If u are straight man or woman can you still receive oral or physical sex from someone of the same sex and not be considered gay?

Contributor: Andykh Andykh
Haven't been on in a long time. Wife and I have got into some newer to us toy play and got into bisexual movies. I was told several years ago if a straight man/woman receives but does not give sexual pleasure he/she is not gay but if he/she gives and recieves he/she is considered gay or bi.
04/06/2018
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Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
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Originally posted by Andykh
Haven't been on in a long time. Wife and I have got into some newer to us toy play and got into bisexual movies. I was told several years ago if a straight man/woman receives but does not give sexual pleasure he/she is not gay but if he/she ... more
Glad to see you back, Andykh

I also love to watch bisexual movies, but I don't think of myself as a queer. Sexual pleasure doesn't always stand for your sexual orientation.

I've also heard that a person is gay if they can love another person of the same gender. If you just have sex, it doesn't count.
04/11/2018
Contributor: Andykh Andykh
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Originally posted by Lena Eden
Glad to see you back, Andykh

I also love to watch bisexual movies, but I don't think of myself as a queer. Sexual pleasure doesn't always stand for your sexual orientation.

I've also heard that a person is gay if they can ... more
Thank you yes it has been a while. Ever since she text me while I was at work to get a bisexual movie it has kinda opened up our sex life in a good way. We play around with several toys at same time. She has used her favorite toy to have me go down on it as well as on herself. Plus I have a nice little toy that I like to use inside me with great vibrations. The movies are a lot hotter than I originally thought . Very different but very very hot. I could never act on a real situation like in the movies but is very hot and opens up the mind
04/15/2018
Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
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Originally posted by Andykh
Thank you yes it has been a while. Ever since she text me while I was at work to get a bisexual movie it has kinda opened up our sex life in a good way. We play around with several toys at same time. She has used her favorite toy to have me go down ... more
Andykh, what small toy do you use? I'm looking for a small p-spot pleaser to use on my BF...
04/18/2018
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Lena Eden
Andykh, what small toy do you use? I'm looking for a small p-spot pleaser to use on my BF...
Lena,
Look at the stainless steel Prostate Expert. I'm working on review now. This is not that big. Stainless is very very smooth, so no drag like silicone or even plastic. He will love the bulbous head rubbing his prostate. And you will love the results.
04/18/2018
Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Lena,
Look at the stainless steel Prostate Expert. I'm working on review now. This is not that big. Stainless is very very smooth, so no drag like silicone or even plastic. He will love the bulbous head rubbing his prostate. And you will love ... more
Ahh, okaaay Thanks for the recommendation.

I'm looking forward to reading your review
04/19/2018
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Lena,
Look at the stainless steel Prostate Expert. I'm working on review now. This is not that big. Stainless is very very smooth, so no drag like silicone or even plastic. He will love the bulbous head rubbing his prostate. And you will love ... more
The Prostate Expert Looks like either a private label version or knock-off of the Njoy Pfun plug.

For what's worth, I had this toy but was underwhelmed by it. Don't get me wrong - at least the Njoy one that I had was well made - but I didn't provide any prostate stimulation and it didn't want to stay in.
04/19/2018
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
The Prostate Expert Looks like either a private label version or knock-off of the Njoy Pfun plug.

For what's worth, I had this toy but was underwhelmed by it. Don't get me wrong - at least the Njoy one that I had was well made - but I ... more
Most likely Pfun is more for begginners. So is the Prostate expert. And not designed to be used as an anal plug. For Advanced or even intermediates I reccomend the" big daddy",nJoy pp 2.0. Of course these are just my opinions. I'm not a toy expert.

Be careful of the spelling. I remember someone here getting uptight.
04/19/2018
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Most likely Pfun is more for begginners. So is the Prostate expert. And not designed to be used as an anal plug. For Advanced or even intermediates I reccomend the" big daddy",nJoy pp 2.0. Of course these are just my opinions. I'm not a ... more
Not a toy expert?
04/19/2018
Contributor: PiercedDownunder PiercedDownunder
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Originally posted by Andykh
Haven't been on in a long time. Wife and I have got into some newer to us toy play and got into bisexual movies. I was told several years ago if a straight man/woman receives but does not give sexual pleasure he/she is not gay but if he/she ... more
I believe you can in certain scenarios while role playing, for example being dominated by your wife, restrained then forced to engage sexualy with another man. If that scenario was her wish and you consented to explore this with her then I fail to see any homosexual tendencies. If you alone are attracted to other men or would like to explore intercourse with a man that might make you curious or bisexual.
Just my opinion
04/28/2018
Contributor: BRADW BRADW
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Originally posted by PiercedDownunder
I believe you can in certain scenarios while role playing, for example being dominated by your wife, restrained then forced to engage sexualy with another man. If that scenario was her wish and you consented to explore this with her then I fail to ... more
This is just my opinion...
I am NOT attracted to men but... I have the thought of finding a guy to have anal sex with because I'm curious to see what it feels like... I have several pspot toys and I like the feel of them rubbing my prostate... so I kinda want to see what it feels like to have a strong orgasm with a real guy
04/29/2018
Contributor: Andykh Andykh
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Originally posted by PiercedDownunder
I believe you can in certain scenarios while role playing, for example being dominated by your wife, restrained then forced to engage sexualy with another man. If that scenario was her wish and you consented to explore this with her then I fail to ... more
It has been mostly role-playing with toys in the bedroom and a movie. I never have gave any thoughts of taking it any further
07/03/2018
Contributor: Andykh Andykh
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Originally posted by BRADW
This is just my opinion...
I am NOT attracted to men but... I have the thought of finding a guy to have anal sex with because I'm curious to see what it feels like... I have several pspot toys and I like the feel of them rubbing my prostate... ... more
I'm not attracted to men either not saying many are not very good looking by any means just never have been attracted to men. Far as I could see myself going is with toys only
07/03/2018
Contributor: merc41 merc41
I do not consider myself gay or bi but have recieved and given bj's and ass play to guys. Men just know how to push another males buttons and I'm sure it's the same for women.We know our anatomys better than the opposite sex. I much rather be with my wife.And have had her fuck me with a vibe in the ass with or without a blow job. Usually I'm the dominant one but sometimes it's nice to lay back and recieve/relax.
07/31/2018