How did you get your first sex toy, and what was it?

How did you get your first sex toy, and what was it?

ReverieReviews ReverieReviews
While I've had a fascination with sex toys for years now, I haven't really been able to get into growing my collection until recently and this new freedom I have has made me really want to explore every facet of my interest in adult toys.

What I'm wondering at the moment is if other people's experiences are similar to my own, particularly how you first got into sex toys, ie your experience getting your first toy. Did you buy it yourself or was it a gift? Where did you get it from? What sort of toy was it and how was your first experience using your first sex toy?
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ReverieReviews , 20yearstogether , PnP , PHf36 , Pin43 , PnP45 , Pnp345 , SoloRebel , StaufferMomma , LovelyGirl93Official , punx480
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Lena Eden , symbiasin , QueenOfPain , AmethystQueen , KinkNoShame , chidoll , Stellar , infructescence , SexyBigEars69 , Bibba , icyqueen , So45f , fanarama , squirtercouple , louise83 , SInfulFreddy , Syngnathidae , Elizabeth98 , gikki , Cinnyree
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Gunsmoke
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ReverieReviews ReverieReviews
As I'm the one asking the question it's only fair for me to answer first!

I was 15-16 at the time and had had a growing interest in exploring my sexuality for a year or two before that. I made the most from household objects, such as a shower faucet for the running water and hairbrush handles, but they weren't enough. So I plotted how to get my hands on an actual sex toy, using saved up birthday and Christmas money, without getting caught from my parents.

And then a solution to all my problems appeared in the form of Spencer's Gifts at our local mall and their "novelty gift" toys. I could go out and look around the mall, or go to the movies in the area and then swing by afterwards, without causing any sort of suspicion, and the bag I carried for my money was the perfect size to conceal any secret purchases I might make while I was out.

Entering the back of the store for the first time was an incredibly embarrassing feeling for me. I was extremely self conscious about being seen there and waved off any employees asking if I needed help as quickly as I possibly could. Eventually I decided on the Purple Pleasure Wave 8" Vibe with Rhinestones, a toy I still have to this day. I quickly made my purchase at the counter, relieved not to get any questions from the cashier, and tucked it into my bag before heading off to find batteries for it and go home.

Then I had to play the waiting game for everyone to be out of the house so I could test out these new vibrations without fear of getting heard. And when the time came - wow. Just, wow. Compared to other toys, it's certainly nothing special, but as it was my first time using a vibrator I recall being blown away (and squirting for the first time as a result).

The embarrassment of going into the store and fear of getting caught with the toy at home aside, getting my first toy was a wonderful experience! I only wish it was easier for girls wanting to explore their growing sexual urges to get their hands on a quality sex toy so they don't potentially harm themselves with homemade toys.
Aug 17, 1:26 am
Lena Eden Lena Eden
I've discovered the world of sex toys on EdenFantasys.


The first toy we've bought was the We-Vibe. Soon after that we've started to explore Eden products and now we're big fans of them
Aug 17, 9:32 am
symbiasin symbiasin
I got a late start in sex toys, but made up for it fast because of my interest. I also used to have scads of toys, now not that many. Not for lack of interest.
Aug 17, 10:40 am
Lena Eden Lena Eden
Quote:
Originally posted by symbiasin
I got a late start in sex toys, but made up for it fast because of my interest. I also used to have scads of toys, now not that many. Not for lack of interest.
And what was the very 1st sex toy you bought?
Aug 17, 11:16 am
symbiasin symbiasin
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
And what was the very 1st sex toy you bought?
I forget the exact name but it was a small toy with a ball attached for g climax and nubs for the clit...I think I still have it. It's usually purple.
Aug 17, 12:04 pm
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Does anyone remember mail order catalogs?

We're talking 90s technology! All my early toys were purchased that were from A&E. They were mostly yucky, smelly jelly vibes and dildos.

Thankfully the EF community educated me on the value of body-safe silicone.
Aug 17, 1:05 pm
AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
I first got into sex toys after reading about them from other people in a forum like this and reading erotica that contained the use of toys. I was unhappy with my sex life, so I decided to try something new.

I ran across this site, actually, and looked for what I thought would be a good idea for me (an anal toy). I ended up getting a few things at the same time in that first purchase. I knew some people said it's good to clean out before anal play so I bought an enema kit and a vibrating anal plug. I LOVED the plug, didn't like the enema kit too much because of the nozzle.

The first time I used it was wonderful! I only used it for a small amount of time because I was so timid with sex toys. The enema kit got used the most as I filled up the whole bag and went to town with it. I wanted to really give it a chance and see how I would react. I'm still using both the plug and the enema kit today so my reaction was a good one.
Aug 17, 3:42 pm
SexyBigEars69 SexyBigEars69
I ended up buying a dildo not too long after i discovered pegging.

Good times <3
Aug 29, 9:17 am
Lena Eden Lena Eden
Quote:
Originally posted by SexyBigEars69
I ended up buying a dildo not too long after i discovered pegging.

Good times <3
What dildo was that?
Aug 29, 9:54 am
Johnnsex555 Johnnsex555
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Originally posted by ReverieReviews
While I've had a fascination with sex toys for years now, I haven't really been able to get into growing my collection until recently and this new freedom I have has made me really want to explore every facet of my interest in adult toys. ...
I saw this big ass love doll accidentally when I was browsing the sexingdoll onlineshop and I shop there.She is fucking big ass and pussy breast.
Aug 29, 11:59 am
ReverieReviews ReverieReviews
Quote:
Originally posted by Johnnsex555
I saw this big ass love doll accidentally when I was browsing the sexingdoll onlineshop and I shop there.She is fucking big ass and pussy breast.
Wow, so you spent over $1000 on your very first sex toy?
Aug 29, 2:06 pm
SexyBigEars69 SexyBigEars69
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
What dildo was that?
My first one was called the Prostate Massager P.E. Large by Pipedream
Aug 31, 10:18 pm
Lena Eden Lena Eden
Quote:
Originally posted by SexyBigEars69
My first one was called the Prostate Massager P.E. Large by Pipedream
Isn't it too rigid??
Sep 1, 7:38 am
SexyBigEars69 SexyBigEars69
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
Isn't it too rigid??
No. It's fairly flexible. except the part where the motor is, but it's still feels really good going inside.
Sep 1, 8:47 am
ReverieReviews ReverieReviews
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
Isn't it too rigid??
Is probe rigidity typically considered a negative thing? :O

When it comes to probes/anal beads/etc, I'm fairly uneducated on the subject. I've only ever tried out one anal toy and it just wasn't my cup of tea. It wasn't unpleasant, per say, but I was too concerned with the sanitary issues to find the slight sensation I got from it to be worth all the trouble. Plus it was a very soft, flexible toy, and I actually didn't like this; I found it made it difficult to easily insert each bead with the toy bending all over the place. A little bit of rigidity there might have helped!
Sep 1, 11:23 am
SexyBigEars69 SexyBigEars69
Quote:
Originally posted by ReverieReviews
Is probe rigidity typically considered a negative thing? :O

When it comes to probes/anal beads/etc, I'm fairly uneducated on the subject. I've only ever tried out one anal toy and it just wasn't my cup of tea. It wasn't ...
When it comes to anal, I typically put a condom over it.

Toys made for anal do need to have a good degree of firmness to it. A somewhat soft toy is good for beginners that feels intimidated by much harder materials.
Sep 1, 2:00 pm
squirtercouple squirtercouple
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Originally posted by ReverieReviews
While I've had a fascination with sex toys for years now, I haven't really been able to get into growing my collection until recently and this new freedom I have has made me really want to explore every facet of my interest in adult toys. ...
My first toy was a rabbit
Sep 9, 4:42 pm
Lena Eden Lena Eden
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Originally posted by squirtercouple
My first toy was a rabbit
Which one?
Sep 11, 4:43 am
SInfulFreddy SInfulFreddy
Sex dolls are the best choice I have made to purchase on the web. Life sized sex dolls are very popular among men who want to explore and enjoy their solo session. Of course, who doesn’t want these love dolls? They are beautiful and capable of giving us the pleasure we desire, not to mention they look and feel like a real woman.
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Sep 15, 7:22 am
Lena Eden Lena Eden
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Sex dolls are the best choice I have made to purchase on the web. Life sized sex dolls are very popular among men who want to explore and enjoy their solo session. Of course, who doesn’t want these love dolls? They are beautiful and capable of giving ...
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Sep 15, 11:11 am
SoloRebel SoloRebel
My first toy was a plug. Got it on a top secret, nobody can know trip to the adult store.
Oct 18, 1:52 am
Lena Eden Lena Eden
Quote:
Originally posted by SoloRebel
My first toy was a plug. Got it on a top secret, nobody can know trip to the adult store.
Do you still use it? Was it a regular or vibrating anal plug?
Oct 18, 5:00 am
StaufferMomma StaufferMomma
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Originally posted by ReverieReviews
While I've had a fascination with sex toys for years now, I haven't really been able to get into growing my collection until recently and this new freedom I have has made me really want to explore every facet of my interest in adult toys. ...
My boyfriend (now husband) and i went in and felt really akward. We were only 18 and 19 so it was about the thrill of going inside of a sex shop. I bought a cheapie vibrator and it worked like a charm until the motor wore out.
Oct 18, 7:10 am
SoloRebel SoloRebel
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
Do you still use it? Was it a regular or vibrating anal plug?
Just a regular one. It's long gone; moved on to better things.
Oct 18, 9:48 am
swaggsohott12 swaggsohott12
A friend referred me to this site I have been hooked ever since!
Oct 18, 12:28 pm
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by StaufferMomma
My boyfriend (now husband) and i went in and felt really akward. We were only 18 and 19 so it was about the thrill of going inside of a sex shop. I bought a cheapie vibrator and it worked like a charm until the motor wore out.
Same with us. The first time it was thrilling. We were very nervous. Didn't want to spend a lot of time inside. Grabbed a vibrator and got out of there. Nowadays it much better to shop online. No way would want to walk up to the register and let others see our purchases.

Surely the internet has greatly aided dildo sales. Especially the larger ones "Sorry, we don't have a bag large enough for that dong. You are going to have to carry it out as is. "
Oct 18, 4:48 pm
LovelyGirl93Official LovelyGirl93Official
My first sex toy was a $10 bumpy, purple, glittery, jelly, g-spot vibe. I picked it up from a shop in the mall that no longer even carries toys . If I remember right I was 16, maybe 17 and felt like such a bad girl buying from there. Mostly because I was still a minor it really made things feel like such a big deal. That toy didn't last long. I remember going in another time and people where looking at me weird for looking through the toys with my boyfriend at the time. I just don't see why people have to look at others and judge them for self/mutual exploration. Thankfully once I hit 18 I started looking into the online world of sex toy shopping.

I actually don't own any toys older than 2 years old. Thank goodness though. A lot of those that I bought back when I didn't know anything about toys and watching what ones you get where kind of bad haha. I don't think they would have lasted this long anyways.

Since then though I've really dug deep into the world of sex toys and kinky goodies. My mother and I where reflecting on things and she let me know if I ever had asked or shown curiosity towards sex toys and all she would have saved me the embarrassment. Picked me up something online when she ordered something herself. Now we will drive an hour to go to the local shop where we love the women who work there or order online depending. Online shopping is one of my weaknesses, sex toy shopping online is a HUGE love of mine now. There's just so much out there. There's only so much locally owned shops can carry.
Oct 18, 5:18 pm
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by LovelyGirl93Official
My first sex toy was a $10 bumpy, purple, glittery, jelly, g-spot vibe. I picked it up from a shop in the mall that no longer even carries toys . If I remember right I was 16, maybe 17 and felt like such a bad girl buying from there. Mostly because ...
16,17 ? You must have appeared older than you were then.

As lucky you with such an open minded mom.
Oct 18, 6:40 pm
LovelyGirl93Official LovelyGirl93Official
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
16,17 ? You must have appeared older than you were then.

As lucky you with such an open minded mom.
I think it may have been because of how old my ex looked. Plus they had their stuff removed so no doubts they didn't work to code on that stuff more times than just for me hah.

I really am pretty thankful to have her. She knows it too. Eventually I have hopes she gets into here. Pretty sure she'd really enjoy sharing her knowledge.
Oct 18, 7:34 pm
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