Yes my husband and I used to be in an open relationship. I think for us over all it was a good experience, because we laid down rules and guidelines. I enjoyed the ability to have fun when he was at work and never denied him anything even if I just got done with a huge romp session with someone else. I also liked knowing that regardless of who he had been with they could never be me. I know all of his spots and areas, not like some one who may be a friend but not that intimate.