About oral sex regarding ladies - Help!

Contributor: sexfairy sexfairy
I have never had an orgasm through oral sex, not even close, despite the good will of my past lovers and boyfriends...it seems to me that my clit is too sensitive and I can't stand too direct touch or contact, making oral sex most often uncomfortable or even painful... is it me? Or was I just unlucky with the talent of my partners so far? What is your personal experience with cunnilingus? I'd love some input or advice if you have any, any hints on why this can be and any tricks on how I could get there eventually? I have no problem having orgasms during penetration sex or when masturbating.
07/24/2012
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Contributor: chantalgiardina chantalgiardina
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Originally posted by sexfairy
I have never had an orgasm through oral sex, not even close, despite the good will of my past lovers and boyfriends...it seems to me that my clit is too sensitive and I can't stand too direct touch or contact, making oral sex most often ... more
oh wow! I can't imagine that! It's the ONLY way I can get off without a toy.. I can't get off with penetration at all even though I have tried and tried. I really have no advice but I know there are plenty of others who are extra sensitive like that... but I don't know a way around it or anything
07/24/2012
Contributor: lomejo61 lomejo61
Honestly,it's probably just your body. Everyone is different . I've orgasmed from cunnilingus, fingering, penetration and everything yet I know females who have absolutely no feeling in their clitoris at all whatsoever.
07/24/2012
Contributor: Noelle Noelle
In my experience, some guys can do it and some guys can't. The ones that can't, think they're great at it, and the ones that can, don't realize how great they are! Maybe he just can't do it for you. But sensitivity is different for everyone too. I need high HIGH vrooms to get off w/ vibrator, but oral, not so much.
07/25/2012
Contributor: LLmama LLmama
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Originally posted by lomejo61
Honestly,it's probably just your body. Everyone is different . I've orgasmed from cunnilingus, fingering, penetration and everything yet I know females who have absolutely no feeling in their clitoris at all whatsoever.
Really?! No feeling in the clitoris!
07/25/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I also have a sensitive clit and have to remind my husband to go easy on it. I cannot achieve orgasm by cunnilingus only, it has to be both clit and g-spot stimulation done at the same time. Tell your partner to lick or finger your clit with very light touches while using a toy on your g-spot - that should do it.
07/25/2012
Contributor: XxFallenAngelxX XxFallenAngelxX
I have only once with oral....he had a tongue ring..
07/25/2012
Contributor: sexfairy sexfairy
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Originally posted by lomejo61
Honestly,it's probably just your body. Everyone is different . I've orgasmed from cunnilingus, fingering, penetration and everything yet I know females who have absolutely no feeling in their clitoris at all whatsoever.
Oh my! Is that so? For me it seems like being the opposite: too much sensitivity...
07/27/2012
Contributor: Bittenflame Bittenflame
Maybe try having your partner go lighter or even a bit lower or higher rather than right on. Try smaller movements and try to guide them to a good spot.
07/27/2012
Contributor: xGOLDx xGOLDx
Your partner could also move in a downward motion more, pulling the hood down to buffer and stimulate more indirectly.
07/28/2012
Contributor: xGOLDx xGOLDx
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Originally posted by sexfairy
Oh my! Is that so? For me it seems like being the opposite: too much sensitivity...
My best friend has the exact same problem, too much sensitivity so oral is just too much, sometimes even painful. You aren`t alone dear!
07/28/2012
Contributor: sexfairy sexfairy
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Originally posted by xGOLDx
My best friend has the exact same problem, too much sensitivity so oral is just too much, sometimes even painful. You aren`t alone dear!
Good to hear... makes me feel a little less odd
07/28/2012
Contributor: sexfairy sexfairy
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Originally posted by xGOLDx
Your partner could also move in a downward motion more, pulling the hood down to buffer and stimulate more indirectly.
Yeah, I guess that would work, as it's basically the way I touch myself. Just not as obvious when it is with a tongue, since it goes generally in the other direction, upward... ish, just thinking about gives me unpleasant shivers...
07/28/2012