As a man who loves pegging - I wanted my wife to be able to have an orgasm while doing me. Here's how we achieved thatnerd)

I got a double-up cuff from Aslan to hold the harness straps together as they pass under her vulva. I trimmed one of her favorite silicone dildos so that it fit comfortably between her legs - she likes Vixskin Randy because it's wide but not too long. We slip a vibrating cock ring over the dildo to get that oh so important clitoral stimulation - and whala - orgasm! Not every time - but frequently.

When she's feeling especially horny, we'll add a vibrating butt plug - so there's a lot going on down there - but she loves it.

Currently we use the Cal Exotics Embrace vibrating silicone cock ring and the Hush 1.5" vibrating butt plug.

Good luck!