What Men Really Want!

Do you feel like you don't know what to do when you going down on your guy? Are you confused as to what you should go with your hands? Jessica Drake and a few of her friends answer questions and give tips for real people (from beginner to advanced) on giving better head. If your guy is present, grab the remote so you can pause and practice the tips as you go! If not, you might want to take some notes or better yet, press rewind over and over again. Get ready for a steamy educational experience.
Great for beginners,awesome tips, even a few tips for those who consider themselves to be advanced
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review

If you've ever been on your knees with a cock in your mouth and silently wondered, "Am I doing this right?", stop reading at the end of this sentence, add it to your cart and come right back.

Disc Menu:
~Play Movie (38 minutes)
~Sex Scenes (can be played with or without Jessica Drake's commentary)
~~~~ Beginner Blowjob Techniques (Erik Masterson and Allie Haze in a bathtub - 9 minutes)
~~~~ Advanced Blowjob Techniques (Danny Mountain and Bobbi Starr on a couch - 12 minutes)
~~~~Hand Job Technique (Chris Johnson and Jordan Kingsley on a chair - 10 minutes)
~Trailer (first 2 minutes of the instructional DVD)

Have you ever wondered why men like getting head? Or why some women really enjoy giving blowjobs? Are you curious to know what men really want out of a blowjob? Are you apprehensive about giving or getting a blowjob? Jessica Drake polled over 100 men and asked them what they look for in a blowjob.

Their answers were as follows:
1. No Teeth
2. Lots of Spit or Lube
3. Lots of Enthusiasm

Then Jessica adds a few more to ensure you will enjoy giving head, just as much as he is going to enjoy getting it.
4. A Willing Partner
5. Cleanliness (personal hygiene)
6. No Distractions (no kids, TV, phones)
7. Find Comfortable Positioning

She talks with porn stars: Bobby Starr, Allie Haze, Jordan Kingsley, Chris Johnson, Danny Mountain and Erik Masterson, to answer all your questions and to give you some tips to add to your bag of tricks!

Are you at a loss for finding a perfect position or place to give head? You could always spice things up with Danny Mountain's favorite place to get head, while driving; and those in the cars in front, behind, or the lane beside you are none the wiser. Or try Chris Johnson's favorite position, kneeling in front of your guy with your ass arched in the air, while he is sitting on the sofa or a chair. Erik Masterson suggests blowing your guy while he stands and explains how this position is one where he feels in charge, more masculine, and very dominate; or his second favorite, a slightly modified 69 position. He and Chris explain why both the 69 and girl-kneeling-between-your-legs positions are more visually stimulating while giving them access to your body for mutual pleasure.

Do you like it when your guy caresses your hips, runs his fingers gently up your thighs and worships your body with his hands while he gives you oral? Allie Haze suggests your guy probably likes all those things too. She also reminds us that adding stimulation to other parts of the body will only enhance and increase the state of arousal. Bobby Starr likes to keep them guessing with variety: hands, mouth, lips, tongue, the back of her throat and lots of spit. She suggests watching how a man jerks himself off. By learning what feels good for him and how to mimic his motions, you are ensuring you will always be more exciting than his hand any day. Chris Johnson goes on to explain why he wants a partner to do whatever they can to try to please him, whether it be using one or two hands, or reversing it or even playing with his balls.

They all mention how important reading your partner is and they explain how eye contact is a must; it's a dead give away to whether or not your guy is getting into what you're doing. They also suggest communicating with your partner and asking lots of questions: Does this feel good? Do you like this?

Jessica Drake then gives us a quick peek into power-play positions that can begin to heat things up, whether it be domination or submission. Remember, I said a "quick peek" like 10-15 seconds. She explains why size does matter when giving head. There is something to be said for being averaged-sized, guys! However, if your guy is too big,and you have trouble breathing while giving him head, watch the demonstration section of the DVD. The actors demonstrate everything from how to begin a blowjob, the art of body worship, and teasing him using your hands, lips, and tongue. They demonstrate one-handed and two-handed techniques and how to use penis angles to your advantage. Positions such as the 69, side-spoon, and deep throating positions are also demonstrated.
Jessica has some extra credit tricks to earn brownie points with your guy. She suggests lots of eye contact and even humming or moaning (adding vibration) while he is in your mouth and she reminds us to ask questions, "Do you like this? Does this feel good?" She discusses costume role playing and gives a list of favorites. She goes into great detail on deep throating and Bobby Starr gives advice on learning to relax your throat, breathing and positioning while deep throating. Jessica also discusses prostate play; where the prostate is, how to stimulate it, and technique.

Do you spit or swallow? What are the alternatives? Jessica goes into depth about semen, what it is and why we either like or don't like it in our mouths or on our bodies. She also explains that according to her poll, the majority of men do not care whether or not the girl swallows or spits.

After the movie, you have the option of watching three sex scenes which depict the beginner blowjob, advanced blowjob, and a hand job. I enjoyed watching them first without Jessica's commentary just from the arousal aspect. Afterward, I enjoyed going back and hearing Jessica talk about each technique in detail.

If I had to chose the best piece of advice I thought this Instructional DVD delivered, it would be how Jessica explains that confidence and enthusiasm are more important than technique.

I have been giving blowjobs for many, many years and I can tell you, I am really looking forward to testing out one or two new things I learned from this DVD.

Whether you are a beginner or an old pro looking to polish up your techniques, this instructional DVD is helpful and is pretty steamy for something educational.

For an Eductional DVD, this is one of the best I have seen. At no time, did I feel I was being schooled. I felt like I was talking with close friends about intimate subject matter. It doesn't get better than that for me.

I'm giving this DVD 5 stars.
This product was provided free of charge to the reviewer. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.

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  • Contributor: Airen Wolf
    Sounds like an amazing how to video!
  • Contributor: Mr. Poopy Pants
    Good review, Ladies please take notes...
  • Contributor: Redboxbaby
    @Airen, It is amazing. It is certainly not one of those videos that makes you feel dumb for not knowing something already.
  • Contributor: Lucidity
    Thanks for the great review. This sounds like a killer video.
  • Contributor: ToyTimeTim
    I can't wait for the wife to watch this, I am hoping she picks up on a few things.
  • Contributor: Redboxbaby
    @Lucidity, I thought it was really good!

    @Dwtim, You should watch it together. I wish my husband was home so I could have had one on one practice! I can't wait to test out a new trick!
  • Contributor: KnK
    Glad you liked it. I watched it the day I got it and was unsure how to review an instructional DVD. o_O

    Guess I should make a mental checklist or watch again.
  • Contributor: Redboxbaby
    @Twisted Finger, I was unsure how to write it as well. I can't wait to read your review and see what you thought of the movie!
  • Contributor: Diabolical Kitty
    Great review!
  • Contributor: LilLostLenore
    this looks fun.
  • Contributor: bdvnt
    Excellent review! I'll have to put this one on the list.
  • Contributor: mysecretcollection
    Sounds like something I would pick up!
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