I have an issue: ever since I was a little girl, I always masturbated with my clothes, on my stomach, hand between panties and jeans, pressing hard. Of course, I didn't realize it was masturbation until I hit middle school, but it gives you a frame of reference as to how long I've been doing this.Until I went to college, I never even tried masturbating any other way. It just never occurred to me! So we're talking at LEAST 15 years of me doing the same thing every time.Here's the issue: I still prefer to be on my stomach with pressure when I masturbate. At least 90% of the time, without even thinking about it, I will flip on to my stomach and finish up that way. It's frustrating, because I feel like I'm really limiting myself, but I am DEFINITELY a creature of habit and routine (OCD), so it's tough for me to break out.What I'm really asking is this: I always hear people say, "You'll get acclimated to masturbating one way and you'll have to fix it," but they never say how to fix it!!! less

I love my fingers. I don't get why -- it's not as romantic and as slow, or sensuous, or 'self love' as some people write it is, for me, but I love it. For me, it's my 'get it done!' move. So, for me, anything involving sex toys or other people is a huge step beyond my boundries.My whole experiment is Eden-wide. I didn't much care for toys when I started here, but I was curious about them. Slowly, after much unfortunate money spendage, and trial, and error, I figured out a way to get off that did not simply involve rubbing myself off several times a day.I don't know, for me, my battle plan was "try everything!" :/ enjoy some. I had to spend big bucks to figure out what worked, for me. I'm envious of people who don't have to spend hundreds of dollars to figure out what makes them come. It's just so..... *frugal*. less

I just wish I could make myself stop doing it without realizing it. Toys are great, and I can get off with them, but a lot of the time, I will stop RIGHT before my orgasm, flip over, and do it the old fashioned way. I might try throwing a sheet on the floor and trying that, or sitting in a chair, because I don't want to get too acclimated to the bed, either! less

I have changed positions and technique since my early teen years. For awhile it was always on my back, in bed. The doggie position came after I started having sex. Now, so many times in my desk chair watching a porn clip. Toys have contributed so much to me being satisfied, so position and toys are both considered. With a dil in the shower, standing is awesome for me! less

I have an issue: ever since I was a little girl, I always masturbated with my clothes, on my stomach, hand between panties and jeans, pressing hard. Of course, I didn't realize it was masturbation until I hit middle school, but it gives you a frame of reference as to how long I've been doing this.Until I went to college, I never even tried masturbating any other way. It just never occurred to me! So we're talking at LEAST 15 years of me doing the same thing every time.Here's the issue: I still prefer to be on my stomach with pressure when I masturbate. At least 90% of the time, without even thinking about it, I will flip on to my stomach and finish up that way. It's frustrating, because I feel like I'm really limiting myself, but I am DEFINITELY a creature of habit and routine (OCD), so it's tough for me to break out.What I'm really asking is this: I always hear people say, "You'll get acclimated to masturbating one way and you'll have to fix it," but they never say how to fix it!!! less

I have an issue: ever since I was a little girl, I always masturbated with my clothes, on my stomach, hand between panties and jeans, pressing hard. Of course, I didn't realize it was masturbation until I hit middle school, but it gives you a frame of reference as to how long I've been doing this.Until I went to college, I never even tried masturbating any other way. It just never occurred to me! So we're talking at LEAST 15 years of me doing the same thing every time.Here's the issue: I still prefer to be on my stomach with pressure when I masturbate. At least 90% of the time, without even thinking about it, I will flip on to my stomach and finish up that way. It's frustrating, because I feel like I'm really limiting myself, but I am DEFINITELY a creature of habit and routine (OCD), so it's tough for me to break out.What I'm really asking is this: I always hear people say, "You'll get acclimated to masturbating one way and you'll have to fix it," but they never say how to fix it!!! less

I just wish I could make myself stop doing it without realizing it. Toys are great, and I can get off with them, but a lot of the time, I will stop RIGHT before my orgasm, flip over, and do it the old fashioned way. I might try throwing a sheet on the floor and trying that, or sitting in a chair, because I don't want to get too acclimated to the bed, either! less