We had only a little of sex ed in middle school, cant really remember much of the details but they did talk about stds and pregnancy. No kids so dont know about schools. Mine will go to a private school so dont think they will have sex ed.

I actually had it a few times. In fact in first or second grade we had a class covering some of the basics (what boy and girl parts were called) and what to do if an adult "touched you somewhere you didn't like."

I'm a little reluctant to call sex ed classes by that name, frankly. It's more like "puberty ed" or "reproduction ed." Obviously I don't think they should be going all-out in showing how things are done, but I think any responsible sex ed teacher ought to at least give masturbation a little overview (it is a safe way to achieve satisfaction without putting either yourself or others at risk for pregnancy or disease) but most never do, or only cover how boys do it and ignore the girls, or put it in a negative light.

And for Pete's sake, why does no one talk about the clitoris in these classes?! Aside from making sure you can label it on a diagram, I've never heard of a sex ed teacher going over what it's for. I don't think it would kill them to mention, "Oh, by the way girls, if you want an orgasm, start with this thing." I've heard of grown women not knowing what a clitoris is or what it does, and that's just unacceptable.