Oh Sh*t, what have I done?

I chose this because I like Stainless Steel and its shape. Figured for a large toy be easier to insert due to its pointed tip. It did go in easy, but boy did it ever feel so BIG!
Stainless, Easy Entry, Hefty, Girthy
Wouldn't Mind If Little Heavier, And Slightly Curved
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review


This large toy is for those with anal ambitions and cravings. This is a good choice for anal plug lovers who want to go bigger. Most large anal toys are hard to insert. This one is firm and shaped for easier entry. It will go in quite easily but will be a presence once fully inserted. Your sphincter will pull it in, and your first words will be, "Oh Sh*t, what have I done? "

Very Shiny
4 1/2" insertable and diameter of 1 3/4"
It's very shiny. You can actually see your reflection on it.

For some females, I suppose they can try it vaginally. Looks like the shape will rub the G spot. OW didn't care to try it. She's plenty of female-oriented toys already.
  • Who / How / What
    [ ? ]
    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Solo
    • Temperature play
  • Where
    [ ? ]
    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Campus/roommate living
  • Features
    [ ? ]
    What kind of features does this product offer?
    • Travel friendly
  • Body / part areas
    [ ? ]
    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • Anal
    • G-spot

Material / Texture

This is very finely made. There are no seams or hems or lines anywhere. It is totally smooth. I can't tell if it is solid stainless steel. I think not; otherwise, it would be much heavier. And much more expensive. I think it is probably just coated. The product page says it is metal. No claims of stainless.

Being so smooth it made insertion much easier. I have a silicone toy with texture. That takes some doing to get in any body orifice.

Being metal, of course, is great for body safety. No fears of harboring bacteria. Also easy to clean and sanitize.
    • No odor
    • Not porous at all
    • Very smooth

Design / Shape / Size

As the name suggests, this resembles a pacifier. The tip is tapered quite a bit but not pointed. The tip is designed to part the anus opening gently. It widens out after about 1/2 an inch, then balloons gradually to its widest diameter of 1 3/4". Towards the bottom of the bulb, it tapers down. Between the bulb and the stopper there is a full inch. This design protects the plug from slipping into the rectum and a trip to the ER.

I already have the Rolls Royce of anal plugs in the nJoy Pure Plug 2.0. I decided to also get the Pacifier because of its easy entry design. I love the 2.0, but it's a little chore to get it in. Sometimes I just want a quickie big one. There is a ring at the end for easy removal also. This ring is screwed in and can be removed. More about that later.

Needless to say, the Pacifier and the nJoy Pure Plug 2.0 are not beginner anal toys. Maybe not even some intermediates will like toys this size.

EF Prostate Expert/Heavy Metal Pacifier/ nJoy pp 2.0
My prized metal toys: EF Prostate Expert/ The Pacifier/ nJoy 2.0
    • Ergonomic
    • Futuristic


I already mentioned what I liked about this. The shape is great for easy entry, and the size is excellent. The nice weight adds to the experience also. It's not as heavy as the nJoy but heavier than silicone ones. Like all butt plugs, this feels great when walking around wearing it. As mentioned the big ring is screwed in and can be removed. So if you want, you can use this while sitting. The flared retaining part of the ring screws into and should be good enough to stop the plug from going in your rectum. Disclaimer Note: This is just my observation, and I have not tried it. Don't hold EF or myself accountable if you end up in the ER. I do sit on mine by utilizing a U-shaped pillow.

And of course, if you have great buns on your bum, you can sit on this easily. I almost can, although I don't have great meaty buns.

Ring un-threads out/ End of Pacifier base flares out. That stops toy from entering your rectum
End of Pacifier base flares out. That stops toy from entering your rectum.

This big anal plug can also be used as a warm-up toy to a larger toy. The shape of this is easier to take than the same diameter EF Mega Dildo. Need a little help stretching?

EF Mega, Pacifier, nJoy 2.0 all 1 3/4"
All of these have the same diameter. The Pacifier is the easiest to take.

Care and Maintenance

With metal toys, any lubricant will do. No fears of chemical reactions. Some like silicone-based or coconut oil. I used water-based gel.

I generally leave this one lying on a towel by my sink. When tucked away I'll use the black bag EF included.
Cleaning is a snap, one of best features of metal toys. Once in a while, I'll boil it.
    • Easy to clean
    • Easy to store


The day I received this I was eager to try it out. It went from mailbox to my ukw within minutes. After washing it, I lubed it up. Put a little extra since it's quite hefty. I liked how it felt in my hand. Has some weight to it, but not as heavy as my 2.0 plug.

As I'm not a beginner, I expected it to slide in easily. The tip went in just fine. The bulge part met a little resistance from my sphincter, so I gave a little shove. Next thing you know it can be sucked in and my brain went a little numb. That's when I said, "Oh sh*t!" "It's so big!" After about 30 seconds of mental numbness and anal pressure, I regained consciousness. As expected, my rectum was now very full and happy. I wore it for about 2 hrs. When there came time to remove, I just pulled the ring. It came out much easier than it went in.

The next day I put it in again. This time the pressure was much less. Guess my ukw got used to it quite quickly.
Since its arrival, I have worn it 3-4 times. Sadly the 2.0 is collecting dust. I plan on remedying that soon.

I did take some pics of it in me, but won't display them here. :) (I was wearing my EF Wet Look Mesh briefs though)
This product was provided free of charge to the reviewer. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.

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  • Contributor: Lisset Finnien
    ..I’m looking for a (stainless) steel plug to wear while out and about. The rings on these make it so I can’t sit down really so I will hafta keep looking ...Thank you for the great review
  • Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears
    @L Fisset in the performance section I stated the ring can be screwed off and on. And also about sitting on it. I will add this is not as heavy as the nJoy 2.0
  • Contributor: Lisset Finnien
    OH....I ordered it , and you didn’t lie!!! it’s wonderful!!!! My first metal toy and I don’t think there are enough of them ! I can only wear it laying down or walking around....I’m not gonna take a chance on that flared base by sitting ..it almost disappears when I insert it and I’m afraid of a ER trip Doesn’t seem “flared” enough . But it’s a great yard work / housework plug and I don’t regret buying it.

    Was very very nice a little earlier with a clit vibrator...very nice
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