Beginners Harness Play

Contributor: THUMPER THUMPER
Hi Everyone,
I am just wondering what advice you have for a beginner to harness play. I'm female and my partner is male. I've had anal sex before; he is a beginner, but open and excited about the idea. I have the Mia-Z harness, and I have the Small Silk dildo to warm him up. I have only worn the harness once (and the small silk wasn't great for harness play since it's too small) and feel a bit self concious and don't want to hurt him. The other harness compatible toys I've got are the Vicky Venus and Large Ripple. My partner is excited for harness play and I am into it, though more shy than he is. What kind of advice do you have for me to initiate play, techniques and favorite toys of yours? Thanks for reading! Thank you in advance for any responses.
02/21/2011
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