The hotness of Anal... mental or physical?

Contributor: 0letitgrow 0letitgrow
Why is anal hot for you?
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16  (7%)
10  (5%)
178  (81%)
17  (8%)
Total votes: 221
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01/05/2011
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Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
For me it's mainly the physical feeling but there is a mental aspect as well.
01/05/2011
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Other. One cuz it feels good, two for the benefits of prostate massage and cuz it gave a new aspect to our sex life. I hope that one day the wife will want some too.
01/05/2011
Contributor: Yoda Yoda
Definitely both. It looks hot, and it feels hot.
01/05/2011
Contributor: gone77 gone77
I voted both because it's true, but I must admit that it's often more of a mental ting for me. That whole taboo thing. I mean, it's not really anymore in some ways, but it still is in my head.
01/05/2011
Contributor: hornypoet69 hornypoet69
Not really a taboo thing for me. Actually the idea of anal isn't exceptionally attractive to me, sexually. And it's not that it's taboo or wrong, in my mind. It's just not that hot to me, in the same way that vaginas aren't that hot to me. That being said, I do like the sensation of anal stimulation. And it also appeals to me as an act of intimacy and trust. But when I'm watching porn, the anal scenes bore me. Give me kissing, and oral, any day.
01/05/2011
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Both. Sex is always both physical and mental, and anal is no exception.
01/05/2011
Contributor: ZenaidaMacroura ZenaidaMacroura
Definitely both. I like the feel of it, and though it's not really taboo to me, there is a mental aspect to it. It's just hot.
01/05/2011
Contributor: Mr. & Mrs. Peg Mr. & Mrs. Peg
Both, of course. I wouldn't do something dirty that didn't feel good on some level...and the fact that its taboo adds a little as well.
01/05/2011
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
Both. It definitely has an edginess factor that vaginal sex doesn't have for me
01/06/2011
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
It is mostly physical for me. But there is that mental element as well.
01/06/2011
Contributor: AU AU
Both. It is complicated for me. I respond to touch there almost as much as vaginal stimulation, sometimes I like anal stimulation more now. But it wasn't like that earlier on, I had to "get used to it." But it wasn't forced or anything. It was a long process that was a little complicated, took a bit of experimentation. And I'm picky about when I do it (See anal preparation thread?), and that is a bit mental. I never had negative associations exactly, but I like things being somewhat taboo.
01/06/2011
Contributor: 0letitgrow 0letitgrow
Well, the people have spoken... its unanimous.
01/06/2011
Contributor: dv8 dv8
My gf likes anal because she likes being full.
01/06/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
I think the mental and physical are connected. I don't separate them out but I've been with my partner a while so I don't think I can separate out the intimacy there.
01/06/2011
Contributor: Owl Identified Owl Identified
Both for me and my partner, but the mental aspects wins out over the physical for both of us - in terms of giving and receiving.
01/06/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by 0letitgrow
Why is anal hot for you?
Both
01/07/2011
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
For me the mental attraction has nothing to do with it being dirty or naughty. I simply love the feel of my wife penetrating me and wrapping my legs around her. I can't get close like that when I'm penetrating her.
01/07/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
It's definitely both for me! Probably a little more on the physical side.
01/08/2011
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
Definitely both. I really like the way I feel dominated by M when he's screwing me from behind.
01/08/2011
Contributor: 78 78
Quote:
Originally posted by 0letitgrow
Why is anal hot for you?
both
01/08/2011
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
There's sometimes a trace of D/s when I'm on the receiving end of anal play, and while it does feel nice sometimes I don't find it essential. I do like the feeling of really being able to give it all over to her and not feel responsible for anything.
01/08/2011
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
The different feelings of being on the receiving end of anal play are a turn on as well, of course.
01/08/2011
Contributor: Airekah Airekah
The feelings are so intense. I love it mentally and physically.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Navigator Navigator
For me receiving it, it's just a physical thing. (There isn't much left that can make me feel naughty these days. XD) When I watch it happening to someone else, though, the naughty-factor definitely comes into play. It's just awesome.
01/17/2011
Contributor: hive83 hive83
Quote:
Originally posted by 0letitgrow
Why is anal hot for you?
I believe it really is both.
01/18/2011
Contributor: KnK KnK
Quote:
Originally posted by 0letitgrow
Why is anal hot for you?
It's raunchy it's wrong and it feels so good
02/01/2011
Contributor: Woman China Woman China
The feeling is amazing, the feeling of having something in my rear and pussy at the same time??? I would have to say both mental and physically arousing!
02/01/2011
Contributor: bobowaxer bobowaxer
For me it's 50/50, both AWESOME!
03/14/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
I do'nt get off on the nastiness, so mainly just the novelty and the sensations
03/15/2011