would you give your partner a technique book, even if you're completely satisfied already. There's always something new to learn right
would you give your partner a technique book?
02/04/2012
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I would, and have.
02/04/2012
We're both interested in learning as much as we can - so, sure! We recently got the "She Comes First" book. I read it first, because I got my hands on it first. lol Now it's his turn and he can read it. I'm thinking about getting the male counterpart of that book too, but I'm not sure if Eden has it yet or not.
02/04/2012
I would and I show them what I like and don't like, but if it came to a book to help them out, yea I give it to them.
02/04/2012
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i actually asked my gf to buy one for me idk who was happier lol!
Originally posted by
Modern^Spank^Anthem
would you give your partner a technique book, even if you're completely satisfied already. There's always something new to learn right
02/04/2012
I wouldn't, he does fine as it is and it might upset him.
02/04/2012
Worst case scenario something is learned. I would buy one.
02/04/2012
yes, if they needed one.
02/07/2012
The only time I've recommended a book for a partner is for a domme to learn domination or especially flogging or spanking, otherwise I'd rather just teach them what I want them to do through good bedroom communication. I don't put much stock in books for sexual technique.
02/07/2012
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Possibly if things became a bit too routine in the bedroom.
Originally posted by
Modern^Spank^Anthem
would you give your partner a technique book, even if you're completely satisfied already. There's always something new to learn right
Being satisfied is nice but now and then a little unexpected twist helps to keep things interesting.
02/07/2012
I might give my wife one, provided I approach it in the right way. It's fine if she gives me one, I'm always looking to improve.
02/07/2012
There's no way I would; he'd be offended but that's his personality. I think everyone is different. I'd love to know more tips on how to please a man.
02/07/2012
If he and I talked about new techniques first, sure. I wouldn't just surprise him with a technique book though as I worry it would offend him.
02/07/2012
wdanas
We'll pick out books to read together. This works both to give us new ideas, and, well, when you're looking at pictures and erotic talk of techniques for pleasure, it tends to lead only one place. Neither of us find a reason to complain.
02/07/2012
If I read a book I like, I'll ask him to read it too so we can discuss it.
02/09/2012
I buy books for BDSM how-to, cuz that's important (though they seem more geared toward my learning style than my partner's). I agree with the above that they should be a conversation-starter/j oint learning tool, not a "yer doin' it wrong."
02/09/2012
I have given my wife many books over the years.
The technique books were not because she needed to improve, but more to encourage her to explore and try new things.
The technique books were not because she needed to improve, but more to encourage her to explore and try new things.
02/09/2012
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ladies, DO NOT BELITTLE YOUR MAN LIKE THIS; he will hate you, and probably will seek another relationship.
Originally posted by
Modern^Spank^Anthem
would you give your partner a technique book, even if you're completely satisfied already. There's always something new to learn right
02/15/2012
I have gotten books for us to flip through together for fun, but I wouldn't just hand one off to him like a homework assignment. Unless, of course, he asked for homework or how tos.
02/15/2012
I usually get books for myself. Then he usually finds them and reads them too.
02/24/2012
We would probably read it together! We read cosmo monthly for new ideas and techniques.
02/25/2012
Maybe for a joint gift kind of a thing..
02/26/2012
I agree with Roskat. As a joint venture it could be more fun!
12/18/2012
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