First I'm new here and just want to say that this is such a great community and I am really glad that I found it! I'd like to thank everyone who participates... it's really great!
Due to health problems my husband cannot really vaginally stimulate me (it would take a lot of explaining, but the most he can manage is one finger inserted with practically no movement) and he is extremely afraid of sex toys. It doesn't matter what I say, he thinks they are unhealthy (not physically) and that if a woman has one she will be using it all the time by herself and completely abandon meeting her husbands/partners needs.
I am just curious to know how you might handle this if any of you found yourself in a similar situation.
How have I handled it? After seven years (I'm 28) I feel like a crusty dried up old maid whose vagina and sexuality are complete strangers to her...that is to say, I guess I haven't handled it well.
So, what are your thoughts?
Due to health problems my husband cannot really vaginally stimulate me (it would take a lot of explaining, but the most he can manage is one finger inserted with practically no movement) and he is extremely afraid of sex toys. It doesn't matter what I say, he thinks they are unhealthy (not physically) and that if a woman has one she will be using it all the time by herself and completely abandon meeting her husbands/partners needs.
I am just curious to know how you might handle this if any of you found yourself in a similar situation.
How have I handled it? After seven years (I'm 28) I feel like a crusty dried up old maid whose vagina and sexuality are complete strangers to her...that is to say, I guess I haven't handled it well.
So, what are your thoughts?