Role play hints

Role play hints

Hamza323 Hamza323
My partner (F) has just started getting excited about the “daddy” role play.
Appreciate any tips or advice from people/couples with experience
Jun 14, 9:56 pm
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Leil@ Leil@
Quote:
Originally posted by Hamza323
My partner (F) has just started getting excited about the “daddy” role play.
Appreciate any tips or advice from people/couples with experience
The first thing that comes to mind is to play around with punishment for her being a bad girl and reward for being good. I guess, as a punishment, spanking is a great option. Beginning from light smack with your hand or ticklers to more intense spanks with floggers and paddles, you may have a mind-blowing sensory play

As a reward, you may give her a sensual massage enhanced with one of the fantastic body massagers

As a matter of fact, with a wide diversity of sex toys, you may go as far as your imagination allows
Jun 18, 9:10 am
Soundside46 Soundside46
Which one of you wants/supposed to be the daddy?
Jun 18, 11:20 am
Scorpion Scorpion
Me and my wife, we love to feel like real actors and we imagine that we play the main roles in our own movie. We take a video cam, find the "right angle" to the level of the bed - and shoot our video. By the way, the post-viewing of such a home cinema - awakens more and more new feelings and emotions.

The main thing is to be careful if you do not want to repeat the fate of Paris Hilton with her porn video that has bypassed the entire Internet. You need to trust each other to make a joint home video! It is not always worthwhile to think over in advance the plan of actions, roles, costumes, etc. The main thing is not to be shy of your desires, experiment and surprise each other.

Jul 9, 5:14 am
Melissa12 Melissa12
Quote:
Originally posted by Hamza323
My partner (F) has just started getting excited about the “daddy” role play.
Appreciate any tips or advice from people/couples with experience
Yeah, this may be a really interesting experience Tried some with my husband and must admit that it is much more interesting with different sex toys. If you will be ready to try something check unbiased reviews first to choose the best toys for your play
Aug 14, 9:32 am
ZedDeppelin ZedDeppelin
Firstly, I know there is a growing voice against this type of play as they claim it perpetuates pedophilia. I find this to be patently false. In my experience, it's not pretending to be someone's actual father. It's related to dom/sub play: daddy being the authoritative figure would lend itself to the dom position. One of my former partners turned me onto it, calling me daddy out of the blue as a way of letting me know that she was enjoying it so much, that she felt like I was owning the sex and not necessarily her. I've been enjoying it since, and have expanded it to daddy/daughter role play in person or online, but never once fantasizing about actual members of my family.

Secondly, I would ask her about what it is that she finds exciting (without judgment) and basing your role on that. If it's just something the wants to call you in bed as a matter of letting you know her current enjoyment, go with it. If she wants to be dominated, I would discuss with her what else she desires as a submissive, make an agreed set of rules, and of course, agree upon a safe word. If it's actual daddy/daughter fantasy without it being about a real family member, ask if it involves age play, what scenarios she might like to try, costuming, etc.

Third, above all, ask yourself how comfortable you are regardless of her reasons. I don't personally believe in the stigma that it is bad. However, if I were a person was traumatized by sexual abuse from a parent, sibling, or other family member, I may feel differently.
Aug 15, 1:49 pm
QueenofEverything81 QueenofEverything81
Quote:
Originally posted by Hamza323
My partner (F) has just started getting excited about the “daddy” role play.
Appreciate any tips or advice from people/couples with experience
As someone who has an ongoing DDLG relationship I can tell you that it is important to find out what aspects of that style of play appeal it her. Is she interested in the Dom/Sub aspect or the affection/punishment aspect. Some people have a difficult time wrapping their heads around the concept that the term "Daddy" is not incestual but representative of the authoritative, but tender and affectionate responsibility of the Dominant partner and "daughter" is not a fantasy about a child but a submissive partner who is eager to please. Most importantly communicate, discuss limits (these could include ages safe for role play, punishments, reward etc) and set your parameters before hand so you are on the same page.
Aug 15, 1:56 pm
GingerAnn GingerAnn
I agree wholeheartedly with two of the point made before - communication is key and that DDLG play is not inherently incestual. However, you might want to take a deeper look into the motives of your partner - if there is a chance there might be a trauma hidden underneath, you must take care and talk it out, either together or with a specialist. Sorting out any issues that might be present will make your play much more satisfactory.

Good luck!
Aug 19, 4:12 am
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