How many people fake an orgasm? If you do, how often? Also Why do you fake it?
Faking orgasms - do you do it?
02/01/2013
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I use to fake it but really you are cheating urself. they think you like whatever it is there doing and you dont. they keep doing in it which results in more faking it. only time i do it now is if i get thrown off my game and usually whatever we are doing does it for me.
Originally posted by
bowzer311
How many people fake an orgasm? If you do, how often? Also Why do you fake it?
02/01/2013
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nope and never.
Originally posted by
bowzer311
How many people fake an orgasm? If you do, how often? Also Why do you fake it?
02/01/2013
my wife never has, she lets me know if she came or not, and if she wants to keep trying if she has not. She has a hard time relaxing some nights and having a good time.
02/01/2013
Absolutely not. We consider it lying. If I don't have one, then I don't have one, but he makes every effort to make sure I can.
02/01/2013
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I have every once in a while cause it might be taking too long or I'm just not in the mood.
Originally posted by
bowzer311
How many people fake an orgasm? If you do, how often? Also Why do you fake it?
02/01/2013
I used to because I was embarrassed that I couldn't orgasm around other people, but now I just let them know that they most likely won't get me to orgasm and assure them that I still have fun anyways.
02/01/2013
No, I never fake orgasms.
02/01/2013
I've never done it and I don't ever plan on doing it. If you fake it, your partner is going to assume that whatever they were doing was working and they'll keep doing it, even though it might not be what you like.
If you're not orgasming (and you know you can), communication is the best way to get what you need. There's no need to lie to stroke someone's ego, it's not going to help anyone in the long run.
If you're not orgasming (and you know you can), communication is the best way to get what you need. There's no need to lie to stroke someone's ego, it's not going to help anyone in the long run.
02/01/2013
Nope, I never fake it. If I didn't get there my husband is definitely going to know about it. I'm not letting him off the hook that easy.
02/02/2013
Nope, never. That's so much worse than just admitting to my partner that I didn't orgasm.
02/02/2013
Absolutely not, I never would, I can't see my partner ever doing that either.
02/02/2013
No why lie and make them think they are doing it right and going away mad. And if he asks how was it I just say well if it sucked would you really want to know, if so ask again and I will tell you.SO DONT CHEAT YOUR SELF. iF ITS GOOD DO BY ALL MEANS MAKE THAT KNOWN.
02/10/2013
No faking here. My boo is pretty darn good at bringing me to orgasm, but if it's just not going to happen, we are both totally comfortable with that reality!
02/10/2013
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Sometimes I fake enjoyment, but not orgams per say.
Originally posted by
bowzer311
How many people fake an orgasm? If you do, how often? Also Why do you fake it?
02/10/2013
NOpe there is no need to my man is plenty for me to handle. Even if I dont get off its ok.
02/16/2013
Nope. I don't plan on ever doing it either. I believe in open communication in a relationship.
02/16/2013
I don't fake it but there have been times in the past when a partner thought that I'd come but I hadn't, and I just let them think that. So that's kind of lying by omission.
02/20/2013
Absolutely not. Honesty is very important to us, especially when it comes to things of such intimate nature. I could never do that to him, nor him to me.
02/21/2013
I have before. ONLY at the beginning or end of the relationships. At the beginning, because I wasn't comfortable enough to make people work out the kinks. Or I thought it would be too much effort if it wouldn't be a repeat experience. At the end, because we were fading apart emotionally (destined for break up) and I'm incredibly demisexual, so I wasn't really into it. I have never done it with my current partner.
02/24/2013
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