Increase Sexual Tendancies

Increase Sexual Tendancies

yiin yiin
I have a HIGH sex drive and my partner does not. I have tried just about everything to get her to want to have sex more often. Does this seem to be a common issue. I even joined this site to help get ideas for us. Open for suggestions.
07/27/2011
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Ansley Ansley
Age could be a factor. Resentment in the relationship could be a factor. Hormone imbalances could be a factor. Stress could be a factor. She could just have a naturally low sex drive and the two of you are mismatched.

The solution is pinpointing which of the above is correct and going from there. This could mean hormone therapy, better communication between the two of you or talking about opening up the relationship if there is no desire to fulfill your needs.

There are people in this world that just don't value sex as much as the rest of us might. I know several asexual people who do not enjoy the act of sex but will participate and openly tell their partners they will not actively participate - effectively being what some refer to as a "dead lay".
07/27/2011
yiin yiin
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Originally posted by Ansley
Age could be a factor. Resentment in the relationship could be a factor. Hormone imbalances could be a factor. Stress could be a factor. She could just have a naturally low sex drive and the two of you are mismatched.

The solution is ...
We are 20 and 21 so still young and about once or twice a year she will want it every day for about a week. Then she wont want to again for about two months.
07/28/2011
Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by yiin
We are 20 and 21 so still young and about once or twice a year she will want it every day for about a week. Then she wont want to again for about two months.
I guess what I'm trying to tell you is there are too many factors and there's no way to "diagnose" what's going on without ALL of the information and it sounds like even you don't have all of the information.

Talk to her. Find out what's going on. If this is her natural sex drive and it is lower than yours, you have to make a decision - which do you love more, her or the sex?
07/28/2011
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