Can't orgasm with dildos....am I the only one?!

Contributor: Kat Shanahan Kat Shanahan
I've been an enthusiastic toy user for years, and have had tons of fun with various toys...but not once, in all those years, have I ever been able to have an orgasm with a dildo. Vibrator? No problem. But non-vibrating dildos do nothing for me, which kind of bums me out. I am dying to buy myself a realistic toy, but the ones I'm finding here on EF with the best ratings and reviews are all dildos that have no vibrating action. I'm kind of wary about spending that kind of money on a toy that may not do anything for me.

Does anyone else here have this issue? If so, how do you work around it? Do you use the dildo internally with a bullet on the clit? I'm at a loss here and...well, like I said, it's bumming me out. :/
05/17/2012
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Contributor: Beck Beck
A lot of women can't orgasm with just penetration alone. Usually I do use a clit vibe along with a dildo. I can't always orgasm with just a dildo either.
05/17/2012
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
There are some realistic vibrators, but the materials are a little questionable.

I can get off with just a dildo, but it's a different type of orgasm. My vaginal orgasms are very different than my clitoral ones.

A lot of women on here do use dildos with vibrators on their clits. Totally a way around it!
05/17/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
It takes more work and patience to achieve orgasm using a non-vibrating dildo; that's why I only buy dildos with g-spot heads and lots of ridges to help stimulate my parts, realistic dildos are useless to me.
05/17/2012
Contributor: VelvetDragon VelvetDragon
I can't orgasm just with a dildo... but I never use *just* a dildo. I always use a dildo in combination with a vibrator on my clit.
05/17/2012
Contributor: RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
I can't orgasm from penetration alone, I have to use a vibrator on my clit along with using a dildo to get anywhere close. The realistic dildos don't do much for me.
05/17/2012
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
Yep, I also enjoy using a vibrator on my clit while using a non-vibrating dildo. I usually use the MiMi by Je Joue instead of a bullet, but it's the same idea.

Nothing to be upset about, just do what works and enjoy your orgasm!
05/17/2012