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How many of you are into pain?

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Contributor: Bebela Bebela
I'm very curious because so far I see that girls usually are the ones that like pain. If guys do, then it's usually CBT.

I'm pretty sure I might be wrong, so tell me in the comments and the poll, do you like pain? sex? and what kind?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Yes (Female)
Beautiful-Disaster , ginnyluvspotter , 783883877299373783 , Airen Wolf , twelve13 , James Axel , LavenderSkies , solitudinarian , CaseyDeuce , MissCandyland , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , padmeamidala , Dustin LaBorde , sillylilkitten , dawnkye , DawnStar , Vanille , sexytileena / absolutely love sex , Alyona
19  (49%)
Yes (Male)
No (Female)
funluvinmama , Rossie , Cindi025 , ashboo32 , Taylor , The Vixen , Rin (aka Nire) , bowzer311 , K101 , SP , Tom Dogface , Silverwinds , Lildrummrgurl7 , bayosgirl
14  (36%)
No (Male)
pokefan15 , big b , Trysexual , leatherlover , tunacan75 , 1001 Pleasures
6  (15%)
Total votes: 39
Poll is closed
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Contributor: ginnyluvspotter ginnyluvspotter
Yes if I am the one cause the pain
02/27/2013
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
I don't mind a bit of a spanking, or light nipple clamps.
02/27/2013
Contributor: big b big b
stix and stones will brake my bones, but whips and chains excite me.
02/27/2013
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
Nope
02/27/2013
Contributor: The Vixen The Vixen
Pain isn't really my thing.
02/27/2013
Contributor: Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
I enjoy watching S&M porn on occasion, but overall it's not my thing. Actually causing or receiving pain is kind of a turn-off for me.
02/27/2013
Contributor: tunacan75 tunacan75
Its not for me and I don't actually get why people like it, but my GF loves it so we do related activity for her
02/27/2013
Contributor: bowzer311 bowzer311
No Im really not into pain.
02/27/2013
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Bebela
I'm very curious because so far I see that girls usually are the ones that like pain. If guys do, then it's usually CBT.

I'm pretty sure I might be wrong, so tell me in the comments and the poll, do you like pain? sex? and what kind?
Actually my two guys and I are all into pain as pleasure.
02/27/2013
Contributor: James Axel James Axel
I like giving and receiving it.
02/28/2013
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Bebela
I'm very curious because so far I see that girls usually are the ones that like pain. If guys do, then it's usually CBT.

I'm pretty sure I might be wrong, so tell me in the comments and the poll, do you like pain? sex? and what kind?
I like to give and receive pain.
02/28/2013
Contributor: solitudinarian solitudinarian
Impact play, pinching, clamps and needles. I want to try electrical play.
02/28/2013
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by Bebela
I'm very curious because so far I see that girls usually are the ones that like pain. If guys do, then it's usually CBT.

I'm pretty sure I might be wrong, so tell me in the comments and the poll, do you like pain? sex? and what kind?
Can somebody tell me who CBT is? I don't know if I know this term. Sorry.

To answer your question though, I'm a female and while I have a lot of fun with bondage and some restraining and spanking and rough play, the only place I do pain is my nipples and I don't care to be put in pain for someone's pleasure. It kind of makes me sad more than aroused. My partner is a male and hell, it took me forever to assure him a slap on the butt didn't actually hurt me! Lol. He would worry about causing me real pain. If it's extremely rough or draws blood, we don't get into it. Mostly we're into the lighter stuff.
02/28/2013
Contributor: CaseyDeuce CaseyDeuce
I'm a fan of moderate pain. No skewering or anything like that though.
02/28/2013
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
I like moderate pain.
03/01/2013
Contributor: SP SP
I enjoy giving it but receiving pain is a huge no-no.
03/01/2013
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I can tolerate moderate pain.
03/01/2013
Contributor: 1001 Pleasures 1001 Pleasures
I don't like any kind of pain.
03/04/2013
Contributor: Tom Dogface Tom Dogface
No (Female)
03/04/2013
Contributor: Dustin LaBorde Dustin LaBorde
yes my wife likes pain she is in to everything her favorite is getting cut during sex
03/04/2013
Contributor: sillylilkitten sillylilkitten
I like a little pain, but nothing lasting or extreme. Spankings, canings, nipple pinching, that's about it.
03/04/2013
Contributor: DawnStar DawnStar
It depends on my mood.
03/06/2013
Contributor: gothicwhispers gothicwhispers
Meh. Not really. My husband likes a little light pain, depending on his mood.
03/06/2013
Contributor: sexytileena / absolutely love sex sexytileena / absolutely love sex
Yes (Female)
03/06/2013
Contributor: Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
Not really, no. I don't mind some light impact play but I suffer from chronic pain and I really hate pain.
03/06/2013
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
Not me.
03/07/2013
Contributor: Alyona Alyona
Yes (Female)
03/07/2013