My boyfriend and I lost our virginities to one another on New Year's Eve. We haven't been able to have sex again, but are planning on it for Valentine's Day (no, we don't plan it out, but I live an hour and a half away so it does require some preparation).

I suppose what I want to discuss is any tips, advice, anecdotes, etc. about the first few times having sex. For the record, I'm on birth control and we use condoms, in case that comes up in the discussion.