I'm curious to see what the Eden community thinks of sex and/or masturbation during their time of the month. I know some women are grossed out by period play, as well as some men, and I'd like to know everyone's opinions on the subject.
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Period Play - Do You?
05/28/2012
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Sex and solo play...
05/28/2012
Nothing happens during that time of the month for me.
05/28/2012
time to take it to the shower.
05/28/2012
That is my no no time. Give the girl a time to relax.
05/28/2012
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I am a female and do not view menstruation in the least bit as dirty or gross. A lot of people, especially mean, freak when you even mention your cycle! That comes off to me as very immature. I don't expect all men to be happy to hear about periods, but when you have a female partner, you need to get used to it. It is a reality for us and it's crazy to be grossed out by it. I don't see a big deal about avoiding sex or masturbation during that time.
Originally posted by
alittlebit
I'm curious to see what the Eden community thinks of sex and/or masturbation during their time of the month. I know some women are grossed out by period play, as well as some men, and I'd like to know everyone's opinions on the subject.
For me, my periods are a curse. Seriously. The last thing I could do during mine is sex. I've got a health condition though, that makes mine so miserable. I've gotten a lot better now that I take medication to stop my cycle, but I still have the symptoms, just no... bleeding. Sorry for that. SO I can handle sex and sometimes even enjoy it on my period, but I rarely feel like doing it. Before I had the surgery and meds, I wouldn't be able to leave the house for 2 weeks out of the month and our sex life suffered because I couldn't hardly do it without being in real pain. Now it's better, but it's not the blood part that would gross me out or bother me--it's the pain and just extreme symptoms I have during that time.
As for the blood part, my partner never cared to do ANYTHING while I was. He was still just as happy. I tend to start a mini period every time we get rough so blood happens a lot, only a small amount, but he doesn't care. He says there's no reason to be disgusted by it, which makes me happy because I hate when men freak over the word period or tampon. He's not that way.
I understand the messyness being a pain, and if a woman feels badly or has periods accompanied with pain, I don't think she should ever feel that her own period is gross. It's not. It's not like your pooping! Lol. I think we should be more comfortable with the the reality here that females do go through not-so-gorgeous things. I think too many people view the vagina as less than clean and that should change. If you simply just don't like the blood or feel it's too messy or you don't want to feel like you're causing the female pain, that's totally understandable. I get that. I ust don't think anybody should see it as unclean.
Since I don't have a real period (thank you Jesus!) this doesn't affect my sex life anymore, besides the symptoms around that time. However, since my partner doesn't view me as unclean or gross while I'm menstruating (or when I USED to) I was fine as long as there was no pain. I don't love it or the mess, but it wouldnt deter me from gettin' some! LOL
05/28/2012
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I am open to sexy times if I am feeling up to it. My periods are intense on my body, so my sex life slows down during my periods but it doesn't stop completely.
Originally posted by
alittlebit
I'm curious to see what the Eden community thinks of sex and/or masturbation during their time of the month. I know some women are grossed out by period play, as well as some men, and I'd like to know everyone's opinions on the subject.
05/28/2012
Too messy.
05/28/2012
If I am really in the mood I will do it in the shower. I can't do it on the bed it is just to messy. But I am on the shot now so I don't have to worry about that issue.
05/28/2012
We occasionally have sex while she's on her period - but not most of the time.
05/29/2012
My husband doesn't like to have sex unless the bleeding is very light. That's fine with me-I just masturbate.
05/29/2012
ug...I hate doing anything on my period. Even if it's the last day of my period, if I have some fun my period will come back with a vengeance and start to hurt again. Ug, I always hate my time of the month! I can't test my new toys out!
05/29/2012
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I totally know how that feels! There's been times where I'd feel decent and think we'd be good to have sex only to be doubled over all night afterward! What a bummer!
Originally posted by
ksparkles16
ug...I hate doing anything on my period. Even if it's the last day of my period, if I have some fun my period will come back with a vengeance and start to hurt again. Ug, I always hate my time of the month! I can't test my new toys out!
05/29/2012
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no i dont like it
Originally posted by
alittlebit
I'm curious to see what the Eden community thinks of sex and/or masturbation during their time of the month. I know some women are grossed out by period play, as well as some men, and I'd like to know everyone's opinions on the subject.
05/29/2012
We will occasionally, but only if it's really light.
05/29/2012
We have sex, it doesn't bother him so why not? If I'm really heavy though there are times when I don't want to just because I feel gross.
05/29/2012
I might use my toys in the shower during that time, but that's it. I'm not opposed to it or anything, but it's just too messy and nothing feels as good while I'm on the rag.
05/29/2012
I'm okay with solo and sex (unless I'm feeling really gross).
05/29/2012
The wife uses it as an excuse for anal sex and surprisingly its always her idea.
05/29/2012
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Occasionally, on my heavier days, I really don't feel like it.
Originally posted by
alittlebit
I'm curious to see what the Eden community thinks of sex and/or masturbation during their time of the month. I know some women are grossed out by period play, as well as some men, and I'd like to know everyone's opinions on the subject.
05/29/2012
I'm open to sex but not on my heavier days. It's a mess to clean up, plus I have white sheets so I only do it if I'm really horny and know clean up won't be such a pain.
05/29/2012
nothing happens in our house during that time.
05/30/2012
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It depends. If I'm on my heavy days, nobody plays. At the very beginning or very end, either is fine.
Originally posted by
alittlebit
I'm curious to see what the Eden community thinks of sex and/or masturbation during their time of the month. I know some women are grossed out by period play, as well as some men, and I'd like to know everyone's opinions on the subject.
06/13/2012
Not likely to do it on my period but I have had period sex a few times, when it was really light. It's not a usual thing though and most times, I just don't do anything at all. I'm too tired! lol
06/13/2012
i'll play, but i've never had sex while i'm on my period.
06/13/2012
Yea unless its the first day then im hesitant.
06/14/2012
If it's a light flow, I don't mind sex.
06/14/2012
I really like sex when I had my period because it definitely helped with the cramps and hey as far as the mess is, I always had to have a burgundy towel in the bed anyway because of my terrible flow
06/14/2012
I'll do masturbate by stimulating my clitoris during my period. I won't do anything internal.
My boyfriend and I don't have vaginal sex when I have my period.
My boyfriend and I don't have vaginal sex when I have my period.
06/14/2012
honestly, im fine with masturbating on my period as i never actually penetrate myself. ill have sex as its in the shower since the only real issue y lover and i have with it is the mess it might make.
06/15/2012