Does it bother you when your partner is in the mood for sex and you are not?

Contributor: bowzer311 bowzer311
Most of the time it dont bother me but there has been a few times where it did bother me.
02/16/2013
Contributor: ashboo32 ashboo32
In my experience its usually my man that isn't in the mood as much as I am. I'm a female with a large sex drive.
04/03/2013
Contributor: mjtheprincess mjtheprincess
Usually speaking, if one of us is not in the mood, the other one can always convince the less excited one why it's a good time

The only time it is slightly irritating is when it's for something "adventerous" like "hey let's go act like young kids and have a quicky in the dressing room." Haha, he almost always turns me down when I pull out a suggestion like that.
04/03/2013
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Septimus
This is sort of a follow up to my other poll on desire discrepancy.

My fiance often wants sex when I'm not in the mood for it. I feel terrible having to turn him down so much, but I feel even worse when I go along and I'm not in the ... more
I have a super high sex drive so it really bothers me when either of my partners are "in the mood" and I'm inexplicably not.
04/03/2013
Contributor: Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
Nope.
04/03/2013
Contributor: Jaybird Jaybird
It doesn't really bother me, but my girlfriend tends to get up wayyy earlier than I do and be in the mood while I'm still incredibly groggy. It takes me a while to be able to have enough energy to do just about anything in the morning though. I'm farrr from a morning person.
04/06/2013
Contributor: falalena falalena
Quote:
Originally posted by Septimus
This is sort of a follow up to my other poll on desire discrepancy.

My fiance often wants sex when I'm not in the mood for it. I feel terrible having to turn him down so much, but I feel even worse when I go along and I'm not in the ... more
I usually am in the mood and he isn't. It starts to emotionally hurt after a while.
04/06/2013
Contributor: wanderer5964 wanderer5964
i have a huge sex drive but there are times i am not in the mood or vice a verse but it doesnt bother either of us
04/08/2013
Contributor: Scythe Scythe
Quote:
Originally posted by FunFantasys
This only happens sometimes to me, but communication helps.
It bothers me when i am in the mood for sex and my partner is not.
04/19/2013
Contributor: Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
It makes me feel sad when he's in the mood and I am not. Not guilty or angry or anything, just sad that I either can't give him what he wants in that moment or, if I do, it's not quite the same as if we were both all gung ho.
04/19/2013
Contributor: DreezzyyBabyy DreezzyyBabyy
My girlfriend & I are always in the mood.. haha
04/25/2013
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Not really, I usually end up going with the flow and enjoying it.
04/26/2013
Contributor: XxFallenAngelxX XxFallenAngelxX
I have a good relationship, so I don't let things get to me like that. I understand that we sometimes may not want it when the other does. We just make it up to the other on the next sexual encounter.
04/26/2013
Contributor: wicked48 wicked48
Not a problem!
04/26/2013
Contributor: snowminx snowminx
It doesn't really bother me, no one should be horny all the time and if you have a decent partner they should know that too and respect it. Grated my partner can usually make me horny even on the worst days by dirty talking to me or playing around with me but he's understanding when I'm not in the mood.
04/26/2013
Contributor: lilyflower lilyflower
With my last boyfriend that was a problem for me. He had a huge appetite for sex and I wasn't into it very much. I usually ended up going along with it anyway, and yeah...it isn't very fun. :\
04/27/2013
Contributor: TJax TJax
It bothers me most when I'm in the mood and she isn't, but it can be rather irritating when she is in the mood and I have no desire. This is usually a timing thing, she wants it right after I finished.
04/27/2013
Contributor: spiced spiced
I'd be in big trouble if it bothered me to be in the mood when she's not! I want sex once or twice a DAY; she wants it two or three times a WEEK! That's fine with me, because it allows me to play with my Fleshlight, and to cum while watching porn (etc). Fortunately, she's cool with it, too.

I think it WOULD bother me if she were often in the mood and I wasn't. The only times I can recall this happening were when I was recovering from an injury. I gave her oral a number of times without getting anything in return. It was weird not becoming crazy aroused by it (as I normally am), but I was still satisfied and happy that she got off.
05/12/2013
Contributor: Cosmonaut Cosmonaut
Doesn't bother either of us. We can play alone if that were the case..but that rarely happens.
05/12/2013
Contributor: Sweet-n-sensual Sweet-n-sensual
Lol in my house, he's the one who isn't in the mood. I am almost always in the mood.
05/12/2013
Contributor: Rawr4483 Rawr4483
Yes, I always want to try to please him, so it makes it hard for both of us if I'm not in the mood when he is.
05/12/2013
Contributor: LittleBun91 LittleBun91
My boyfriend and I have pretty much the same sex drive, however he can drive me crazy when he's in the mood and I'm not. But it's more annoying when I'm in the mood and he isn't.
05/14/2013
Contributor: gorgeous gorgeous
It bothers me when he wants it and I don't.
05/18/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I've always had a higher drive than my wife - and yes its been a problem - mostly for me. Since I'm not as capable as I use to be - were getting closer to being a 'match'.
05/19/2013
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
It takes a lot to annoy me but when my wife is not in the mood for a week then I get frustrated.
05/21/2013