We used to live apart during the week and would do the phone sex thing. We took care of ourselves, but when we got to finally see each other, it was on!

I use to travel a lot - and being away was a big problem sexually. I use to write sexy stories for my wife on the long late night flights home. She didn't seem appreciate them much at the time - but since I've stopped traveling it seems that she has started integrating my ideas into our play. Maybe it's on purpose - maybe I just planted some seeds that are finally germinating - either way we're having more fun than ever since I'm not on the road anymore.

BTW - the change in my job status results in less travel - and a lot less income, so having sex all weekend is the only recreation we can afford!

Now there's a double-edged sword for ya!

I play I lot more when I'm on business trips, and I send tones of video and pics to my wife. I tend to get extremely horny when I'm out of town. It makes for a great return.