Disabled Man with lots of thoughts

Disabled Man with lots of thoughts

TrojanViper TrojanViper
I'm a 36 year old male. I'm disabled and use a wheelchair. I've been exploring the many facets of sex and pleasure, a majority of my life. From nudity to masturbation, public play, outdoors etc. And I'm still a virgin. I wore diapers for the first 17 years of my life, so I had to always have something on. After a few surgeries in "97" though, I've found that I like to be naked as much as possible. Shoot why not? I don't masturbate like other men, medical difficulties have prevented that. However Ive learned to adapt, you have to in my situation. So I've resorted, not resorted, by choosen anal play. Using my fingers and what not. And I enjoy it.
I've gotten a little gutsier as well. I guess I have been all along. Even though I had to wear diapers when I was young, I always managed to unstrap the diaper at times, turn to my side and fall asleep peacefully. My parents never found out...I don't think, but I used to "play" out on the porch while they were at work, when I was a teenager. I miss that house. My dad still lives there. But never goes on vacation. Damn. lol. The house was set back, away from the street.
I've been very fortunate over the years not to have been caught in the public places that I've been. You only live once, and at times, I'm horny, so I'd like to experience as much as I can, when I can. Also proving that disabled people do have urges, impulses and desires. I could say a lot more. But I want to make sure that this gets approved and posted. lol.

Contact me if you'd like. I'd enjoy sharing any thoughts, ideas or experiences that I've had. And that I would still like to have. It's getting warmer. Spring is here.
03/22/2015
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RonLee RonLee
Since you've "choosen anal play" sad that you aren't bi. I suspect that you'd find many more active partners who also just happened to be male.
03/22/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by TrojanViper
I'm a 36 year old male. I'm disabled and use a wheelchair. I've been exploring the many facets of sex and pleasure, a majority of my life. From nudity to masturbation, public play, outdoors etc. And I'm still a virgin. I wore diapers ...
Well Trojan V,

Since it's Spring where you are, would you mind posting the weather every now and then in our EF Weather Reporting Team ?

link

We have a member that has a friend who is also disabled. I'll past your thread on to her. Perhaps she can get his experience and contact you. (if she hasn't already)
03/22/2015
symbiasin symbiasin
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Well Trojan V,

Since it's Spring where you are, would you mind posting the weather every now and then in our EF Weather Reporting Team ?

link

We have a member that has a friend who is also disabled. I'll past your thread ...
I'm the one Oriental husband is talking about (I guess). I have a friend who is a triple amputee. He's as cute as a bug but has been turned down by more women....he is forever getting the 'lets just be friends' speech. And they say he's too skinny. He's not! He can masturbate but finds it difficult to type and masturbate at the same time. I offered one suggestion which he didn't like. He has a gf now, she is even more handicapped than he is. We live in different parts of the country, and I have always looked up to him (I think he can do anything). People are telling him to slow down, but I doubt it's in his nature. Wish I could meet him at least once. Maybe I should save up!

As to the anal play others can suggest that since I don't do it. You get orgasms out of it?
03/22/2015
TrojanViper TrojanViper
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Originally posted by symbiasin
I'm the one Oriental husband is talking about (I guess). I have a friend who is a triple amputee. He's as cute as a bug but has been turned down by more women....he is forever getting the 'lets just be friends' speech. And ...
Oh,
I've gotten that line more than once, and I'm beginning to think that I have too many friends. lol. You sound like a great friend to him. He sounds lucky to have you in his life. As to your question about weather I orgasm from anal play, I don't. Or I haven't yet.
03/24/2015
TrojanViper TrojanViper
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Originally posted by RonLee
Since you've "choosen anal play" sad that you aren't bi. I suspect that you'd find many more active partners who also just happened to be male.
Hi RonLee,
You know, that may be true. But I am a straight man. I just find my pleasure, in a different way.
03/24/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by TrojanViper
Hi RonLee,
You know, that may be true. But I am a straight man. I just find my pleasure, in a different way.
That's ok Trojan Viper, I'm also a straight guy and I enjoy anal play as well. I understand what you mean.
03/24/2015
TrojanViper TrojanViper
Quote:
Originally posted by Inquisitor
That's ok Trojan Viper, I'm also a straight guy and I enjoy anal play as well. I understand what you mean.
Okay Good
03/25/2015
TrojanViper TrojanViper
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Well Trojan V,

Since it's Spring where you are, would you mind posting the weather every now and then in our EF Weather Reporting Team ?

link

We have a member that has a friend who is also disabled. I'll past your thread ...
Hello, and good to speak with you again. Well as I've said, spring has arrived in Michigan. And as of now, it's sprinking, which is what we need here after having some 21 days without rain. And at 10:30am 37 degrees. Expected to go up to 53 today.
03/25/2015
TrojanViper TrojanViper
Quote:
Originally posted by TrojanViper
Hi RonLee,
You know, that may be true. But I am a straight man. I just find my pleasure, in a different way.
That's great!
As do I?
03/25/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Hey TroV,

Look up the Venus for men machine. On the same website as the famous Symbian for women. Little pricey but looks promising.
04/02/2015
Vagiscrumptious Vagiscrumptious
I'm disabled. But female and a lesbian. I wasn't born disabled myself though my disease is progressive. I was also already partnered before becoming disabled and she and I are still together, thankfully! I use a wheelchair too, due to muscle weakness. Also have a lot of major gut issues which is a bummer because I used to be a fan of anal play and not anymore. Plus I'm hooked up to an IV 24/7. Kind of annoying but amusing to get tangled up in tubing or have the pump start alarming because one of us is on top of the tubing.

I think being disabled we're a lot more creative sexually. Like gosh it was hard for awhile for me because I couldn't do things the way I used to and my stamina sucks a lot of the time. But like you I've learned to take advantage of the good days and just go for it when I'm feeling horny! Sometimes I just love to lay in bed naked with my wife. Or just kiss and caress. Heck a back massage can feel every bit as good as an orgasm and can be every bit as sexy too!

My hands cramp up and my arms are weak but my wife and I can get off pretty fabulously just rubbing against each other. I'm a lot more into sensual play now I think. I'm in pain a lot so the contrast maybe makes it feel even better. And orgasm is a lot less of the goal now than it used to be though I'm actually a lot more sensitive (maybe because of all the pain I normally have?). I don't know. I have neurological problems that definitely could cause less sensitivity or make it hard to orgasm but thank god that hasn't been the case! Its different though than how it used to be for sure. I can't even stand to use the same toys I used to and she had to learn to touch me differently. It was kind of like discovering my sexuality all over again! And things change a little as my illness does too.

I also have a wicked imagination. I'm not always up for it as much as my wife but I like to talk dirty to her or make up erotic stories or fantasies and tell them to her while she masturbates. It'd be so lonely for her if she was just always off masturbating alone but this way we're together even when I'm not feeling up to it and I can hold her after or even during which is nice too. Sometimes I end up getting turned on and joining too.

The hardest part is just that it wears me out after. I might be too weak and in too much pain the next day. Used to feel really guilty about that and I would try and hide my pain or exhaustion because I didn't want her to feel bad. But I think it's brought us closer. She's quite a bit older than me too so I think she's a lot more understanding maybe than someone my own age would be. Definitely can be really hard sometimes for both of us. I feel very very blessed to have her though. And having a healthy sex life helps me feel more "human" and normal. Helps me connect to my body in a good way. And my wife still turns me on very, very much!
05/25/2015
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