'm currently dating a guy who is great in bed! He's big, I mean bordering 9ins with quite a girth big and can last forever, even after he cums, he's ready to go in under a minute! I know this may be hard to believe but it's true, and I couldn't be more lucky to have found a guy like this in the sex dept!
My concern is that he may not be as into exploring sex as I am and that's a problem. I recently had health issues which drastically brought down my libido and perhaps took a toll on our sex life (seeing as we started dating in the midst of all these and they lasted a while). He continuously asks me about anal but when it comes to me looking at toys online it's almost like he becomes a shy child that shouldn't be looking at them. There's also no ease when it comes to transitioning into sex... half the time when he initiates I want to laugh.
I want to have a sexual relationship where the transition is easy, where he's excited to try out a new toy, where he questions what we'll be doing next and how. I know I've had my limitations and I shouldn't expect too much too soon but its just odd how he reacts most of the time. Any advice from the ladies and gents out there?
PS - I'm curious about anal and BDSM which I'd love for him to get in with me, using toys and games and costumes
My concern is that he may not be as into exploring sex as I am and that's a problem. I recently had health issues which drastically brought down my libido and perhaps took a toll on our sex life (seeing as we started dating in the midst of all these and they lasted a while). He continuously asks me about anal but when it comes to me looking at toys online it's almost like he becomes a shy child that shouldn't be looking at them. There's also no ease when it comes to transitioning into sex... half the time when he initiates I want to laugh.
I want to have a sexual relationship where the transition is easy, where he's excited to try out a new toy, where he questions what we'll be doing next and how. I know I've had my limitations and I shouldn't expect too much too soon but its just odd how he reacts most of the time. Any advice from the ladies and gents out there?
PS - I'm curious about anal and BDSM which I'd love for him to get in with me, using toys and games and costumes
