Are you always the one who suggests having sex, or is it your partner who takes the lead? Do you both suggest it sometimes? With my wife and me, I'm always the one.
Who takes the lead when it comes to suggesting sex in your relationship?
11/22/2012
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I do
11/22/2012
I let my hubby take the lead and then I take it from there...but I do put on my hottest and sexiest outfits when I am definitely ready for romance!! He gets the hint.
11/23/2012
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we both do
Originally posted by
spiced
Are you always the one who suggests having sex, or is it your partner who takes the lead? Do you both suggest it sometimes? With my wife and me, I'm always the one.
11/23/2012
Both but it's me most of the time.
11/23/2012
Mostly myself, both in suggesting and initiating it.
11/23/2012
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Both of us do
Originally posted by
spiced
Are you always the one who suggests having sex, or is it your partner who takes the lead? Do you both suggest it sometimes? With my wife and me, I'm always the one.
11/23/2012
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I think I do but we're both really conservative.
Originally posted by
spiced
Are you always the one who suggests having sex, or is it your partner who takes the lead? Do you both suggest it sometimes? With my wife and me, I'm always the one.
11/23/2012
all on me. I'm the one with the higher sex drive so I have to feel out of he is interested at any given moment. I usually try to keep it light (ie, can it be sextime please?) because often I do get a no! I don't mind nos, but hate it if I get all worked up first!
11/23/2012
Both of us...depends.
11/24/2012
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I guess higher sex drive is the key factor, isn't it? And I guess some people are more sensitive to rejection than others. I'm lucky that my wife almost always says yes. If she asked me, or even hinted, I'd definitely say yes unless I was just exhausted. But she expects me to always ask and I guess your partner expects the same from you.
Originally posted by
jr2012
all on me. I'm the one with the higher sex drive so I have to feel out of he is interested at any given moment. I usually try to keep it light (ie, can it be sextime please?) because often I do get a no! I don't mind nos, but hate it if I
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all on me. I'm the one with the higher sex drive so I have to feel out of he is interested at any given moment. I usually try to keep it light (ie, can it be sextime please?) because often I do get a no! I don't mind nos, but hate it if I get all worked up first!
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11/24/2012
It really depends.
11/24/2012
It used to be mostly my boyfriend, but I find myself being the one starting it now.
11/26/2012
This might sound selfish? But I like it when my bf initiates since he's not very demonstrative of his feelings and it makes me feel desired..but I initiate too every so often
11/30/2012
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Interesting point about feeling desired. I can't help but wonder if that's at least part of why my wife usually waits for me to start things. Thanks!
Originally posted by
nova2014
This might sound selfish? But I like it when my bf initiates since he's not very demonstrative of his feelings and it makes me feel desired..but I initiate too every so often
12/01/2012
I always take the lead, but we're got an established BDSM dynamic.
12/01/2012
The closest my husband has come is "Hey, I don't have to get up early for work tomorrow so..." He implies, but leaves it up to me to initiate it.
12/01/2012
i do
12/01/2012
We both do.
12/01/2012
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