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How do you vibrate a man's penis?

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Contributor: FruityCloud FruityCloud
(I started this topic in vibrators, but didn't get many posts)

I have the Life by Leaf vibrator coming in the mail, as well as the Eden Fantasy bullet that is a freebie this week, and my boyfriend said he would be interested in me vibrating his penis with one.
What I want to know is what part of the penis gets the best response from vibrations and isn't too powerful or overwhelming too quickly?
He hasn't tried any type of vibration on his penis before, so I don't want it too be too much for him.
Also, my boyfriend's balls are incredibly sensitive, so I won't be going near there with a vibrator. But anywhere else anyone can recommend or tips to take it slowly would be greatly appreciated!
[Note: In case it makes a difference, he is not circumcised]
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Start from the head and move down slowly
5  (14%)
Start from the bottom of the shaft and move up slowly
3  (8%)
Move it around in circles and patterns all over from the center
1  (3%)
No idea
20  (56%)
Other (Please help me with any tips you can offer!)
7  (19%)
Total votes: 36
Poll is closed
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Contributor: Badass Badass
I personally have not tried this, but moving it around in circles and patterns makes the most sense to me. Especially underneath and by the head.
03/28/2012
Contributor: FruityCloud FruityCloud
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
I personally have not tried this, but moving it around in circles and patterns makes the most sense to me. Especially underneath and by the head.
Someone mentioned right below the head is the best. I guess I won't know until we try. Thanks for the comment. :]
03/28/2012
Contributor: FemmeFlo FemmeFlo
I haven't used vibes with my guy aside from using a vibe in my vag during anal sex. Idk if he'd even like using vibes.
03/28/2012
Contributor: Positwist Positwist
It's definitely going to depend on his preference. Despite what Cosmo wants us to believe, there's no such thing as a surefire technique, other than to play around and ask what he likes.
03/28/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by FruityCloud
(I started this topic in vibrators, but didn't get many posts)

I have the Life by Leaf vibrator coming in the mail, as well as the Eden Fantasy bullet that is a freebie this week, and my boyfriend said he would be interested in me ... more
Would it be better to use a vibrating cock ring for this? Maybe Je Joue Mio.
03/28/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I tried touching my guy with one of my vibes, and he pushed it away, he doesn't like anything but my hands and mouth on his thing.
03/28/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
For an extremely light vibration, I would suggest a vibrating tongue ring.
03/28/2012
Contributor: jmex83 jmex83
Quote:
Originally posted by FruityCloud
(I started this topic in vibrators, but didn't get many posts)

I have the Life by Leaf vibrator coming in the mail, as well as the Eden Fantasy bullet that is a freebie this week, and my boyfriend said he would be interested in me ... more
honestly, the only vibrations ive ever had is with cock rings. everything of this nature is for my wife lol
03/29/2012
Contributor: MamaDivine MamaDivine
Quote:
Originally posted by jmex83
honestly, the only vibrations ive ever had is with cock rings. everything of this nature is for my wife lol
what he said lol. Im greedy with my stuff haha
03/29/2012
Contributor: wildorchid wildorchid
Honestly, guy have different preference like women do, so the best policy is to try stuff out. I use my Nea on my guy's balls and he loves it! If your guy is sensitive, then try vibrations on his balls on low. I suggest trying the Life vibe along the entire shaft and tip of his penis, figure out what feels best for him. My guy likes the vibe at the base. Just like you have to find out what feels right for you, same thing for guys. By the way, combining a vibrator with oral may be right up his alley Hope that helps!
03/29/2012
Contributor: FruityCloud FruityCloud
Quote:
Originally posted by wildorchid
Honestly, guy have different preference like women do, so the best policy is to try stuff out. I use my Nea on my guy's balls and he loves it! If your guy is sensitive, then try vibrations on his balls on low. I suggest trying the Life vibe ... more
Ooooh, that sounds pretty good. Vibrating with oral. I'm definitely doing that to him when my package arrives! Thanks for the idea. ;]
03/29/2012
Contributor: rom323 rom323
what works best for me is using a body wand and holding it as the base of the base on the top side of the penis. The backside works as well but the top side at the base feels the best. But is is a experiment for everyone individually.
03/29/2012
Contributor: GS500 GS500
keep it on the thicker parts, i.e. shaft near the base.
03/29/2012
Contributor: FruityCloud FruityCloud
Quote:
Originally posted by GS500
keep it on the thicker parts, i.e. shaft near the base.
Got it. Thanks!
03/29/2012
Contributor: FruityCloud FruityCloud
Quote:
Originally posted by rom323
what works best for me is using a body wand and holding it as the base of the base on the top side of the penis. The backside works as well but the top side at the base feels the best. But is is a experiment for everyone individually.
Hmmmm. Will try that. Thanks!
03/29/2012
Contributor: Arch600 Arch600
Vibes do much of nothing for me most of the time but when they do, it is from small circles on the underside of the shaft, just below the head. I voted 'other' since you specifically said all over from the center. Just that spot below the head is the only place a vibe has a chance with me. Anywhere else is mostly annoying. Like others have said, however, every guy is different. Experimenting to learn what he likes is half the fun!
03/29/2012
Contributor: CindyH CindyH
start from bottom and go up
03/29/2012
Contributor: FruityCloud FruityCloud
Quote:
Originally posted by Arch600
Vibes do much of nothing for me most of the time but when they do, it is from small circles on the underside of the shaft, just below the head. I voted 'other' since you specifically said all over from the center. Just that spot below the ... more
I actually tried last night, and he's like you. He likes it the best right under the head. :]
03/30/2012
Contributor: cepl5869 cepl5869
try under the head bottom side with some lube so it doesn't pull on the skin
03/30/2012
Contributor: Azule Azule
My guess would be from the bottom side of the head and up.
03/30/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by FruityCloud
(I started this topic in vibrators, but didn't get many posts)

I have the Life by Leaf vibrator coming in the mail, as well as the Eden Fantasy bullet that is a freebie this week, and my boyfriend said he would be interested in me ... more
My best guess is start somewhere in the middle of the shaft, because the head is super sensitive and the balls are really sensitive keep it in the middle. And if he likes it you can keeping moving closer to the head. Good luck!!
03/30/2012
Contributor: FruityCloud FruityCloud
Quote:
Originally posted by sweetpea12
My best guess is start somewhere in the middle of the shaft, because the head is super sensitive and the balls are really sensitive keep it in the middle. And if he likes it you can keeping moving closer to the head. Good luck!!
That's basically exactly what I did, and moved up slowly after, because a lot of people said try it near the head, and he really liked that. :]
03/31/2012
Contributor: HannahPanda HannahPanda
Depends a bit on the day. Usually from the bottom up.
03/31/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
Sounds interesting, never tried it.
03/31/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
I personally have not tried this, but moving it around in circles and patterns makes the most sense to me. Especially underneath and by the head.
I had the same thing in mind.
04/08/2012
Contributor: Clubbinseals Clubbinseals
no idea... what ever your guy prefers
04/08/2012