Why don't clitoral vibes work for me?!

Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
Considering how many clitoral vibes are sold on here and how many women love them.. I don't understand why my clitoris doesn't. I was all excited to get the Flutter (rabbit vibe), thinking it would be better than the vibrator I had in high school, since it's higher quality. For some reason, vibrations on my clitoris feel so intense, they're painful. If I keep going, I just get numb. I finally was able to come after half an hour or so, but man, was it uncomfortable! I guess I require firm pressure (via a finger) to be able to come. Anyone else like me, or am I just a freak of nature?
12/08/2011
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Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
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Originally posted by bayosgirl
Considering how many clitoral vibes are sold on here and how many women love them.. I don't understand why my clitoris doesn't. I was all excited to get the Flutter (rabbit vibe), thinking it would be better than the vibrator I had in high ... more
I also have a very sensitive clitoris! I really prefer internal stimulus to external stimulus! Everyone's different, but it's just that most women orgasm more easily from clitoral stimulation!
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Contributor: Chirple Chirple
It might be an issue of placement if it's a rabbit, or it might be the frequency / type of vibrations.

There *are* clitoral vibes that are more like a finger, or able to be used with applied pressure. MiMi, tango, wands, bcurious, et cetera. Maybe you could try a cheap bullet if you want to see if it might work without spending a lot ?
12/08/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Chirple
It might be an issue of placement if it's a rabbit, or it might be the frequency / type of vibrations.

There *are* clitoral vibes that are more like a finger, or able to be used with applied pressure. MiMi, tango, wands, bcurious, et ... more
This is pretty much what I was going to suggest too
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Contributor: RavenWolf88 RavenWolf88
Quote:
Originally posted by bayosgirl
Considering how many clitoral vibes are sold on here and how many women love them.. I don't understand why my clitoris doesn't. I was all excited to get the Flutter (rabbit vibe), thinking it would be better than the vibrator I had in high ... more
You are definitely not a freak of nature hun. I am the exact same way. I just tend to ignore vibes for the most part and instead search for something that will provide excellent internal stimulation. That is what I have I prefer anyway.
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