work on that...
05/01/2013