My lover bought this for me in an attempt to bring something new into the bedroom and BOY did it work. I had never done anal before and this was my very first toy. I would recommend this for beginners or those that are struggling to really relax. We started off with just his finger and lube to loosen me up and then worked our way to the toy, again with lube. I’m still getting used to anal and I’ve noticed I can’t always fit the entire plug in if we decide to play with it on a spur of the moment. We found it works best on date night: go out to a 21+ theater for example and then maybe go home and queue up a ton of racy movies to get everyone in the mood. The more excited I am, the more of the toy I can fit in me… So a little planning never hurt (neither does a little wine). I’ve been able to keep the toy in me for quite some time and the beveled end makes it easy to take out. As we experiment with other toys, I’ve noticed some feel quite weird coming out. It’s something to keep in mind when shopping for a starter toy.

The material is quite soft, squishy and kinda sticky. It’s not very flexible but there is some give. It’s not so stiff that you can’t stand up if it’s already inside you. After a few uncomfortable uses, I started to feel some scratching coming from the toy. We took a closer look and the mold at the very tip of the toy had not been smoothed off enough. There was a little extra piece of plastic from when it came off the manufacturing line that was causing me to really dislike and not understand anal. However, my handy lover took a simple file to it and it’s been my most favorite toy ever since. Make sure to look yours over for any defects before use.

I love the shape. It’s small at the tip, just like I need for a beginner. The taper up to a wider spread is very gradual and the apex of the toy is small enough to not get discouraged from trying. It’s smaller than my man’s penis, so the toy isn’t enough to get me ready for the real thing, but he really likes using it on me and helping me work my way into accepting the toy. My favorite part of the toy is the base; it’s a very comfortable feel when it’s completely inside. The base is large enough that I have faith I can keep it inside of me and it won’t fall out unintentionally. It gives me something to “grip” onto if I need to. The end taper is essential in my opinion. If we take the toy out, I want it to feel just as good as when it goes in. This means having a slow and gradual taper back up to the widest part of the toy and then it can come out with ease. As a beginner, this was one aspect of the toy I didn’t think about: how it feels coming out. This toy though is perfect for all areas I may be concerned about. It’s simple, not drastic, and doesn’t commit a new user to too much size before they’re ready.

I think the best thing about this toy is the size. It's not too big. That was my biggest concern when we decided to start trying anal. This toy gets me excited and makes me want more. The holes at the end of the base are convenient to place your fingers in while using the toy on yourself or someone else. I’m not sure if that’s what they were intended for but that’s what we use them for. Our only unfortunate experience with the toy was when we realized there was an extra piece of plastic at the tip that was making me uncomfortable. Since then, we have used the toy over and over.

The plug is relatively simple to care for. Its material washes clean with warm water but also collects lots of dust if accidentally thrown on the floor. We wash it after every use and let it air dry in our bathroom. I wouldn’t use a towel, as the material is the kind of sticky plastic that clings to almost everything. We have taken the toy with us on vacation stored in a regular Ziploc bag (don’t use fabric). We store all of our clean toys in a sexy looking box but there’s lots of other fluff and fabric in there. In the end, we need to wash it before use as well.

Honestly, I didn't look at any of the stuff it came with. I wanted to get down and dirty quick!

We have purchased other plugs since this one but I always come back to the pink one. It just doesn't disappoint!

We were very sad to discover the defect but then very happy to be able to fix it ourselves. My partner really likes to use it on me or watch me use it by myself. Anything to get me practicing my anal!