Ladies...Does your partner buy you sex toys without your knowledge? How does that make you feel?

Contributor: Girly Juice Girly Juice
My boyfriend knows I get most of my toys for free from retailers and I know what I want better than he does, so he doesn't try to get me toys. We have purchased toys together though.
05/13/2013
Contributor: talon4196 talon4196
I do. It is fun. I am more picky, so I get it right most of the time.
05/13/2013
Contributor: Kitt Katt Kitt Katt
He surprises me fairly often. He spends more time on Eden than I do.
05/14/2013
Contributor: sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
Honestly, I wouldn't want a partner to surprise me with a toy. I do like to have a say in the matter of what pleasures me, and I would like to discuss things together rather than having something picked up out of the blue for me.
05/14/2013
Contributor: jwitt754 jwitt754
Me and my husband both surprise each other with sex toys. We do buy them together sometimes but we like the look on each others face when we get a new toy that the other had no idea we were getting.
05/14/2013
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
I've surprised my partner with toys and they tend to find it a fun experience. I've never had a bad reaction to my presents yet.
05/14/2013
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
The hubby likes to occasionally surprise me with cute little gifts here and there and sometimes it's a new sex toy he got from a local store.
05/14/2013
Contributor: LittleBun91 LittleBun91
Boyfriend hasn't...yet. I honestly don't know how I'd react, depends on what he got me.
05/14/2013
Contributor: dancingduo dancingduo
My wife tends to focus more on lingerie than toys. One day she might surprise me. But for now I have been the one getting them.
05/17/2013
Contributor: Otelia Otelia
I have been given special toys for special occasions....and I have done the same....helps dreams come to life.
12/31/2019
Contributor: Perspicace mais érotique Perspicace mais érotique
It sure would be nice to be surprised with a toy....

I'm the one that buys him the surprise toys.

I would love anything.
03/16/2020
Contributor: frisky069 frisky069
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Originally posted by Perspicace mais érotique
It sure would be nice to be surprised with a toy....

I'm the one that buys him the surprise toys.

I would love anything.
This is how I feel!

Although my husband won't use a toy alone, so I'll buy things like cockrings or things we could use together like the toy "passion".

I'm trying to get him to be more open about toys and trying things out.

I'd love for him to get into bdsm a bit. I actually just purchased a collar with a leash, and I have it sitting in front of the TV in the bedroom. I'm going to be mentioning it to him alot to get him to use it with me.
03/16/2020
Contributor: Hermosura21 Hermosura21
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Originally posted by Martiniman
I buy my wife all her sex toys, and although most of them are discussed with her, chosen by her or approved by her before I purchase them, I know her well enough to be comfortable surprising her with a toy. Last week I bought her the Key Nyx ... more
Yes he has, but usually we love to choose them out together.
04/20/2020
Contributor: Bigolefreak Bigolefreak
He doesn’t buy me toys, but I do buy toys for him and I.
04/20/2020
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I buy all of our toys - and have for 25+ years. Although I'd love it if she got involved and surprised me - I have to settle for the fact that she's very open and will try anything that I buy - and I have bought some pretty strange things.
04/20/2020