Spread your cheeks wide.

This is a nice solid butt plug/pacifier for more experienced users. Depending on your desires it can be worn as a plug during sex, under clothing, out and about, or as a prep for anal sex to relax the sphincter muscles. Good for solo or couple play, temperature play and however else you might get creative. If you like heft, girth, and metal, don't hesitate to try.
Metal, hefty, non-porous, tapered, handle
Might be large for beginners
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review


Do you like having your ass penetrated and filled? Stretched? Need a toy to stretch and relax you to prepare for anal sex? Then the Heavy metal pacifier is just the toy for you. Geared towards more advanced users, this toy is fairly large and girthy maxing out at 1 3/4" diameter. That's probably a bit thick for a newbie. Did I mention it's also a hefty 10oz? It feels even heavier in your hand that that. Because of it's metal, it is perfect for temperature play too.

Definitely relax, use lots of lube and take your time inserting this one so you don't hurt yourself.
  • Who / How / What
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    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Couples
    • Solo
    • Temperature play
  • Where
    [ ? ]
    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Anywhere
  • Body / part areas
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    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • Anal
    • Kegels
    • P-spot

Material / Texture

This is made from a solid aluminum alloy that is nickel free. It is smooth, shiny and hefty. You will definitely feel the extra weight of this pressing against your sphincter. Metal is perfect for anal play, as there is a little friction, which makes it easier to insert and remove. Obviously, it is rigid and hard. Also non-porous and safe to share if you sterilize between uses.
    • No odor
    • Not porous at all
    • Smooth

Design / Shape / Size

The design kinda resembles a pacifier and thus the name. It's not unlike other anal plugs out there, except in material and size. It has a narrow tip that gradually widens to a bulb and then tapers back with a good sized flange to prevent full insertion. There is a handle to aid with inserting and removing. You could also attach a tail, string or other decoration devices to the loop if you are into that. The handle unscrews and is removable if you don't want it too.

The size is for experienced users and probably too intimidating for first-timers. I wouldn't say this toy is discreet and particularly travel-friendly, but I would put it in a checked bag if I wanted to take it somewhere on a trip.

In summary the toy measures 5.5" long (4.5 insertable), and 1.75" at the widest point. Weighs in at 10oz. It's a good shape to prevent full insertion (losing inside).
    • Partner play
    • Whimsical / artistic


The toy looks and feels pretty impressive and solid. I have a preference for metal toys, so this ticks a lot of boxes. It's a bit larger than what I use for everyday play, but would fit those occasions when I feel the need to be stretched further. The design is good for gradual penetration, safety and easy insertion/removal. Nothing much to complain about here.
    • Comfortable
    • Easy to use

Care and Maintenance

You can use any cleaning method on this toy. Dishwasher, 10% bleach solution, soap and hot water, toy cleaner. It's easy to care for. You may want to dry it immediately to prevent any rust building up in the screw joint down the road. It comes with a velvet storage pouch, which will help prevent any scratches when storing in a drawer.

It's compatible with any type of lube. Nothing to worry about there.
    • Easy to clean
    • Easy to store
Follow-up commentary
This one is just too much girth for me. I have favorites I enjoy more and which give me more pleasure and movement (Size isn't everything...at least for me). Moved on from this one.
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  • Contributor: Lena Eden
    Thanks for a thorough review! Can you also add some photos of the product?
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