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women, do your men feel uncomfortable about your toys?

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Contributor: No-nita No-nita
Quote:
Originally posted by misterazor
are your men, or women, feel intimidated by your toys, or do they support/join in?
The hubs is kind of the odd man out I guess, because unlike most of the straight men I know, he doesn't ask to be involved with me and my toys and we keep them largely separate from partner sex. He offers to grab one for me every now and then, but I don't usually think to ask; he's enough for me so the thought of grabbing my toys doesn't usually cross my mind. I don't have any "couples" toys, just my vibes and dildos and plugs, and he sure as hell doesn't want to use any of those on himself LOL. So he's not intimidated or disapproving, he's neutral on them I think. But he has expressed confusion at the idea that I would need more than 1 or 2. He doesn't understand how different all the sensations and shapes are I guess.
12/06/2012
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
I have bought every toy my wife owns. I'm very comfortable.
12/06/2012
Contributor: misterazor misterazor
Quote:
Originally posted by nikki0668
He was against the idea of using toys at first, but he soon learned to love using them with me.
you must have done it the right way. what was the trick?
12/06/2012
Contributor: misterazor misterazor
Quote:
Originally posted by *Camoprincess*
My current partner loves using my toys with me which I love as well. I have had partners who never wanted me using my toys in their presence and I have had ones who liked watching me use them but wouldn't use them with me.

As for the do ... more
i wish my wife would get into toys. she just seems to have no interest. she seems not really into even rubbing herself...i've tried putting her hand on her clit and moving it around durring sex...incouraging her to, i don't know, not be shy. she wasn't offput by it, but wasn't into it either. i just wonder sometimes...how some women can be so open, while others are just not. i don't know what conversation this starts...it was just a thought.
12/06/2012
Contributor: misterazor misterazor
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
He was a bit intimidated when I asked him to use my first dildo on me, it was smooth sailing after that.
sometimes we just need a push. nicely done!
12/06/2012
Contributor: misterazor misterazor
Quote:
Originally posted by solitudinarian
Not at all! He likes that I have a healthy sex drive, and knows that seeing me use toys means that he is free to join in if he wants to.
a healthy sex drive is something often taken for granted. so, good for him, and for you as well.
12/06/2012
Contributor: misterazor misterazor
Quote:
Originally posted by Lildrummrgurl7
My partner is very supportive. He teases me for it but he appreciates the free toys I get for him.
does he appreciate the toys, or that they are free? kidding. thanks for the post.
12/06/2012
Contributor: misterazor misterazor
Quote:
Originally posted by kupri
My Fiance actually bought my first toy for me!
what was it, may i ask?
12/06/2012
Contributor: misterazor misterazor
Quote:
Originally posted by No-nita
The hubs is kind of the odd man out I guess, because unlike most of the straight men I know, he doesn't ask to be involved with me and my toys and we keep them largely separate from partner sex. He offers to grab one for me every now and then, ... more
i think he's normal. i do. most guys don't really get it...but are happy if she's happy. that's my thought anyway. i would love if my wife were to get into toys and involve me. she just doesn't show any interest. she knows that i use a plug, but doesn't know how to approach that. maybe some day we will figure it out. thanks for the post.
12/06/2012
Contributor: Rory Rory
My hubby is all for toys. He doesn't care if I use them on myself or if he uses them on me!!
12/08/2012
Contributor: toy review man toy review man
We usually shop together, so we discuss how we are going to use them when making purchases. We have no problem using them when the toys come out to play
12/09/2012
Contributor: Raymaker Raymaker
If you partner feels intimidated by a cyllindrical inanimate object then I think it sounds like a personal problem of his and nothing to trifle yourself with, haha.
12/09/2012
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
He loves toys as much (or more) than I.
12/09/2012
Contributor: satinlady550 satinlady550
Quote:
Originally posted by misterazor
are your men, or women, feel intimidated by your toys, or do they support/join in?
We love playing with my toys together..
12/09/2012
Contributor: Checkmate Checkmate
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
I have bought every toy my wife owns. I'm very comfortable.
Same here!
12/09/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Supportive. He has a bunch of toys too, so it's not like I'm the only one!
12/09/2012
Contributor: cheesewizz cheesewizz
Quote:
Originally posted by misterazor
are your men, or women, feel intimidated by your toys, or do they support/join in?
he's kind of put off by them, especially the ones i name
12/09/2012
Contributor: SilverIsis SilverIsis
I have only had one partner that hsd a negative reaction since I began using them. It was not my toys he was against though. He seemed to have an almost viceral reaction to the idea of using a fleshlight, like a guy is less of a man for using one.
12/09/2012
Contributor: Septimus Septimus
Our toys are a big part of our sex life, and he gets almost as excited as I do whenever I order a new one!
12/09/2012
Contributor: ThorHah ThorHah
Quote:
Originally posted by misterazor
are your men, or women, feel intimidated by your toys, or do they support/join in?
Sometimes he gets jealous, lmao.
12/09/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
I wouldn't feel uncomfortable
12/09/2012
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
I uses toys on her all the time. I wish I could say the same for her. She doesn't help me with my toys.
12/09/2012
Contributor: Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by misterazor
are your men, or women, feel intimidated by your toys, or do they support/join in?
Extremely supportive.
12/09/2012
Contributor: Mikemanz Mikemanz
i love using them on her!
12/09/2012
Contributor: AK Bunny AK Bunny
Quote:
Originally posted by misterazor
are your men, or women, feel intimidated by your toys, or do they support/join in?
I've never had a guy who wasn't as excited as I was about them.
12/09/2012
Contributor: Cream in the Cupcake Cream in the Cupcake
He used them on me.
12/09/2012
Contributor: skeeterlynn skeeterlynn
No problem.
12/09/2012
Contributor: sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
My partner is very supportive.
12/09/2012
Contributor: lainebug lainebug
Quote:
Originally posted by misterazor
are your men, or women, feel intimidated by your toys, or do they support/join in?
Hubby even uses them on me
12/09/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
I have bought every toy my wife owns. I'm very comfortable.
Ditto - I'm her toy mule!
12/10/2012