Wanna have a Big O but I’m stuck.. Any female advice?

Contributor: Dominica Dominica
Hello everyone,
I am a female in my 30s and I’m looking for advice from other ladies here. Here’s the deal. When I get close to the finish line it often feels like it’s going to be something epic. However, I end up thinking just hey.. is that all?? And I can’t figure out why it’s so. I’m so frustrated. Is there anything I can do about it?

Any tips on how I can improve my orgasms? Now I’m thinking about a Hitachi wand as I’ve heard it can deliver a super intense orgasm, but will it really help to improve the quality instead of the time it takes to come?
11/17/2017
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Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
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Originally posted by Dominica
Hello everyone,I am a female in my 30s and I’m looking for advice from other ladies here. Here’s the deal. When I get close to the finish line it often feels like it’s going to be something epic. However, I end up thinking just hey.. is that all?? ... more
Hi Dominica and welcome to the Eden Family!

As a female, I completely understand what you are talking about. The first thing I've learned for myself is not thinking about the result but enjoy the moment. An unexpected orgasm is the best thing that ever happened to me. Feel your body, enjoy the sensations. The toys can help for sure!

Wand massagers are super intensive and can really bring you that toe-curling O. Another toy I'd recommend you is a double (or even triple) action vibe like the Sweet Indulgence or the Poise.
11/22/2017
Contributor: Dominica Dominica
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Originally posted by Lena Eden
Hi Dominica and welcome to the Eden Family!

As a female, I completely understand what you are talking about. The first thing I've learned for myself is not thinking about the result but enjoy the moment. An unexpected orgasm is the best ... more
Thank you, Lena

I'm glad to hear someone understands me Also thanks for your suggestions. However, not thinking about the results is kind of tricky for me, that's why I consider trying sex toys (to tell the truth, I'm a newbie here ). So, Poise seems to be too much at the moment, and the Sweet Indulgence - I think I may try it.

Still, if to choose, what's better - the power of the Hitachi massager or those special features the Sweet Indulgence can offer?
11/23/2017
Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
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Originally posted by Dominica
Thank you, Lena

I'm glad to hear someone understands me Also thanks for your suggestions. However, not thinking about the results is kind of tricky for me, that's why I consider trying sex toys (to tell the truth, I'm a newbie ... more
I think that these are very different to compare.. The Hitachi wand is primarily a clitoral stimulator, whereas the stimulation of the Sweet Indulgence is more focused on your G-spot + you have an extra 'rabbit ears' bonus for your clit.
11/24/2017
Contributor: Dominica Dominica
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Originally posted by Lena Eden
I think that these are very different to compare.. The Hitachi wand is primarily a clitoral stimulator, whereas the stimulation of the Sweet Indulgence is more focused on your G-spot + you have an extra 'rabbit ears' bonus for your clit.
But if I get some attachment like this one will it be similar? As I'm still not sure what's better to focus on, the G-spot or my clitoris.
11/28/2017
Contributor: Dominica Dominica
Well, it seems I still feel like getting the massager Now the question is what attachment should I choose? Will the one I've mentioned above be ok? Or should I consider the separate attachments? I understand that it depends on each person, but some positive feedback can encourage me
11/28/2017
Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
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Originally posted by Dominica
Well, it seems I still feel like getting the massager Now the question is what attachment should I choose? Will the one I've mentioned above be ok? Or should I consider the separate attachments? I understand that it depends on each person, but ... more
Attachments for Hitachi wand allow you to get a more diverse experience with the toy. The one you've specified and the Curved variant are both good for G-spot stimulation. Getting all three in the kit may be a very profitable purchase.
11/28/2017