Well I may have misspoken, what I mean is that we both feel fatigue which both of us enjoy feeling after a rigorous session. we never push it to the point of getting hurt. I agree completely sex is to be pleasurable.

Huge turn on! I just love when someone comes in me, hell, it cranks my motor just thinking about it! And I have no idea why, but it does! I really enjoy the idea of him coming, period, but I guess if he's not inside me it feels less interactive/personal, if that makes sense. The cumming on her then going inside to continue and then come again...wow, very hot!

Now, I have had a man come in me multiple times in a row, several times and because we were young, every session included multiple ejaculations - he had fast recovery, especially when I surprised him by doing things he never expected (like masturbate in front of him because I wasn't ready to stop). Sometimes he kept going and came again without withdrawing (very hot and I loved it!) and others he withdrew, but after a little rest was right back at it. That last happened a few times in a row, so I know what you mean about being filled up. After two times, it's a little harder for me to feel him cumming inside me as it happens, but I have to say I don't have the kind of sensitivity that I can feel every single spurt or anything like that. So, while I feel more wet and squishy, I don't notice a huge difference until I have tons running out of me and getting all over us (not a bad thing, just messy and noticeable. I also didn't know about squirting then, so maybe that happened, too, who knows, but there was lots of semen, that's for sure).

As for preference, I definitely prefer him to come inside me, hands down! It doesn't matter how many times, I never prefer him to come on me (not that I dislike it, I think it can be hot, but I don't get off on it as much as the other). Now if he liked to see himself cum on me, that's another matter and I would enjoy even more because he does, but if given my choice, I want it inside. I didn't realize I had any such interest in that until I actually felt it and wow, I can't go back. It feels amazing and sex with condoms just ruins that for me (not to mention condoms irritate me to no end, no matter how much lube I use, ouch!). Something about the feeling when he cums inside me sets me off and it also feels warm and just wonderful (kind of the same way sinking into a hot bathtub feels good, it just does, it's hard to explain).

If I didn't answer what you wanted to know, just ask me more...obviously I am not shy about this, lol.

Hey Wicked!

Thanks for giving me your perspective!

Being a guy and penetrating the secretary after I have already cum inside of her turns me on to no end. Now the idea of somebody going before me does not really do anything for me (Not that I am putting anybody's turn on down) but when I know shes is as wet as she is because there is a mixture of her AND me inside of her that gets me super hot.

I have always wondered what it felt like for a woman because obviously your body is only so big and when you have a man inside of you after several ejaculations I can imagine that it would not be the same sensation. Also friction after ejaculation causes heat and I know that can make things uncomfortable. Thanks for giving me your perspective on that.

I am also with you with the sex with condoms is not as good as sex without condoms. Thankfully I am married, and we have been for a while so STD's and accidental pregnancy are not an issue between us and she is on birth control while we decide if we are going to have any more kids. Truthfully I don't think we have used a condom since college. (I am so lucky!) I am so used to NOT using condoms I think that it probably would be a major mood killer if we had to reintroduce them. Funny thing though is she always says to me that birth control is 99% effective and if I continue cumming in her multiple times a session we are eventually going to be looking at another mouth to feed. LOL!

The Secretary also loves it when I cum inside of her. I think she feels disappointed if I pull out and cum else were. She likes pleasing me so she wont say anything if its getting me off but in the last 4-5 years we opened up the communication and I let her know that I enjoy myself more when I know doing something a certain way is the way she wants it from the beginning. I know obviously if you are doing it right you will know but also if you are doing it wrong sometimes I have noticed that regardless of what we (men) do at that point (when we find out our little tricks have no effect) there is little we can do to get you to your peak of pleasure if we started off wrong. The truth be told, oral sex has gotten a whole hell of a lot better after lots of talking about it. (Went from me begging to go down on her to her asking frequently for it! YAY! )

I started asking her where she wanted me to cum and when 95% of the time it was inside of her I stopped asking and put the ball in her court. If she wants me to cum anywhere else I let her tell me where to cum.

Also as a guy I can relate to the sinking into a hot bathtub feeling. Obviously entering you ladies feels fantastic warm and wet but also when she rides me and then stays on top of me and lets me leak out of her on to me ( HERE YOU DEAL WITH IT! she says with that devilish look in her eyes.. ) I am still inside of her and our juices flow out of her and all over me and its exactly like a warm bath. Especially we are going for multiples because to me there is no better encouragement than feeling yourself sweaty and cum covered to go another round!

Also thanks for commenting on the fact that feeling the actual orgasm from him turns you on. She has said to me several times that I get super hard the closer I am to having an orgasm. She has said to me several times that she loves the feeling of me getting super hard then the feeling of my body actually ejaculating. That's cool that you enjoy that!

As far as me watching myself cum on her... What I enjoy doing is masturbating with the intent of cumming on her stomach or breasts while she lets me gently rub her clit. I love feeling her get wet massaging her while she enjoys me pleasuring myself waiting for me to erupt. She gets this look of accomplishment when I cum and I have noticed when I lick my fingers during our session she is wetter every time I put my fingers back to work.
So I get rewarded with my own orgasm and I get to taste her on my fingers.
As I said I am a pretty lucky man!

So sorry again for the long winded post! I enjoyed your input and you answered pretty much everything!

Thanks!

I am glad that you enjoyed the topic. That's what I dig about the forums here. You can talk with like minded people who aren't turned off by us being turned on! LOL

I enjoy watching myself cum and I think my wife really gets turned on by it too. Now my only problem is I am very kinky but I just cant get into cumming on my wife's face or in her hair. I just think that is disrespectful. Anywhere else she loves it and I love doing it for her.

I think that's where porn kind of projects the wrong angle. I don't think I have ever met a woman who enjoys taking a cum shot to the face or in her hair and truthfully I cant blame them.

Now as far as oral ejaculation goes.... I have heard all sorts of things over the years different than the believed norm. I know some women don't like guys cumming in their mouths at all, some love the taste and I have even heard of some women who will try to go down as far as they can on their guy so they cum literally down their throats. Now looking at it from my side as being a guy tasting her is 3/4 of the fun. I cant imagine using a dental dam or something of that nature. If I cant taste her I just would rather not have oral. So truthfully I guess I kind of find it weird that some women like performing oral but not having their man cum in their mouths. I guess to take that further I tend to have ALOT of precum so even if I haven't ejaculated yet there is a lot of that going on so its almost the same thing right? I would think so.

I do have to say that the build up then watching the video was pretty fun too! (Not that I got curious after watching it and made myself cum to watch the contractions on myself or anything... LOL)

But as far as watching from the inside I came across this...

link

You may find that kinda hot....

I cannot believe you found that link!! Now, I feel a little ungrateful, but in the spirit of truthfulness, I have to say, I found it not in the least exciting. Did you? I found it looked like it was almost a dry fuck and uncomfortable and I flinched the entire time. The glans didn't bother me, it was the odd walls of the vagina and...dammit, I don't know why I didn't enjoy it, but when I read your message and saw the link, I couldn't wait to see it. Then I did and it was so clinical and not at all arousing, that I stopped before the end I realized I was wincing and all tensed up, LOL!

My husband has done this a few times since we have been together...and its amazing to be able to feel him more than just once..he did say the same thing you did about feeling sore or after the second time when he came it almost hurt when he did. I love the feeling if he cums on me then thrusts back inside just to cum again.

Ahh, IT Guy, looks like Jodi is another person who likes this as much as we do! And it looks like RonLee is very much multi orgasmic as well (lucky guy)!

And you know, I did have a guy mention after cumming a few times in a row from oral that he was sore. I was young though and took it as criticism that I was too rough or something, but now I have a different perspective thanks to this thread. It never really occurred to me that there was anything unusual about him (or my other partners) cumming like that.

To be honest, even though I now understand some, maybe even most men cannot just keep going for round 2,3,4,5,6 I still cannot shake the thought "what? why not? just keep going?".
As far as feeling sore, that's something that I need to be concerned with for my partner not myself. Oh I guess I have had that happen to me when my partner was out of town and I had a lazy day of doing nothing but jerking off. But that was because didn't use enough lube and got a friction burn... LOL
That day when doing that, I'd lost count at ten.
I know, nobody will believe it but that is true nevertheless.

Bro honestly I have to tip my hat to you 4-5 is stretching it out for me and she has never left me wanting more. That's pretty awesome that you can go that many times.

Jodi, thats pretty cool that you enjoy that too. I don't know... I think I may have enjoyed it more than she did... it really turned me on. I love having her before I go to work and having her tell me later on (Like call me at work) that I was leaking out of her for a while before she took her shower. Something about watching yourself cum then cumming again inside of her that's hot. I will never forget her eyes the first time I did it. The surprised look in her face was priceless LOL!

Truth be told for me it really isn't sore as in i'm hurt its more like the feeling you get from a rigorous work out. Its fatigue but it feels great.

And Ron honestly my record for one of those lazy days is 7. Truthfully I never had the chance to go from morning to late night I might have been able to beat 7. Also my 7 was without any lube or toys. I'm sure I could go more now with some toys I have now. I hate to say it but man I love one of those days every once in a while.

Truth be told I wouldn't mind one some time soon! LOL!

Now the only other thing I would have to say is I mean multiple orgasms as in I can literally ejaculate 3-5 times in one session without a break. If it was a fast ejaculation and recovery I completely agree with you. I cant understand why people woulden't keep going. As I said above I like to see how much cum I can fill her with in a day. (She digs that too)

There is something about having her again and feeling me still inside her from the last session that gets me hot. I know... Kinda kinky... Hey no shame in my game!

Ok so.... Since my first post on this she has now suddenly gotten into the multiple orgasm thing.

The other night she got on top and she made me cum twice and then when I said I might not be able to go three times in a row she kind of begged/dared me.... yeah lets say I came a third time and pretty damn quick. Going from eh its alright to lets see how much cum you can fill me with REALLY got me hot. I think to start out with she was a little uneasy because it was new but now shes egging me on!!!! YAY ME!

The funny part is its really got me to start considering how I take care of my body. If I stay hydrated I seem to be able to cum more for her. And by staying up on my vitamins I have that extra mile keep going energy and my circulation has improved. There is nothing like having her slide down on top of me and tell me that I feel harder to the point where I am on the edge of hurting her. (Not that its cool at all that she sometimes is almost hurt by that.)

I guess what I am saying is good health = great sex. I am going to do my best to get myself in my old 3 sports a year high school shape keep on the extra vitamins and make a set amount of water for a goal to drink every day. If she enjoys this as much as I do I want to see how far I can push it!

I also figured out if you are going to cum multiple times, make sure the first time is on her body some place instead of inside her because if you can keep on going the heat will eventually cause friction and make her uncomfortable for the next day. I mean if you can cum your limit in a short time don't bother if she digs it but I go at least 5 minutes between orgasms and if you are on to round three you might be reaching the hurting her phase.(What I have started doing which makes her hot is I pull out and put myself right up against her clit then I cum directly on her clit. She really likes the feeling and and it wont end up bothering her later.) So if she like being filled up like my girl does make sure you only cum inside her the last time or two so she can go the distance with you without irritation.

Like I wrote earlier, you would think that being able to keep going would be great...
However, the reality is that few partners want more than one orgasm. Particularly at the age me and mine are, in our fifties. So I'm left either wanting or jerking off. At least with my current and I hope permanent partner, she doesn't mind that I jerk off after. She's even strapped on a nice silicone dildo and pegged me until I've cum again, which is quite nice.

Congrats on you getting into fitness! I've been on and off with being in tune with my body all my life. Heavy drinking and depression had quite a negative influence for a while, but with my Baby standing with me I've overcome much of that.
BTW Congrats on the wife getting into the multiple orgasm thing!

Hey Ron,

Keep in mind that its awesome that you can do that in your fifties. I want to be able to be in good enough health in my 50's to hang with the likes of you and your partner.

Truth be told its not often she gets me off that I feel wanting or the need to jerk off. But there has been times that has occurred and there has been times that just the thought of finishing myself off has made me want to do it.

I do have to ask though, does the strap on by itself make you cum or do you pleasure yourself while she is doing it? Always wondered that. (I think that is awesome she likes to do that with you!)

Recently over the last few years I have been cutting the drinking way down. It never affected my sex life but I do feel better generally. It's awesome that you have gotten over the drinking and depression, trust me I know thats not easy and its awesome your lady loves you and is into things like you are. There is nothing worse than being kinky without a kinky partner!

And also thanks for the congrats!

Great advice; I will remember that if I am lucky enough to find a partner who's into this like I am. I don't know why, but the whole thing cranks my motor!

Needing to stay really hydrated makes total sense and I love that your wife is now into this after thinking about it for a bit. I would love to have someone so sexually well matched with me!

I sure hope you explore the pegging, or even you wearing a plug while having sex. Have you tried exploring your prostate before? I tend to think you must have, but if not, wow, you are in for some FUN! I look forward to hearing about that and how it affects the multi-orgasmic thing! I imagine you are going to be able to see the back of the inside of your head... before it blows right off, LOL!

And thanks for clarifying about the soreness, now I am not as concerned should I run into more men like those I have been with in the past. I had no idea most men weren't multi-orgasmic because the ones I've been with have been. I would really like more than one and I figure them taking turns would allow one to recover before going again. Now that would really fill me up and might (okay, definitely) would be fun! It'll never happen, but I'm game -- after all, a girl's got to have a dream!

Do you also use any herbal sexual supplements to increase your ejaculation fluid? If so let me know so I can do what you do. What about eating certain vegetables or just drinking more water.

Hey IT guy,
To answer your question, "does the strap on by itself make you cum or do you pleasure yourself while she is doing it?" Sometimes yes! And when that happens it is absolutely spectacular and I'll be uh uh drained for a bit of time too. To have that "hands free" orgasm occur more often I should be on the receiving end for my first one of the session and even more so when I have abstained from orgasm for a day or two prior. Now, given that I'm not one to deny myself self pleasure, abstinence from masturbation is a rare occurrence. Additionally with us, me getting pegged happens far more frequently after our first fuck of the session. So even though it is great to cum hands free from getting pegged, I prefer for her pleasure to take precedence and for her to cum first.

Wicked Wahine quite correctly pointed out that wearing a butt plug to stimulate one's prostate is quite nice. Try it you'll love it.

Hey Wicked!

The weird thing is I think its all mental. I can literally go a few times before we stop what I would consider the first round now. However we used to go a time or two take a shower to relax and then go again a time or two and take another shower. But it was always to completion then starting again. (Yeah... we met in college she had an apartment and instead of going out to bars and parties we drank watched movies at home and habitually had sex. We still do but now we have kids... so much for one of the old non stop sex till your sore weekends!)

Now the difference is that I can continue going after my first full ejaculation but and do it another few times before I am done without pulling out. So I just keep filling her until she wears me out as opposed to going again in a few minutes. She says she can feel me contracting inside of her so even when I don't pull out she can tell when I have cum again. She likes it because she loves feeling our juices get forced out of her because we are running out of room.... It is pretty hot. (Especially when it starts to froth on both of us from being mixed so much....) So truthfully about you saying two guys going after recovering, it seems as if I have no recovery time (when I can pull it off) and once I have had my last orgasm I am done for a while.

Truthfully if you had two of me I would have to go until I was done then swap out because the waiting would slow me down and kill the stimulation enough for that first one to be it for a while. What I am saying is if you give me the time and stimulation I need 3/4 times in one session really isn't that difficult to achieve but if you stop me I have to build up that wave again. If I stop I cant continue again until a full refractory period goes by. The technique I utilize kind of fools my body into thinking I have not cum fully yet. So if I cum then stop (and I am not stimulated) my body thinks its done so I cant stop. I figured that out while going for more than one and being interrupted by a little someone on the other side of a locked door asking for a drink of water. The thing is that if I can fool my body into thinking that it was not the "full" orgasm I can go again almost seconds later and about the same amount.

But during as long as she listens to me I can cum and use her to stimulate me just enough to keep going so I can go again. If she wont allow me to do what I need to do she can shut down the night after just one orgasm which she knows she can do and kind of takes pride in being able to do it. (which I enjoy some times just as much)

As far as the anal toys go I have not used any since I have learned my new trick. Truth is I am kinda dying to try it. As far as pegging goes I don't know if that's in my book of tricks just yet. I think it is awesome that RonLee enjoys pegging and that his partner is into it also!

I have had my prostate played with before and the best part is that I was drunk. We had had sex 3 times earlier in the day and I was pretty sure there was no way she was going to get me hard let alone make me cum because they were some pretty intense sessions. She had a glass toy that she used and she went down on me and that had to be one of my top five if you know what I mean. Full body shaking orgasm. It was awesome! I might have to see how that plays out with a p-spot toy involved.

Hey Mr T!

The truth is I found this whole thing out in the middle of a personal health crisis. I was really sick and weak and I couldn't figure out why. I ended up seeing homeopathic doctor who did some blood tests and I found out I was really really low on some basic minerals and vitamins.

I am no doctor but here is what I added to my diet. B-12, Zinc, L-Arginine, Ginsing, vitamin d, fish oil, and one other amino acid supplement that I cant remember right off the top of my head. Shoot those by your doctor and see what he says and ask him for advice on dosage if he is going to put you in that direction. (Don't just take my word for it too much can be a bad thing!) Also I have been doing a lot of spinach, raw green yellow and red peppers (with hummus) and carrots. (Just because raw veggies are good for you and I like them.)

These things were part of a regimen that got me feeling better and boosted my sex life up. Those things plus water is a HUGE part of it.

Good luck Mr T!

Hey RonLee,

Thanks for the answer! I have always wondered how that works out. I have had my p-spot played with but I have never reached that mythical p-spot orgasm I have heard so much about. (Kinda dissapointed too)

I don't know how much my wife would be into pegging but it sounds like you guys really enjoy it and that's awesome! Its very cool and interesting that by pegging alone you can have an orgasm.

I am also of the mind that pleasing her comes first so I completely understand where you are coming from there.

Thanks for your input Ron! Its always great to learn.

Oh wow, stop turning me on! What was I thinking with the two guy thing? Apparently, I need to hold out for someone with your prodigious powers and output I'm sure I'd be happy with anything, including rest stops at this point, but to be over the top excited? Oh yeah, I know what will do that!

Seriously though, your explanation is so interesting and it makes sense because that's how I am when going for multiples!!! I have to be really turned on and maintain that level to stay there an keep going, otherwise I am down for the count and no amount of trying will do anything other than irritate and hurt. I understand how the lapse in between can give your body time to register that it's come to completion and it's time to shut things down for a bit, or however it's works. (Awww, little one needed a drink! I wonder how many times I interrupted anything as a child, now that I think bout it, lol!) I am surprised that I have a similar type experience when going for my own multis and had you not explained it so well, I would never have realized it could work like that for someone else, let alone a man. I now wonder if RonLee has a similar 'mechanism of action'?

Thanks for answering about the P-spot stuff. You have to know I am now wildly curious to know how your body reacts now to any plugs, either while having sex, or just masturbating. I wonder how it will affect the multiple orgasms?

I can say, for myself, I have recently tried a butt plug for the first time and at first, nothing about it excited me (though it did not hurt). I finally hit on the perfect set up: I had the plug in, plus a slender dildo in my vagina and then I played with my clit...and good God! I no longer could even feel the plug, but when I orgasmed, I was able to go on and on and on, as long as I was squirming on the plug and dildo during it. I mention this because, physiologically, the G-spot tissues are analogous to the P-spot tissues, (developmentally speaking, the tissues that become a prostate in the male, become the G-spot in the female). So, I really am curious how you respond now (with your new and improved healthy bod and sex responses) to the anal stimulation along with everything else. Maybe you will have simply stronger orgasms, or maybe you will have even more multiples before stopping, who knows? But I really hope you experiment and let us know!

As for any possible interest in pegging, remember your wife's initial reaction to the multiple orgasms. Maybe she will need to think on it for a while before coming around, especially if she never before thought about it at all. But, you can have all the P-spot pleasure you want without having to go for pegging, so I'm glad to hear you've explored there before. I know if I had a prostate, I'd be sticking things up my ass all the time! I would not be willing to leave an area of potential pleasure unexplored. I get enough grief from my body that I figure it owes me a good time, whenever I can do so, LOL!

The funny thing wicked is that I was kind of hoping that someone would understand what I meant. All of the men I know brag about how they can get their woman to cum from one session but I have never heard of one of my friends or another guy for that matter say anything resembling what I said above. I guess that's why I posted it.

I ended up getting a toy that I was sent to review called the Wrap Around Sallie. I did the review on it and stated that is actually got me off too quickly and actually would hurt me it made me cum so hard. (With a little more experience I found it to be an awesome toy later but....) The thing is that (I'm not trying to brag or anything) but I am on the large size when it comes to girth and the texture in the toy really pressed hard against me (because it was kinda small) and it drove me nuts. I found that sometimes I could get to an orgasm so quickly that I had to either slow it down to nothing or just go at it really slow. For some reason other toys didn't achieve this result. (I have all sorts of Fleshlights and high dollar toys...Sallie is still is the cheapest and my favorite) Several times I found myself cumming but I found that If I tried to hold it back I would still cum but be able to fool my body into continuing afterwords. After a little while of experimenting (I know what HARD work right LOL) I found that I was able to control it and yet keep the feeling going right into an immediate round 2. Its funny how I stumbled into it by mistake but now that my body is used to the sensation... love it!

As far as the P-Spot goes... My wife for fun and games ordered me several toys just to stimulate the P-Spot and truthfully.... Big disappointment. When she did get me off however with a glass plug... WOW I came really really hard. Funny thing was that she was going down on me with the toy is and its not the easiest to get me off that way. Like came blurry vision hard... LOL. So I think I am kind of curious on how that would feel. I will give updates though LOL!

Its different though to hear that a lady would love to play with a P-Spot if they had one when a guy would love to know what a clitoral orgasm vs a g spot orgasm is like. Man if I could be a woman for a day I would be exploring like I was columbus! LOL I don't think I would ever leave the house...

I am sure if you ask other guys on here they would agree that its kind of disappointing that we don't have as many fun toys as you gals have. Ladies tend to have all of the fun toys. We kinda get stuck with The Fleshlight and similar toys because that's pretty much all that stimulates us. (Other than anal of course) Truthfully I know I have 3 Fleshlights and at least 3 other toys that are similar. Gotta say it gets boring.

Anyway... I am kinda anxious to try some multiples if nothing else to continue this thread LOL!!!

So around May, Wicked and I said that at some point I should try what It would be like having multiple orgasms while masturbating with an anal toy....

About a week ago I got home after having lunch with some friends. I had a few drinks and my wife wasn't home and I was desperately horny. So I got the idea of going for it to see how many times I could cum in one session with the toy. What made it feel extra naughty was that I felt like I was doing it for sort of an experement LOL! I got into the shower took a nice long shower opened up the windows closed the blinds and I threw on a DVD somebody had given me of my favorite red head performer and took my time.

After 4 orgasms within a good half hour 45 minutes I was exhausted. The truth was I was still hard but my body was just past the point of being able to cum again. The toy pressing against my P-Spot made me cum very hard and what really surprised me was the actual amount of cum. Since I was laying on my back on my bed propped up by my liberator pillow I was really covered.

I don't know if it was that I had had the drinks earlier or what it was but I hopped back into the shower took another long hot shower and was super relaxed for the rest of the day. I had that exhausted and slightly sore but glowing feeling.

The best part is when she got home later that night we had sex and I was lasting much longer than she was used to and wanted to know why so I rolled her over then went down on her until she came and then rolled her over for doggy style and finished inside her almost right away. (That's right...eating her out gets me that turned on!!!)

I told her about my afternoon afterwords over a glass of wine and she laughed and said I knew you had been naughty!!!

See I love it when a lady enjoys cum in her or on her when a guy cums. Now keep in mind I think that if you are having sex at home and you can take a shower right away who cares where it ends up as long as both parties enjoy the destination.

On the other hand if its a place where your having sex that you cant get to the shower right away you might want to consider cumming (if she lets you) inside of her or in her mouth or anyplace else so she doesn't have to deal with dried cum on her (unless she digs that) until she gets a chance to wash it off.

I mean truthfully... I love having rough juicy sex then going to work sweaty and covered in her juices. However cum on your stomach or face or something like that can be uncomfortable. Almost like a thin layer or elmers glue LOL!

I mean I think its incredibly sexy to cum inside of her a few times in one session and have her whisper in my ear that I am leaking out of her and its turning her on while shes cooking in the kitchen or out on a date with me.