So I was wondering if my sex life is a bit over the top?! My husband and I have sex a dozen times a week, NO JOKE. I wonder how we do it with a 3 year old and now a 2 month old, but I was really wondering how much people really have sex? Feel free to share real numbers if you rather be more in depth rather than a range to fall in! And also feel free to chime in if I'm crazy
How many times a week do you and your lover have sex?
09/28/2011
- 1
- 2
- 3
- 4
- 5
We usually aim for at least once a day!
09/28/2011
bf travels for work a lot so he isn't always home so it varies but when he is we go at it every chance we get and a couple of times a night.
09/28/2011
I chose 1-4 but it's usually more like 0-1
09/28/2011
yeah, 0-1 should be an option. Just isn't happening as much as either of us would like it to be.
09/28/2011
I thought about that after I submitted it but I'm not sure how to change it. I'm going to see if I can now!
09/28/2011
About six to 10 times a week, give or take, or once or twice a day, taking a day off now and then for rest and recuperation.
He's been working crazy hours the last week and a half, plus weekend hours, but I've been keeping him busy at home. Last night he could not get to sleep. I massaged him for nearly 45 minutes. Despite being exhausted he still could not stop thinking about his job and get some sleep. A nice roll in the hay (actually the bed) shut off his mind and let him sleep.
He's been working crazy hours the last week and a half, plus weekend hours, but I've been keeping him busy at home. Last night he could not get to sleep. I massaged him for nearly 45 minutes. Despite being exhausted he still could not stop thinking about his job and get some sleep. A nice roll in the hay (actually the bed) shut off his mind and let him sleep.
09/28/2011
Since I am only home 3 nights a week usually, we only get to do it once or twice a week. I would be happy with at least twice a week.
09/28/2011
2-3 times a week. I wish it was more though.
09/28/2011
I hate to admit it, but my sex drive and my wife's have finally converged.
At a time when 3-4x per month was a lot for her, I use to want sex every day.
But I can't pull that off anymore - and she's gotten into it more, so the 3-4 per week we do now works well for both of us.
At a time when 3-4x per month was a lot for her, I use to want sex every day.
But I can't pull that off anymore - and she's gotten into it more, so the 3-4 per week we do now works well for both of us.
09/28/2011
We were averaging about once a week - maybe twice a week sometimes.
But we just added sex toys a bit ago - in fact - the first one arrived last week and its been 3 times in 5 days and we're already planning on tomorrow when our two new toys arrive.
However, we're in our 50's - been married 32 years and don't have stamina like we did when we were younger.
Right now its almost like we're newlyweds - we'd probably have had sex more lately if we both hadn't been so sore from our "extended" (for us) sessions.
I imagine we'll probably get to the point where it will be 3-4 per week when things settle down....unless we get a new toy to review that week!
But we just added sex toys a bit ago - in fact - the first one arrived last week and its been 3 times in 5 days and we're already planning on tomorrow when our two new toys arrive.
However, we're in our 50's - been married 32 years and don't have stamina like we did when we were younger.
Right now its almost like we're newlyweds - we'd probably have had sex more lately if we both hadn't been so sore from our "extended" (for us) sessions.
I imagine we'll probably get to the point where it will be 3-4 per week when things settle down....unless we get a new toy to review that week!
09/29/2011
Twice a day is our minimum.
10/01/2011
We do it once a week or less lol, I am a very aroused and highly sexualized woman and so is my guy but he is in a lot of pain right ( and since last February) and things have been slow to pick back up.
It's cool to boast about how things are awesome when they are going your way but when they aren't it sort of sucks
It could be going better if we didn't have the physical pain in the way...
It's cool to boast about how things are awesome when they are going your way but when they aren't it sort of sucks
It could be going better if we didn't have the physical pain in the way...
10/01/2011
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I feel ya!
Originally posted by
Lucky21
yeah, 0-1 should be an option. Just isn't happening as much as either of us would like it to be.
10/01/2011
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Same thing here. The problem is we don't live together plus we are both grad students and he also works a lot. Otherwise it would have been like 3-4 times a week.
Originally posted by
Lucky21
yeah, 0-1 should be an option. Just isn't happening as much as either of us would like it to be.
10/01/2011
We have sex nearly every day and sometimes more than twice a day.
It hasn't always been this way though. We have been together 18+ years and sadly, only the first 2 years and the last 2 years have been like this! At least I finally got my groove back.
It hasn't always been this way though. We have been together 18+ years and sadly, only the first 2 years and the last 2 years have been like this! At least I finally got my groove back.
10/01/2011
we used to do it alot, every day. But with her having to work and all the activities with the kids, we do not have as much free time at night. As soon as work picks back up to where I do not have to worry about the next project, she can quit and we will have our free time back.
10/01/2011
well when my husband and I were 1st together, it was every day. It has since gotten to be 3-5 times a week. As of late I am just lucky if its a couple times a month due to serious woman issues. Hopefully thats about to change soon *crosses fingers*
10/01/2011
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Whatever works for you is the RIGHT thing to do. So long as you both are happy. You probably have more then most..especially with the kids, but I am going to guess you are pretty young too...just from a stamina standpoint. Enjoy it, that youth is...fleeting.
Originally posted by
NaughtyNikkie
So I was wondering if my sex life is a bit over the top?! My husband and I have sex a dozen times a week, NO JOKE. I wonder how we do it with a 3 year old and now a 2 month old, but I was really wondering how much people really have sex? Feel free to
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So I was wondering if my sex life is a bit over the top?! My husband and I have sex a dozen times a week, NO JOKE. I wonder how we do it with a 3 year old and now a 2 month old, but I was really wondering how much people really have sex? Feel free to share real numbers if you rather be more in depth rather than a range to fall in! And also feel free to chime in if I'm crazy
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10/01/2011
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Darn, you are amazing girl!!!
Originally posted by
P'Gell
About six to 10 times a week, give or take, or once or twice a day, taking a day off now and then for rest and recuperation.
He's been working crazy hours the last week and a half, plus weekend hours, but I've been keeping him busy at ... more
He's been working crazy hours the last week and a half, plus weekend hours, but I've been keeping him busy at ... more
About six to 10 times a week, give or take, or once or twice a day, taking a day off now and then for rest and recuperation.
He's been working crazy hours the last week and a half, plus weekend hours, but I've been keeping him busy at home. Last night he could not get to sleep. I massaged him for nearly 45 minutes. Despite being exhausted he still could not stop thinking about his job and get some sleep. A nice roll in the hay (actually the bed) shut off his mind and let him sleep. less
He's been working crazy hours the last week and a half, plus weekend hours, but I've been keeping him busy at home. Last night he could not get to sleep. I massaged him for nearly 45 minutes. Despite being exhausted he still could not stop thinking about his job and get some sleep. A nice roll in the hay (actually the bed) shut off his mind and let him sleep. less
10/01/2011
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i have 2 toddlers and usually only time is at night if hubby isnt too tired from work, or weekends. i wish it was 12 + times a week lol
Originally posted by
NaughtyNikkie
So I was wondering if my sex life is a bit over the top?! My husband and I have sex a dozen times a week, NO JOKE. I wonder how we do it with a 3 year old and now a 2 month old, but I was really wondering how much people really have sex? Feel free to
...
more
So I was wondering if my sex life is a bit over the top?! My husband and I have sex a dozen times a week, NO JOKE. I wonder how we do it with a 3 year old and now a 2 month old, but I was really wondering how much people really have sex? Feel free to share real numbers if you rather be more in depth rather than a range to fall in! And also feel free to chime in if I'm crazy
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10/03/2011
We've been making a huge effort lately. 3-4x a week.....
Before that we were 2-4x a month lol
Before that we were 2-4x a month lol
10/03/2011
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LUBE! LOL! My Man and I had a "sexual reawakening" in the past 5 years. My sex drive went through the roof, and despite his being in his early 50s, he went along with my "seventeen year old boy sex drive" (as he calls it.) We went from about 3-5 times a week to twice a day, found toys, and got sore...
Originally posted by
Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
We were averaging about once a week - maybe twice a week sometimes.
But we just added sex toys a bit ago - in fact - the first one arrived last week and its been 3 times in 5 days and we're already planning on tomorrow when our two new ... more
But we just added sex toys a bit ago - in fact - the first one arrived last week and its been 3 times in 5 days and we're already planning on tomorrow when our two new ... more
We were averaging about once a week - maybe twice a week sometimes.
But we just added sex toys a bit ago - in fact - the first one arrived last week and its been 3 times in 5 days and we're already planning on tomorrow when our two new toys arrive.
However, we're in our 50's - been married 32 years and don't have stamina like we did when we were younger.
Right now its almost like we're newlyweds - we'd probably have had sex more lately if we both hadn't been so sore from our "extended" (for us) sessions.
I imagine we'll probably get to the point where it will be 3-4 per week when things settle down....unless we get a new toy to review that week! less
But we just added sex toys a bit ago - in fact - the first one arrived last week and its been 3 times in 5 days and we're already planning on tomorrow when our two new toys arrive.
However, we're in our 50's - been married 32 years and don't have stamina like we did when we were younger.
Right now its almost like we're newlyweds - we'd probably have had sex more lately if we both hadn't been so sore from our "extended" (for us) sessions.
I imagine we'll probably get to the point where it will be 3-4 per week when things settle down....unless we get a new toy to review that week! less
We found a good lube; we use Sliquid H2O Ride. And because I was in early peri-menopause I finally consented to using an HRT creme because I couldn't orgasm easily. The drop in hormones caused my once hair trigger orgasm to wane. Now, we're less chafed and my orgasm is much better and he's working hard to keep up with me.
The HRT decision is a hard one. I always swore I wouldn't use it. I tried "natural" bio-identicals and things like that, but they didn't do the job. I still was having problems with orgasm. Hot flashes and night sweats I can handle, not being able to orgasm I cannot and will not live with at all! A quarter tube of estrogen creme all month long and a small dose of progesterone, so I don't bleed too heavily from the estrogen, for the first 10 days of my cycle and I'm doing well.
10/03/2011
We try for once a day but it usually ends up being 4 times a week or so.
01/08/2012
My hubby works in the oil field gone for seven days at a time, so when he is home we are having sex as much as possible. We have a four year old, two year old and a three month old baby, we will put them to bed early so we can have a few hours before they get up!
01/13/2012
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