* I put display in quotes because BDSM is not a very large factor in our play, but this is the best way I could think of to describe what my partner wants. Now on with the details!
My husband and I love to play boardgames and so we are often sitting across from one another. He loves it when I spread my knees about shoulder width apart and sit as a man would. I was raised that a lady never sits with her knees apart and if she crosses her legs it should be at the ankles - that kind of thing. And I find myself naturally sitting with my legs together. This has led me to thinking about getting a spreader bar and using it until it just becomes second nature.
And here are my questions:
1. Are there any other ladies on the forum who have this same problem or had this same problem and if so what is your advice on shaping my mentality to keep me from my closing my legs?
2. Are there any tips I should know about using a spreader bar?
3. Which bar/cuff combination is your personal favorite?
My husband and I love to play boardgames and so we are often sitting across from one another. He loves it when I spread my knees about shoulder width apart and sit as a man would. I was raised that a lady never sits with her knees apart and if she crosses her legs it should be at the ankles - that kind of thing. And I find myself naturally sitting with my legs together. This has led me to thinking about getting a spreader bar and using it until it just becomes second nature.
And here are my questions:
1. Are there any other ladies on the forum who have this same problem or had this same problem and if so what is your advice on shaping my mentality to keep me from my closing my legs?
2. Are there any tips I should know about using a spreader bar?
3. Which bar/cuff combination is your personal favorite?
