If you’re new to anal, you’re going to want to hit the back button. This toy is not for the light-hearted. When it first arrived all I could do was stare at it. I’d never in my life thought I’d be intimidated by a sex toy, but there I was. The toy is the size of your forearm. So however big you think it is, it’s bigger.

Now truth be told, the thing was so big I couldn’t even shove it up to my butt. I mostly was too scared even to try it. I did, however, use it as a dildo. If you do use it as a dildo, this might be the biggest BBC you’ll ever encounter. It leaves you with great orgasms, but be careful! With the large size of it, you risk hurting yourself (trust me, I know)

Furthermore, if you use this as a couple, it also might be intimidating to your partner. The first thing my husband said when he saw it was “R.I.P to your butthole.” He was also afraid I wouldn’t be able to “feel” him afterward if I used it vaginally. Spoiler alert, I could. After the time he got used to it, and now he uses it on me (as a dildo). Also, it’s even big for his man hands, so sometimes he has to use two hands for thrusting it in. So make sure you have a firm grip on it when playing. You don’t want it to go sliding everywhere.

Overall, unless you’re used to anal play and prefer bigger toys (or willing to use this as a dildo), you’re going to want to walk away. This isn’t a toy for you. This is an expert's toy. Can bring a lot of ecstasy and powerful orgasms if you can handle it.