(Does anyone else type Fantasys, instead of Fantasies now?)
This is a question I've been thinking about quite deeply for a few months now on a semi-regular basis. And I'm still unsure which side of the fence I'm on, so I turn to you guys to find out your opinions on the matter.
If fantasizing and role-playing is a large part of your lovemaking, have you ever felt like you've taken it as far as you can go and the only thing left to do is actually experience those fantasies in real life?
In the last couple of months, I've kind of had this feeling come over me that we're strong enough, we're into each other enough (more than enough, really) that maybe experiencing some of the things we talk about would be more beneficial than just continuing with the same themes of pillow talk night after night. Not that it's boring, but because we only have limited real world experience, we can only go so far. Like not fulfilling the fantasy somehow deprives of us of the ability to move onto things that might be even more fun. I don't know...what do you guys think?
This is a question I've been thinking about quite deeply for a few months now on a semi-regular basis. And I'm still unsure which side of the fence I'm on, so I turn to you guys to find out your opinions on the matter.
If fantasizing and role-playing is a large part of your lovemaking, have you ever felt like you've taken it as far as you can go and the only thing left to do is actually experience those fantasies in real life?
In the last couple of months, I've kind of had this feeling come over me that we're strong enough, we're into each other enough (more than enough, really) that maybe experiencing some of the things we talk about would be more beneficial than just continuing with the same themes of pillow talk night after night. Not that it's boring, but because we only have limited real world experience, we can only go so far. Like not fulfilling the fantasy somehow deprives of us of the ability to move onto things that might be even more fun. I don't know...what do you guys think?
