How did you get your first sex toy, and what was it?

Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by LovelyGirl93
I think it may have been because of how old my ex looked. Plus they had their stuff removed so no doubts they didn't work to code on that stuff more times than just for me hah.

I really am pretty thankful to have her. She knows it too. ... more
Wow, that will be great if she does ! We need more females to speak up. It's a new world. Females should be in control when it comes to sex .
10/19/2017
Contributor: gikki gikki
So - I had to think about this. Is it sad that I legitimately do not remember when I got it?

I was probably 18 - pretty sure I ordered it online although I had been to a few shops at that point too. It was a slim, waterproof floral print vibrator. I actually just got rid of it recently (I left the batteries in it and it had gotten packed away during a room remodel- the batteries corroded and it kind of spread - bad toy owner!)

It introduced me to toys and I have been exploring ever since! For that, I will always remember it fondly!
10/19/2017
Contributor: SoloRebel SoloRebel
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Originally posted by Lena Eden
Do you still use it? Was it a regular or vibrating anal plug?
The name came to me the other day...it was a Doc Johnson, crystal jellies 4-5" anal delight.
10/22/2017
Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
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Originally posted by SoloRebel
The name came to me the other day...it was a Doc Johnson, crystal jellies 4-5" anal delight.
Oh, with the bulbs one! I love my Amethyst dildo because of these bulbs..
10/23/2017
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Lena Eden
Oh, with the bulbs one! I love my Amethyst dildo because of these bulbs..
Talking about bulbs. Check out The Tantus Revolution . Bulbous head is 2" wide and 2" long. Then there veins on the shaft one can really feel. As a matter of fact she used it last night. ......And on guess who. .....No, guess again.
10/23/2017
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Talking about bulbs. Check out The Tantus Revolution . Bulbous head is 2" wide and 2" long. Then there veins on the shaft one can really feel. As a matter of fact she used it last night. ......And on guess who. .....No, guess again. ... more
Thanks for the reminder - we'll have to pull the Revolution out of the bottom of the drawer and give it new life!
10/23/2017
Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Talking about bulbs. Check out The Tantus Revolution . Bulbous head is 2" wide and 2" long. Then there veins on the shaft one can really feel. As a matter of fact she used it last night. ......And on guess who. .....No, guess again. ... more
Oh, it's a really big one compared to the Amethyst
10/24/2017
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Lena Eden
Oh, it's a really big one compared to the Amethyst
Is there anyone present that believes bigger is better
we'll, there's at least one person raising her hand....or is it a him
10/24/2017
Contributor: ReverieReviews ReverieReviews
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Is there anyone present that believes bigger is better
we'll, there's at least one person raising her hand....or is it a him
Well, I suppose for me I'm 50-50 on whether bigger is better or not! Or maybe 75-25 leaning towards bigger when it comes to toys

Toys which are advertised with only 3-5 inches of insertable length baffle me - I couldn't imagine selecting one of these for the purpose of penetrative play unless perhaps they had -really- great vibrations, or a nice clit stimulator attached. Toys like Eden's Air Flirt and Sway only appealed to me due to their special features, but without them I would have certainly opted for something closer to the Luxuriate in length, but with a little more girth (closer to around 1.5 diameter).

The Big Boy was really close to an ideal for me! However its 2" diameter is a little too girthy for thrusting play unless you have either a nice amount of natural lubricant or have lube to use with it.

As for anal toys... I haven't done much exploration there to say whether bigger is better or not, but I do have two items on the way to begin testing this
10/24/2017
Contributor: Cinnyree Cinnyree
All sex toys and accessories that I own have come from this site. I have gone to Pure Romance parties but I never owned toys. I greatly enjoy changing my sexual journey. Masturbation has never been (and continues not to be) my cup of tea. The experiences that I wish to achieve from sex I can not get from myself. Orgasms are fun but I'd rather have all the stuff that I can't get from a toy. However, adding toys to my couple play is always fun
10/24/2017
Contributor: Naughtymedic Naughtymedic
Got a vibrator from a store and tried it with a then boyfriend. Amazing feeling. Love love toys since then
10/25/2017
Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
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Originally posted by Naughtymedic
Got a vibrator from a store and tried it with a then boyfriend. Amazing feeling. Love love toys since then


How many toys do you have in your arsenal now??
10/26/2017
Contributor: SoloRebel SoloRebel
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Originally posted by Lena Eden
Oh, with the bulbs one! I love my Amethyst dildo because of these bulbs..
Yes...bulbs are a definite plus! Too bad it wasn't hands-free with bulbs, that would have been even better...
10/28/2017
Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
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Originally posted by SoloRebel
Yes...bulbs are a definite plus! Too bad it wasn't hands-free with bulbs, that would have been even better...
I think these would be a great option
11/03/2017
Contributor: Orgasms & Pearls Orgasms & Pearls
First & worst sex toy was bought by the husband online. It was a rabbit vibe. We were both uneducated & just starting to explorer sex toys. He thought it was a great fit for what we were looking for and a good price. Needless to say it was made from a pourous material. Eekkk.
01/31/2018
Contributor: BustyBirdy BustyBirdy
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Originally posted by ReverieReviews
While I've had a fascination with sex toys for years now, I haven't really been able to get into growing my collection until recently and this new freedom I have has made me really want to explore every facet of my interest in adult toys. ... more
I started out with some homemade stuff or anything I could use for rubbing. When I finally lived on my own at about 25 I bought a couple of toys here. I think my first one was a simple g spot vibe that was skinny.
02/01/2018
Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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Originally posted by BustyBirdy
I started out with some homemade stuff or anything I could use for rubbing. When I finally lived on my own at about 25 I bought a couple of toys here. I think my first one was a simple g spot vibe that was skinny.
Oh, I think we all have started with household items Thank god we're not in that times anymore!

I was lucky enough to have very educated friends, who have introduced me to sex toys much earlier than I should have found out about them. but it was in a smart and effective way. So by the time I bought the first one for myself, I was really confident about my likes and dislikes. My first visit to the sex shop made it clear that I have A LOT to learn - which I've been doing ever since
10/15/2018
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
WOW...
The very first toy I bought was way back in the "70's. Pre-Internet days it was a mail order vibrator for use with my then GF. Rather low quality "flesh-color" hard plastic. It only worked for a few sessions until it would no longer vibrate.

Now even the lowest priced item here on Eden Fantasys is far superior to that one.
10/15/2018
Contributor: christyfuntime89 christyfuntime89
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Originally posted by ReverieReviews
As I'm the one asking the question it's only fair for me to answer first!

I was 15-16 at the time and had had a growing interest in exploring my sexuality for a year or two before that. I made the most from household objects, such as a ... more
I to was fifteen mine also came from Spencer's. It was a simple, slender, 7inch vibrator that didn't cost more than $10. I remember the lady who checked me out was super perky and asked if I wanted batteries.
01/03/2019
Contributor: Soundside46 Soundside46
Actually ordered mine through a catalog. The internet wasn't invented yet.
06/18/2019
Contributor: Pajodin Pajodin
The first toy we bought is an ordinary vibrator, but it all started with it. Our sex life has become much brighter.
07/08/2019
Contributor: Leil@ Leil@
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Originally posted by Soundside46
Actually ordered mine through a catalog. The internet wasn't invented yet.
What the toy was it? Is it still in use, or you got rid of it?
07/10/2019
Contributor: Leil@ Leil@
The first sex toy I bought was not even for me, it was a gift for a good friend. I wanted to give her something memorable and extraordinary And frankly, I didn't even expect she would use it. But that was the moment when we both began to explore the diversity of sex toys
07/10/2019
Contributor: Thelovelysexxto1 Thelovelysexxto1
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Originally posted by ReverieReviews
While I've had a fascination with sex toys for years now, I haven't really been able to get into growing my collection until recently and this new freedom I have has made me really want to explore every facet of my interest in adult toys. ... more
My first sex toy was the thin anal dildos that is also for vag use. My husband has gotten it for me when we were dating. He also got cock vibrating rings the ones you throw away after use. Now this was 4 years ago, our collection has expanded since then.
07/14/2019
Contributor: The.RedQueen The.RedQueen
Hahaha my best friend and I were both 17 at the time so we sent our guy best friend, who was 20 to buy us vibrators! They were cheap mini knock off Hitachi wands from spencers in the mall that broke almost instantly but hey..at the time, they were the best thing we owned! Thinking back to it though I'm still embarrassed lol!
07/14/2019
Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
It was a cheap hard plastic basic vibe that I got from Spencers in the mall. I was probably 18 or 19.
09/11/2019
Contributor: Perspicace mais érotique Perspicace mais érotique
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Originally posted by ReverieReviews
While I've had a fascination with sex toys for years now, I haven't really been able to get into growing my collection until recently and this new freedom I have has made me really want to explore every facet of my interest in adult toys. ... more
My boyfriend (now my husband) gave me my first sex toys. He couldn't choose just one. He walked in with the strap-on butterfly vibrator (not like the one sold now--they have improved it) and a very cheap, bright pink realistic dildo. He bought them at a local sex store.

I was very interested in using them but very shy back then and anxious about using them in front of him. So my first experience with both of them was alone and went very well! The dildo was really, really cheap I guess because I had to throw it out after a year or two (it began to break down and get sticky. Yuk!!)
09/11/2019
Contributor: sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
The first sex toy I ever bought was a cheap rabbit style vibe, which I reviewed on here as my very first review. My friend and I were 18, and we visited a sex shop with the intended purpose of buying a sex toy. They didn't have a great selection, and I had no idea what silicone toys were back then, so I grabbed the first jelly glow in the dark rabbit vibe I saw. I was still exploring my sexuality, so I wanted to see what the hype was about vibrators.

I kept the toy for a long time as sort of a memento of my growth with sex toys. Even though the twisting mechanism had long since broken and the vibration wasn't nearly as strong as it had been when I first got it. I've thrown it away recently, as the jelly portion detached from the plastic base and started sweating. Into the trash it went, and now I only try to purchase silicone, glass or other safe options.
09/16/2019
Contributor: MelissaTilghman MelissaTilghman
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Originally posted by LovelyGirl93
I think it may have been because of how old my ex looked. Plus they had their stuff removed so no doubts they didn't work to code on that stuff more times than just for me hah.

I really am pretty thankful to have her. She knows it too. ... more
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09/18/2019
Contributor: madame macbeth madame macbeth
it was a toy party.
11/01/2019